What would you do if you caught .....?!
Question: your best friend in your bed with your husband???? think it out......
Answers: your best friend in your bed with your husband???? think it out......
hmmm been there done that, told him to get his **** out, turned around and walked away, divorced 3 monthes later..... now the friend, well we wont discuss that.....
Well I wouldn't jump in. I would probably FREAK OUT.
I would say good bye to both and walk out the door and never talk to either ever again.
Well if my husband wants to sleep w/ himself, that's fine by me.
i'd want to know why
Assuming they were "doing the deed", I'd leave quietly. I'd go to the bank, take out all the money and make an appointment with a lawyer. I wouldn't go home or return phone calls. It would be over, forever and completely.
I would grab my stuff and never look back
The snakes can keep each other
I really am not sure. Never been in that situation and I don't know for sure how I would react. I know I would be hurt. So, I would probably cry and want them both out so I could absorb it. Then, I would divorce him and be in the hopes that I could re-kindle the friendship later on. I would forgive her more than I would forgive him.
I have been there..................and its not a nice situation...........
Well, taking into consideration you never really know what your going to do until it actually happens to you...this is my best guess at what I would do. Now I have been cheated on before by my EX -husband, but I never caught him in bed with someone else. I did catch him kissing her at a bar though (not my best friend...just someone he knew), and I walked up beside him as he was kissing her and I punched him in the face and hit her as my fist went past his face and onto hers. She had glasses on and they got knocked off during this process. I then turned around and walked out and left with him chasing me. Now, since that was a reality move, I might have a better attempt at answering the hypothetical. More than likely, I would be beating his *** with every bit of power and energy that would boil up inside of me when I actually seen him in bed with her. As for her...she would just be no more...I would tell her to get her whore *** out of my house and slowly destroy her over the next few months by ruining any friendship she has outside of ours and exposing her to her parents and everyone else that she knows. I can't say, if it was the first time he cheated, that I would divorce him right away. I always thought I would, but when it actually happened to me with my first husband, it took him cheating on me 4 times before I divorced him...sad, I know. But only you know when you have tried everything you can to make your marriage work and only you know when it's time for you to walk away. I always told my cousin who had a cheating husband "I swear if that was my husband I would divorce him!" but when it came right down to it...it took some time for that divorce to happen.