A woman wants to adopt a child on a second date?!
Question: So I went on a date with a woman I met at a work event. We went drunk shopping on Xmas Eve since I still had to do all my Xmas shopping. She almost got into 3 seperate fights. I did not kiss her or anything like that. Anyway, we've been talking since then but nothing major. Now, she called me last night (And when I picked up my phone she said "Hey, it's me" so I guess we're there already... somehow) and asked what I was doing Sat. She said she wanted me to go with her to pick up her younger cousin (I'm 23, she's 26, the cousin is 16) because he was going to be living with her since his home is very unstable right now. She continued by saying that she thought I'd be a great figure in his life and a good role model. Not to mention that she's moving to a new place since she now needs an extra bedroom and it's alot closer to me. So my question a multiple choice one:
A) Tell her the kid freaks me out but continue to see her because if she wasn't crazy, she'd be 100% awesome
Answers: So I went on a date with a woman I met at a work event. We went drunk shopping on Xmas Eve since I still had to do all my Xmas shopping. She almost got into 3 seperate fights. I did not kiss her or anything like that. Anyway, we've been talking since then but nothing major. Now, she called me last night (And when I picked up my phone she said "Hey, it's me" so I guess we're there already... somehow) and asked what I was doing Sat. She said she wanted me to go with her to pick up her younger cousin (I'm 23, she's 26, the cousin is 16) because he was going to be living with her since his home is very unstable right now. She continued by saying that she thought I'd be a great figure in his life and a good role model. Not to mention that she's moving to a new place since she now needs an extra bedroom and it's alot closer to me. So my question a multiple choice one:
A) Tell her the kid freaks me out but continue to see her because if she wasn't crazy, she'd be 100% awesome
B.
She's crazy. She wants a serious relationship but she's immature and is trying to force it. You're going to end up helping her carry all her emotional baggage if you stay with her, and it will likely end badly with you gaining a psycho ex-girlfriend for life.
Don't do D.
With her being crazy she's liable to hunt you down and chop off your dingdong.
Or you could just get a life...
I'd go with B.
Run!!!!!!!!!!
all of the above
F) Inform the police that you have a stalker. She sounds like she might be crazy enough to place your life in danger if she feels rejected in any way.
Run, don't walk to the nearest dating service and start over. Do not pass go, do not stop at her bedroom door, Do use the old phrase, "I just want to be friends."
This woman is trouble.
I choose "E"
None of the above.. You need to sit her down and let her know that she's moving entirely too fast for you. She shouldn't be forcing the kid on you.. I'm sure you would be a good role model for him, but that should come naturally from you being around him (when you come to visit her etc). That's not something that you force upon someone to be their duty. You barely even know her.. really. Best of luck.
she sounds insane!!...run for your life. Being hot will not make up for being obsessive, needy, and insecure!! Get out while u still can!
RUN, RUN like the Roadrunner........ go with b.
definitly b......run dude, run
Seriously i though i had the crazies!
Well all the answers are a bit wierd ?,
But i would just say if you do like this girl very much then just become a dad but i dont understand your story very much orthe a,b,c,d,e answers ! ...
oh well
GOOD LUCK ! x
If one of your multiple choices is to adopt the child, be very careful. You are way to young to be considering adopting a child you do not know. and so is she. You barely know her, so why would you want to adopt her cousin who is more than half your age.
If the second choice is to have sexual relations with her, do NOT do this.
I do not know about your belief in rhe Bible, but read 1st Corinthians 6:9 and this will answer yor question.
Just know that if this has already happened in your life and you want to be with Jehovah God read Acts 3:19.
This is only two scriptures in the Bible that speaks of repentance. There are many more. Look in the Bible index for more.
Please take this advice as it means your life.
Rene
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