Get mad or get even........?!
Question: What do you do when someone upsets you?
Answers: What do you do when someone upsets you?
just let it go
do you really want to be mad it will affect your relationships with other people in a negative way they can sense when your mad and want to avoid you
as far as getting even is the other person really worth the time effort and trouble it would take
also either suggests you still have some sort of emotional attachment to that person
just go on with your life and be happy and find someone new
that will be the best revenge you could possible have
love ya dear
I get even,of course.
well depends what theyve done, if its not that bad, get mad for a day then talk it out with the person.
Get even :)
Get even!!
get even
Get mad then get even
I usually get upset until the other person (Usually my boyf) apologises.
I'll either cry or not talk for ages.
i get even. immature i know
Get even 3X worse!!!!
usually, get even
but that's not right...
Be the better person and do neither! just let it go!
neither - just ignore
well, it dependz on how upset i was..
in my case, it's usually to ignore or get even...:P
i get mad then think about what i want to do to get even so i do both
I get revenge.
i thnk u shud get even..
look wut they did 2 u..
get even but be very mean about it too, people hate me b/c i'm a b*tch when it comes to getting even.
i get horribly mad
try to let go of the anger
and ignore that person till they apologize
or never speak to them again if they don't
apologize.
I avoid them and ignore them. I don't care to fight because if I said or did something horrible, I couldn't take it back.
It depends- I don't get upset as mad or upset as I used to- wastes my time and energy. However, I'm not above doing either.
Depends on the issue ... being dumped? Leave ample amounts of your perfume into their matress... and pillows - it takes a long time for them to get over you coz they are always thinking of you.... and they can't bring home someone else easily either... costly to replace a mattress
But I am learning to get mad then ....Get over it! Life is WAY too short for me to spend my valuable time and energy on someone not worthy of either...
Well,one thing is sure that u cann't avoid stress when u give stress to any one who in his own world has different meanings.If u retaliate then ur senses come to guide u after the act.How sweet if u use them befoe they owerpower u ?.
No reaction tends to annoy people. Acting like an **** or doing bad things or insulting you are purely words, actions or thoughts designed to elisit a response.
Consider what has upset you and then think if your reaction is going to improve the situation.
Chinease philosopher Sun Tzu said "Revenge is a season in hell."
Is it worth it. If it is, then if your enemy insults you, ignore. If your enemy taunts you, laugh. If your enemy attacks you, destroy.
J
Get even
Get mad for a moment; get it out of my system; calm myself
then confront them about the matter calmly. Because no one neither hears nor respects you when you're raising your voice and making angry gestures. All that does is rouse or excite them to anger. Then before you know it everything has gotten
completely out of hand.
Peace and joy.
best to ignore it and be even, because the more you ignore it and show no reaction. person that upsets you will be more affected. remember the word saying " better to forgive and forget." but the next day you'll be in the hospital because of heart attack if you didn't release your anger..... hehehe-- goodluck!
I'll get mad, but as for getting even, there are bigger forces that'll take care of that for me - Karma.
While putting the energy into "getting even", you are allowing that person to have a hold on your thought processes. I choose to confront those, face to face, with whom I have an issue so that they are perfectly clear on how I feel. But there is a method of doing this productively. If you want the person to actually listen to what you have to say, you need to speak in a calm, non-threatening voice. Getting even accomplishes nothing. Voicing your true feelings does it all.
i just dont talk to him for a while.And later i get it that " why the hell i m taking things so seriously".it is his life and i have my own llife.it is as simple as that.if it is your best friend.i wont talk to him for a day or two until he comes to me and says "whats the matter'.then i take the hell out of him.