Is it cheating if your spouse looks at poronography?!


Question: My first instinct is to say no... but then I realize that husband and wife should be the ones to set boundaries on their relationship. Relationship boundaries and comfort level are determined by things like culture, individual beliefs, and religion. This is something that should be discussed between the particular couple. While it might not technically be "cheating" it can still be viewed as a betrayal if it bothers the other person.


Answers: My first instinct is to say no... but then I realize that husband and wife should be the ones to set boundaries on their relationship. Relationship boundaries and comfort level are determined by things like culture, individual beliefs, and religion. This is something that should be discussed between the particular couple. While it might not technically be "cheating" it can still be viewed as a betrayal if it bothers the other person.

no but if it's excessive, that's a prollem

Hell No!

no. its all a fantasy. all guys do it, seriously

nope

not unless they ignore you to do it

No... but if it makes you uncomfortable, then you should definitely talk about it. =)

I wouldn't call it cheating, but if it's causing marriage frustrations, then it's probabaly almost equally as damaging as adultery...goodluck

No.

Not unless it takes the place of your time together.

no but too much of it is a problem

No, in fact we've left pictures on the desktop for the other to see once in awhile. Not that either of us look often. But if we find something interesting we leave it for the other to see.

It may be hurtful, but I do not think it is cheating.

To me, that depends on the other spouse. Personally, I have never had a problem with porn or strip clubs and such - so long as it doesn't interfere with how my SO treats me.

If it's taking love and attention away from the other partner, then it's a problem.

No but dont hide it from her

Oh god no, join them and enjoy. Get over it.

Maybe you should take a few pointers from what he/she is looking at.

no you just aint giving him enough.

What is poronography? Is it porn for morons...
Maybe if he didn't he would really go out and cheat. Which of the two of the evils would you prefer.
Cut him some slack. He does have needs you know.

No...Just because your on a Diet that doen't mean you can"t look at the Menu.....................

not if its every once in a while but if its all the time I would consider that a problem

its cheating if your spouse if they despise it and you still go ahead and watch it!

Not exactly. But, if it is all he or she does and it is interferring with their life, then they have a problem. Other than that, porn shouldn't be considered cheating.

I don't think so

no

I feel it is indecent act either husband watch pornography. Benefits of watching pornography are less as compare to losses. It is just increasing more frustration and nothing else.

I never had a big problem with it but once it took all attention alway from me it became one. I hate porn with all the passion there is in me now....as well as f*cking snowmobiles..

It would be to me but I am uptight and jealous.

Is it ok to fantasize about someone when making love to your spouse? Would that be cheating?

If your spouse is looking at pornography at your house.
Be glad the spouse is not at the bar or picking them off the
streets, even though it is still wrong. <}:-})

not at all and it can be a healthy boost for the sexual drive. but if the person looking needs it to have sex.. its porn to get aroused or even interested then it is a problem.



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