Would you rather be positive or realistic?!
Question: ... A bit of both. I know that that's the 'whimpy' answer to choose, but think about it:
If you're too positive, then you're gonna aim high and most likely, fall hard.
If you're too realistic, you don't set your standards high enough and you'll be holding yourself back.
But also, if you're positive then you have the right mental frame of mind, and face it, you're gonna be happier than someone who is very negative in life.
And if you're realistic then you're sensible and going for what is in your reach.
So basically, it's good to have both (:
Personally, I think I'm a realistic person. Wishing you had something you're never gonna get I could never really handle.
Answers: ... A bit of both. I know that that's the 'whimpy' answer to choose, but think about it:
If you're too positive, then you're gonna aim high and most likely, fall hard.
If you're too realistic, you don't set your standards high enough and you'll be holding yourself back.
But also, if you're positive then you have the right mental frame of mind, and face it, you're gonna be happier than someone who is very negative in life.
And if you're realistic then you're sensible and going for what is in your reach.
So basically, it's good to have both (:
Personally, I think I'm a realistic person. Wishing you had something you're never gonna get I could never really handle.
I'd rather be realistic
I'm positively realistic.
realistic
realistic...
Realistic.
In many cases you can be both
I'm realistic right now and I think I'd like to be positive.Lol. Ignorance sometimes really is bliss.
Positive about being a realist.
positive,
it makes me feel much better even if it's a lie.
realistic
? You can be positive and realistic at the same time.
Realistic. Being positive can be stretch sometimes.
realistic, but if being realistic means being depressed 24/7, then positive.
Realistic.
I'm polarized, what do you think?
A Realist
Thaaaaannnnk Youuuu!!!!!!
It's identical to the whole "mentality"
of those who go into overreactions
if you for one second suggest that
something a politician or media-ite
says is askew.
Suddenly I'm a terrorist or anti-whatever.
Same with those who say, "just think happy
thoughts and everything is fine," and if you
try to discuss rationally, then you're being
pessimistic, etc.
In a way, I'm lucky, I learned young that
those types are in their own place and to
never try to reason with 'em. Flee, I say!
real...
keep it real-dude!
I am always realistic (I try), but...I think that it automatically makes me pessimistic.?
me positive
realistic
u say it like they are exclusive. being positive, u are and can be realistic.
realistic
i don't want to be happy with " what if "
and i cant fool my self
my pain is real
I'm realistic
I am always realistic, my husband is a dreamer.....this is what they mean by opposites attract
Both depending on the situation. I am positive when someone is trying to put me down and realist about my abilities. What about you?
Thanks for the stars