Would you get involved with someone who has children?!
Question: It really truely depends on the situation.
Things to remember when you do:
The other parent will always be involved or around.(depending)
People with children do not have as much time as people without.
The child usually always comes first, so no room for jealously.
Plans could get cancelled from time to time.
The good part?
If you like children and that person lets you meet them..it might be enjoyable for you.
Answers: It really truely depends on the situation.
Things to remember when you do:
The other parent will always be involved or around.(depending)
People with children do not have as much time as people without.
The child usually always comes first, so no room for jealously.
Plans could get cancelled from time to time.
The good part?
If you like children and that person lets you meet them..it might be enjoyable for you.
if I was 30 years old, yes
Probably not before I had a child, but if I wasn't married, I would definitely consider somebody who has children.
yep
Yes. But not at my age.
why not?
ya why not,it shouldn't really matter if you really like them!
no, but personally just because I don't like children
why not
Yes. I never thought I would but I'm okay with it. It makes a big difference though, if the parents weren't together that long and if they BOTH moved on or not.
no... i don't want my own children i certainly don't want someone else's some people just aren't meant to have kids but thats just me
I have an intense crush on someone who has 4 children. I don't hold children against a person when I date.
I dont know! Why are you asking me this?
Depends on if you love the person or not, and how well you get along with thier children........
No, it's not the right time in my life for children....but I don't see a problem with it.
God no! Ben there, done that (as the saying goes...). It is nothing but a pure nightmare.
You can't choose who you fall in love with.
probably not.
15.
Yes. I have before and loved the children.
I did and it worked out fine > I have two myself that are grown and gone!
Ahhhhhh...very familiar with this one. I am the one with the child and have never found it to be an issue. Her dad passed away 7 years ago. I've dated a few guys and about a yr ago, found the love of my life....he never had kids. We bought a house together and are getting married next year! If he had "passed" on me because I had a child, I wouldn't have what I do now, my best friend.
I think it's really a personal decision. I don't think that you should back away because someone has a child, but you need to do what feels right for you. Of course you don't want to get mixed up in any "baby momma drama" so, I'd scope that out first. Take it slow. Neither you or the kid need to feel pressured....that creates a whole lot of tension you won't need.
Hope that helped!
not if I had to play "daddy"
Unless I had some yes so it would be equal.
But no too much to deal with baby moms and trying to have the kids like you ect and your the bad one...never been in one but thats what my friends say so I want be geting into one.
Only if he has a really good personality. If not, then I probably wouldn't.
Yes I did 23 years ago and I'm still with them today and I have 2 kids with her
It depends if the children are older or younger.
It depends on a lot of things.
How mature are you? What kind of relationship does the parent have with the children? Are they spoiled rotten? Will you be able to say no to them without creating WW3?
What age are the kids? If they are very young it is easier. They will adapt. If they are teenagers they likely will resent you.
Are you ready to be a mom? Do you even WANT kids? Have you ever taken care of kids and know how demanding it can be?
Are you a giving type of person or a somewhat self-centered type of person. This requires great honesty.
Is the parent just looking for a mom who will take care of all the nasty stuff related to parenting? Will they dump the kids in your lap and say whew?
You need to know this person VERY well before jumping in. You need to spend time with the family ....a lot of time...to see how you fit in. Don't rush. It's a big step.
yes of corse
there are a lot of lone parent out there mine wood be are they safe we just dont no ?
Heck yeah. I love kids.
BUT ... gotta examine the "baggage" that comes along with the family train. If there's too much drama and disturbance, it isn't worth the trouble.
So if this is your situation, then first take a look-see at how you can make life smoother for all concerned.
depends
yes i have and did. love them like thier my own.it's a package deal. take it or not