Do you believe in redemption?!
Question: and getting back someone's trust after lying to them
what does it take to redeem yourself after you lie
Answers: and getting back someone's trust after lying to them
what does it take to redeem yourself after you lie
I suppose that I do. I've always been a forgiving person.
But I have a difficult time knowing that a person will lie to anyone, it's not just about lying to me.
I'm not talking about just personal relationships, I'm talking about everyone a persons life touches.
I easily lose respect for people who are dishonest, especially when they are dishonest about things that are very petty. I can then only imagine their dishonesty for something major.
well I redeemed some credit card bonus points and bought this computer
ohh wait you mean like forgivness
nope thats Gods job and I ain't God
once you hurt me I will never trust you again
Yes l do,.
ALOT OF WORK AND MIS TRUST ) TRUST ME YOU WILL HAVE ALONG HARD ROAD TO TOW THIS NOT GOING TO BE EASY , I'M TALKING THROUGH EXPERANCE AND WHEN YOU FINNELLY GAIN THAT PERSONS TRUST THEY WILL STILL HAVE THAT IN BACK OF THIER MIND.
GOOD LUCK.
Yes, I do.
It takes unconditional love and respect.
Yes, I do but only if you really want to. Lying to a person, particularly in a romantic relationship, is hard to bounce back from but if both people are committed to making things work it can happen.
The person who lied has to always keep in mind that they have not given the other person any reason to trust them and, while I'm sure it can get annoying and frustrating, you have to do what you have to do to put the other persons mind at ease. That does not mean that you have to put up with abuse or anything of that nature but it may mean that you share your cyber passwords with the person, it may mean that you have to put up with being "checked on." It may mean that you have to explain yourself a bit more than you would like and deal with questioning that you may not have been willing to deal with had you not lied. It could mean a number of things but you have to keep in mind that trust is a fragile thing and once lost is difficult to recapture. Above all, remember that it takes time and have patience. The person who was lied to also has to consider the fact that you can't make someone pay for one mistake for years and years. If you can't truly forgive and, not forget exactly, but believe that the other person has truly made changes in their life, don't bother wasting time on the issue.
I sure do, without a doubt. Everyone makes mistakes in life, and I believe that we should all be given the chance to make things right.
I also believe in the power of prayer, and that with the Lord's help and guidance, we can overcome anything and everything that comes our way. Whether it be a bad habit, or something more serious.. Nothing is too big that the Lord can't handle. :)