Beautiful...for a black girl?!


Question: I really hope this doesn't offend anyone, because that is not the intention at all:

Not to sound narcissistic, but people tell me that I am pretty all the time, and I know I am an attractive woman. But I have found that white guys always feel the need to say "You're the prettiest BLACK girl I've ever seen" or "you're one of the hottest black girl ever". I have even heard that from white women.

Why do I have to be pretty for a "black girl"? Why can't I just be a pretty girl? What is it with white guys and the need to categorize beauty??


Answers: I really hope this doesn't offend anyone, because that is not the intention at all:

Not to sound narcissistic, but people tell me that I am pretty all the time, and I know I am an attractive woman. But I have found that white guys always feel the need to say "You're the prettiest BLACK girl I've ever seen" or "you're one of the hottest black girl ever". I have even heard that from white women.

Why do I have to be pretty for a "black girl"? Why can't I just be a pretty girl? What is it with white guys and the need to categorize beauty??

you're beautiful - period.

I think your beautiful woman, u go girl!

I get what you're saying. As a Caucasian male, allow me to say that when it comes to people, especially ladies..

I'm colour blind. Beauty is beauty.
:)

I think it may be because black girls and white girls have a completely different look, usually the kind of guy that is attracted to black girls is usually not attracted to white girls because they are so different. But I totally see where your coming from... and you are beautiful!, for a person....

I would just say you are an attractive woman. But some people seem to need to put a race in the answer. I have seen AA guys say that a Caucasian girl " is a hot white girl"

I have black guys tell me the same thing (except they say white girl). I don't like it either! I don't tell them that they're a really attractive BLACK guy, why should they need to emphasize the fact that I'm white?

i know people that have said things like that, but they also says like to about bigger people. i really don't get it. i dont say things like that.

i've had black guys & black girls tell me that i'm cool or pretty or whatever "for a white girl". so, it's all the same.

I have to say you're beutiful and cute. I get what you're trying to say. Maybe it's because they don't see to often people like you and only celebrities (Beyoncé, Tyra etc). You don't offend anyone with your question, I think.
I think all kind of women are beautiful in their own way!

People that say that are uneducated. Don't even think about it twice.

I hate being told I am pretty good looking for a mom. Totally feel where you are coming from. I know they have the best of intentions but still.

because white guys are stupid. that's why I only date black guys.

It's ingrained in them from child hood. I don't understand it either. Yes you are a very pretty young lady. Color should have no place in it. That would be like You're pretty for a white chick. What the deuce. We're all people so let's not say it anymore. Ya, right like you can stop them. Maybe someday in the far future, but not now. And I'm white. See how we tend to differentiate when color is mentioned. I just wanted to add that for the record.

They`ve seen prettier white girls...

I'm not racist what so ever, but my guy friends usually think black women are ugly.



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