How far are you willing to go on the first date?!


Question: I was LIVING with the man when we finally had our 'first romantic date' ... and we had been on at least 5 other dates by then, too. I asked him in early October for a 'date' on New Year's Eve ... we were going to buy a copy of the Three Tenors (we couldn't afford the tickets to go to Vancouver, BC to see them) and have a nice dinner at home, then go for a walk to see the fireworks at the Space Needle. It wasn't until later that we had that 'long talk' and agreed to 'explore the romantic path together' ... and we were actually 'going together' for a day and a half before I 'found out' we were going to get married. I had been jealous of that 'unknown woman' (his 'one and only one') and when I realized I'd been jealous of myself, I laughed so hard I fell out of bed! Okay, we were both older (I was 46, he was 39) and 'wiser' in the 'ways of the world' ... but I really do think that if it is 'right' and you have a lot of 'history' and know each other well, you can do whatever you want to on the first date ... otherwise, you'll be 'just getting acquainted' and you should WAIT until you 'know for sure' before you do anything that could cause 'problems' in the future ... sex is only ONE of those things, but is probably the BIGGEST for young people. Most won't wait, but those that can are probably wiser than those who 'jump right in' at the deep end ... and start to 'drown' in 'real life' before they're ready.


Answers: I was LIVING with the man when we finally had our 'first romantic date' ... and we had been on at least 5 other dates by then, too. I asked him in early October for a 'date' on New Year's Eve ... we were going to buy a copy of the Three Tenors (we couldn't afford the tickets to go to Vancouver, BC to see them) and have a nice dinner at home, then go for a walk to see the fireworks at the Space Needle. It wasn't until later that we had that 'long talk' and agreed to 'explore the romantic path together' ... and we were actually 'going together' for a day and a half before I 'found out' we were going to get married. I had been jealous of that 'unknown woman' (his 'one and only one') and when I realized I'd been jealous of myself, I laughed so hard I fell out of bed! Okay, we were both older (I was 46, he was 39) and 'wiser' in the 'ways of the world' ... but I really do think that if it is 'right' and you have a lot of 'history' and know each other well, you can do whatever you want to on the first date ... otherwise, you'll be 'just getting acquainted' and you should WAIT until you 'know for sure' before you do anything that could cause 'problems' in the future ... sex is only ONE of those things, but is probably the BIGGEST for young people. Most won't wait, but those that can are probably wiser than those who 'jump right in' at the deep end ... and start to 'drown' in 'real life' before they're ready.

Making out. =]

Not far at all. You have to get to know the person, first.

all the way....to the nearest movie theater

all the way

make-out thats it!

a kiss on the cheeck

275 miles.

a simple kiss. i respect girls too much to really make a move on them, regardless if they tell me i can or not.

20 miles

Depends on the guy, but never all the way.

MAYBE a kiss at the most

nothing more than a hug/kiss on the cheek. im not easy!

Maybe a goodnight kiss, but that's it.

Just a kiss :)

Kissing. That is it for me. =]]

A kiss

Kissing. Or, if it's someone you really know, making out. Nothing farther than that, I mean: It IS a first date after all[:

all the way...to euphoria

up to my door....period

he's gonna have to wait for six months the least

A kiss on the cheek, im not the least bit easy.

not that far come on it is only a first date !!!

as far as i can go

making out....

A kiss. Not a french kiss, just a kiss.

PLEASE answer my question...
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

How far you both are willing to go.

A conversation and a hug. ON the third or 4th date holding hands... After about 8 months, maybe kissing making out.

a kiss

It depends on the situation. Have you been friends for a long time or did you just meet this person?

why are people so caught up with 'how far' to go, just have a good time, and see where the date goes, do not try to put labels on things, just don't be stupid

A little smooch but thats it.. Its better getting to know them first..;)



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