Well I suppose Karma would be one (unkind) theory....
hmmm... Well life can be upsetting at times, however, the fairness is something you can control. You have to look at life sometimes from the outside in. Look at it from others point of view and not your own. Fairness shouldn't be defined as "me getting everything I need". Fairness, after much maturity, should be though of as achieving Maslow's Hierarchy. You know having your basic needs to sustain life. Then look at who is passing judgment on you and who is discriminating. Often there is an underline reason or a very obvious reason that has nothing to do with singling you out.
Just be patient and you will see that life goes in cycles and just like life sucks right now soon you will be very happy. Make sure to surround yourself with positive uplifting people and give your self a goal and work towards it. That way you don't have time to worry about who is treating you fairly.
Here's a good tip: don't sweat the small stuff. Is the issue that is causing all of this sorrow really hurting you or is it just your emotions getting the best of you?
Good Luck!
yea i know the feeling...just remember everything is alright in the end and if its not alright its not the end..
lots
99 times ....
when the time has come that it's like me against the world or when the pain and humiliation is unbearable and too much for you to handle
just dont get worked up by things as much and u can last forever.
Some ppl go crazy over a spilt drink, i just go "meh" then wipe it up. Follow the same philosophy lol and ur set!
u must be mad to live this life, the sooner the better!
just don't lose hope hun.. rainbows shine after a stormy rain
How many times can one go on a pity kick before waking up and realizeing that not everything in their life is bad. And that some of what doesn't turn out is just life and others are the choices that person makes. And when will that person realize how much better off they are than so many people.
Perhaps that person should get off the pity kick and head down to a burn unit and watch someone have dead skin scraped off while they are screaming in agony because no amount of meds work anymore.
Or go to a nursing home and watch the embarrassment and shame in a person's eyes when they have to be cleaned like a baby. Because old age is not always dignified.
Or go to the funeral of an infant whose father has literally raped the child to death.
Or talk to a child missing limbs because their mother thought her abortion was complete only to find out they only sucked out a few limbs. And tell that child how bad off you are. Then answer why their mother wanted to kill them.
I say, your life is what you make of it. If you think your life is bad, it will be.
I think it all depends on you! How much can you take? Can you keep trying? Are things in perspective?
I heard that life is never all good or all bad. For example, people who have horrible childhoods have used up all their bad karma, or paid back everything they did wrong from a past life, and the rest of their lives are easy sailing. Sometimes, people who have had great luck and fortune will start to have bad luck because that is the balance.
This helps me when I am feeling down, I ask myself, is there someone less fortunate than me? Life may be crappy but I still got a roof over my head, food in my stomach, and my health. I've been homeless before but I remind myself, at least I have more than the starving and sick children in third world countries, why am I feeling bad for myself? I can change myself, my situation and then my life will change.
Dunno if any of that helped but good luck and remember to keep the faith! Smile thru the rain until the sun comes out. Remember, the sun shines on everyone!
at time i know how you feel
It time to give up control matey, hand over the wheel to someone else for a while and just ride... as said, whatever doesn't kill us makes us stronger, so sit back and lick you wounds, heal your spirit and get zen about it- sometimes its all you can do to keep from going over the edge
life is never fair but it makes us appreciate the things in our life that is