Poll: Do you think women who complain about guys always mistreating them, have a!
Question: I would think that if any woman is constantly complaining that all or most of the men she has been with have done her wrong, then maybe the problem is in who she is choosing to date. Anyone else agree or what are your comments?
Answers: I would think that if any woman is constantly complaining that all or most of the men she has been with have done her wrong, then maybe the problem is in who she is choosing to date. Anyone else agree or what are your comments?
Cause ladies
love outlaws
like babies
love stray dogs
ladies touch babies
like a banker touches gold
outlaws touch ladies
somewhere deep down in their souls.
Those women are neurotic.
I always complain but i know its my own fault for my cr@p selection on men!
I agree--you have a choice. Thats why I'm so darn picky.
You're pretty much right. Good girl picks bad boy because he's exciting.
well usually im all jokes and fun, but i must put my serious zipper on and comment.
if a abusive son of a batch for a dad abuses his daughter, hits, drinks all the time, bad influence kinda guy does not help her.. the girls not gonna find the "nice, pays bill on time guy" for awhile, but she will kind thug a-holes just like her dad... not the case all the time, but it is a selection problem, its the parents who must influence their kids the right way.. hell look at the michael jacksons dad,... jehovah witness dude.. accused of sex with minors himself!.
but i think it really depends on what envirement the girl/guy was in.
Yes
Low self esteem, and picking losers is some times ends in a
miserable life. The law should dictate they get help. The hell with the abuser. Throw him in jail for 5 years.
I totally agree. I think some women go after guys that are "bad boys", thinking they could change them. Then when they get screwed over, all of us men get blamed.
it's just what there attracted to. The one's that I do know, dump what I consider to be good men (working, taking care of business, around to please thei rwomen etc..) and "fall in love" with the ones who do them wrong( try to beat on them, cheat, lie etc..)and of course, they come and complain to me.
I'm EXTREMELY selective, and have been screwed over by people who I have given my ALL to. I didn't make them go through an intense psychological screening process... If I had I wouldn't be where I'm at now. Both men I got involved with had past issues with women screwing THEM over(which they took out on me).... Had I known this as well as the point previously mentioned I would have ran for dear life. Unfortunately, people don't disclose all of their past baggage for fear of rejection. It's better to be honest about it in the beginning instead of waiting until the person is "in love" with you to disclose the reasons why you are emotionally incapable of returning the sentiment. Seriously, if you know you have issues with intimacy.... Why get into a relationship, which is the ultimate display of intimacy? I'm just dumbfounded. Why get involved when you are incapable of fully giving yourself to another???? It makes no sense to me, but I have had the luck of dating TWO men just like described above.
Agreed. These women are attracted to the same type of man, subconsciously knowing that he 'will do her wrong'. They perpetuate negative behavior and relationships. In fact, often they will alter their personalities to become victims. When pointed out, they will deny their culpability and insist it's the others fault.
I think everyone is forgetting one thing...
(This from my own experience with women mistreating me...)
Sometimes...at first...your mate is pretty good...but over time...they either change...or stop their "courtship good acting behavior" and turn into themselves, who are REALLY mean people deep down who hid their "dark side" very well for a while...
But by that time...you've moved in with them, and the relation "ship" is well away from shore, and headed out to the deepest parts of the ocean...and that's when the hurricane hits you, as well as some unexpected weirdness from The Bermuda Triangle of Love...
Not to mention hitting an "Iceberg of Inequity..."
So...it's not always you're "choosing badly" that is the reason...luck has a lot to do with finding the right person...
Let's not blame everything on "personality flaws..."
i think i do
I think this is too complex an issue to be nailed down to one or two points. But many here have valid observations, so I gave most a thumbs up in support.
I agree.
I agree 100%. I don't want to judge people but usually these women are the ones who usually go for bad boys. Some of them are not aware they're in this relationship pattern, if it hurts them more than it makes them happy then it's about them they evaluate their choices in dating.
It's a "vicious cycle" honey ! You can also refer to it as "Karma".
I most definitely agree. Added though... too many women would rather complain and get attention than to stand up and demand the respect they deserve. I had a bad relationship in the past, and the first thing I told my hubby when we started dating was that if he ever laid a hand on me he would leave in a body bag. If he ever disrespected me, he would have to say goodbye to the tremendous nads that made him think he had the right to do so.
sometimes thay do i agree
I have heard it said that most women marry their "dads", and men marry their "moms". i wouldn't argue with that.