If what comes around goes around....?!
Question: is it just a neverending vicious cycle?
Answers: is it just a neverending vicious cycle?
Spot on! Everything old is new again. Hence the term "retro!"
yup....
yes it is!
yes thats why people say karma is a *****
That's the beauty of it.
exactly
pretty much, good luck escaping karma
yeah you got it
yea, you got that correct.
Oh how I love karma...... It always comes back to haunt you 10 fold sometimes. either a good way or the worst. I am waiting for it to hit a co work, a well deserved karma and not the good one either....
YES!! That is why I do not do anything to hurt the next person because sure thing it will come back to you 10 times harder and worse than you did it to the next person. But say you did some thing good for that person then yes it will come back to you,some thing good.
Life is a circle but not in the way you think. What goes around comes around is wrong because it means that life is fair. And we all know it is not. So is the common misunderstanding of Karma. Life would be beautiful if all it took to be treated fairly is to treat others fairly. But that is la la land.
There are two kinds of people in the world. Aggressive people and kind people. The aggressive kill the kind. In that sense life is a circle. In older couples an aggressive spouse is a death sentence. IMHO they die between 8 and 10 years younger that the more aggressive spouse. As recently as two hundred years ago the average lifespan was only mercifully 35 years old. Now with the "miracle" of medical science the average age has doubled allowing the kind to suffer much longer, Psychologists who after discovering that the "talking cure" cures them of their financial problems but little else, have been are keeping the kind alive with anti-depressants while the happy narcisissts (aggressive people) live longer, grow a bit happier and live better, too mean to die.
That is the real circle. This is not popular because there is no hope. But that is life. Recently, an article was reported in the front page of the Washington Post. Geneticists had discovered what they believed to be the "kind" gene. The Post article was eventually squashed after that. Along with the parts that said "tests on rats showed rats have more compassion for each other then we find in humans."Seems like it is popular to have hope. Before that discovery, only the ink blot test was used. Meaning, "Can you find humanity in inhumane inkspots?" Only the kind could. The aggressive couldn't. Ignore Freud, he was insane. His theory of the unconscious is that it hates everyone. Nobody knows what is going on because the aggressive pretend to be kind so they are appealing and the kind pretend to be aggressive so they are not appealing as doormats. Which, of course, they are.
Kind people know the truth but don't have the heart to tell it. When you have not much to hide the Id and the Super Ego don't have much to do since they only get rid of what they don't want. In the aggressive, the Id and Super Ego work overtime getting rid of this and that and leaving psychotic and superficially clever, plausible, self centered deviations from truth to sooth the Id and Ego. For instance, aggressive psycholgists don't admit that therapy is just glorified back biting banned in the Ten Commandmants, no, Instead they say "It's okay to express your feelings" (For 150.00 per hour). Sounds harmless. Maybe we should change the Ten Commandmants from "Do not bear false witness against thy neighbor" "It's okay to express your feelings".
In this context, you can see the many day to day debilitating effects the aggressive have on the kind. The phrase What goes around comes around is ridiculous. It is more true for aggressive people who set aside personal aggression only long enough to form hostile alliances. True in the kind in the "in one ear and out the other" defense or some distancing from the aggressive. but the kind normally don't leave relationships without permission. When aggressive leave it is just a bad end to a very bad investment of time. Time is love, money is not. We give time and lend money. The kind end up with no time and little money. Opposites attract early in live, someone has to love the kids, then repel when birds of a feather start flocking together. Aggressive with aggressive and the dwindling kind with the dwindling kind.
Life is a circle. Just not an appealing one. What is nice is the smile of a child. A chance to create a legacy. Your legacy. And perhaps a chance to protect the kind. Just remember to be also kind to the ones who kill the kind. Kind people are funny that way. They can get very ferocious about protecting the ones close to them. Whether they deserve it or not. They also despair over not being able to protect the ones not close to them, ......quietly.