If you knew that your best friends husband is cheating would you tell on him?!


Question: You should first talk to her husband and tell him that you know for sure that you are cheating on yourwife. Tell him I give you a chance to tell yourself to your wife, apologize and promise her that you will never do it again. So you can save their marriage. Tell him that if you don't do this then I will have to tell your wife myself and then it will be harder for you to convince her that you will never cheat on her again.

If he doesn't listens, doesn't admit his wrong doing and calls you liar, then see if some one else whom he respects show him the right way. If nothing works, then you tell your friend on him but before telling her convince her not to take drastic step think hard about your life first before you decide to divorce him.

It is always honorable thing to try to save marriages than rushing into doping some thing that may cause damage to their marriage.


Answers: You should first talk to her husband and tell him that you know for sure that you are cheating on yourwife. Tell him I give you a chance to tell yourself to your wife, apologize and promise her that you will never do it again. So you can save their marriage. Tell him that if you don't do this then I will have to tell your wife myself and then it will be harder for you to convince her that you will never cheat on her again.

If he doesn't listens, doesn't admit his wrong doing and calls you liar, then see if some one else whom he respects show him the right way. If nothing works, then you tell your friend on him but before telling her convince her not to take drastic step think hard about your life first before you decide to divorce him.

It is always honorable thing to try to save marriages than rushing into doping some thing that may cause damage to their marriage.

not unless you have proof

Nah we just drink and have a laugh over it...oops sorry I gave the secret away...lol

yessss because she is my best friend. :)

yes

not if he was cheating with you

Well, probably only if it were my best friend's husband. If it were anyone else's I'd probably mind my own business.
I got enough of my own crap to deal with

Yes because I would expect her to do the same

no...it does not bode well to get between a man and wife...they will both turn on you...

Yes if i had proof, or knew it was for sure.

OMG yes! that is sooo difficult to do but if you do it with some evidence it will be more effective, otherwise she mite jus blow up at you. i did this a few years ago and it didnt go so well until she actually saw them together. soo when you do tell her, which u shud to prevent further infidelities, do it with confidence and evidence. good luck and make sure you r prepared for watever reaction she has. even if she gets pissed, jus sit quietly and wait until she needs to cry on ur shoulder. good luck!!!

no never

not without proof

DUH! I need proof tho

most definatly and i would expect the same in return

yes...

but I would do it sneaky... find a way to let her know what i know... make her think she found out on her own.. then tell her

yes! in an instant. if thats my girl then i would never let her get hurt. or i would confront him and say i know what your doing i think its about time that you told your wife...or else i will. you cheating bastard!!

Of course I would. If it is your best friend then your loyalties are to her and not her husband.

yes, and i would plot with her on how we would get him back

Depends on Situations....!!

Yes, but I would try to get as much proof as possible

I'd tell the cheater that I knew
let him squirm a little and see what happens

I'd ask her "Who's that girl I saw your Husband hanging around with?" She can take it from there. OOOPPS! Did I say something I shouldn't have? My bad!

yeah, only if i had a picture of them makin out... or something like that... ahem. back to work, now.

o- thats a toughy. that could ruin your relationship, but, get some proof, and tell her as a friend, be open and honest. tell her that you didnt want he to get hurt, but you shoul tell her, when you have proof....
hope it helps and good luck, you're gonna need it!
M

if shes your best friend ...yes i would tell

That's difficult. The messenger always gets shot. But If you're found out that you knew and didn't say anything, that's not right either.

if you know for sure speak to him first tell him that yo know he is cheating and if he doesn't tell his wife (your friend) you will

You better be absolutely certain before you put your what ever into it. If I thought my best friend had not cheated on him yes; perhaps they have an understanding; perhaps you better do some research; perhaps you should mind your own dam business. Tricky business these days; people have kids before they get married; people live with each other and never get married; others want their own kids to be ring bearers at their wedding so why do you think everything is perfect in someone elses yard---even though your yard may be perfect; and I do hope so---cause, payback is a ***** when it comes to meddling in other peoples relationship. Best to mind your own business, you won't have to sleep with one eye open.

The use of the word "knew" means you should use "was" not "is". If you said "know" than you could have said "is"
Such bad grammer.....hold on this isn't a grammer question is it oh I see...umm...cheating at what poker, blackjack?
If you mean on his wife she probably already knows, if you know he cant be being that discrete. If she doesn't its best they separate as they never really were together.

you are damned if you do and damned if you don't, you know what I mean. I think I'd confront the cheating basta, uh the husband first and let him know that I know and it's putting me in a kind of pickle. The wife, being my best friend and all, she should know, but I don't wan't to tell her the bad news. If their marriage was rocky anyway and she suspected it, I'd just tell her that ya, I have proof that he's an ayehole and I'll help her find a good lawyer.
Gosh what a tough situation to be in. Are you in that situation? The best of luck to you!



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