Men....What Do You Think ........?!
Question: Of the idea of a woman being interested in you just because you have, "benefits"? (nice car, dinners out, buying gifts for them, etc.) I have a dear friend who is constantly on the prowl for those types of men. I mean, she doesn't even take into consideration the man's character, personality. I know she's going through a rough patch financially but just hooking up with a guy because he has benefits is just unthinkable to me. Call me crazy, but that's my opinion. What's yours?
Answers: Of the idea of a woman being interested in you just because you have, "benefits"? (nice car, dinners out, buying gifts for them, etc.) I have a dear friend who is constantly on the prowl for those types of men. I mean, she doesn't even take into consideration the man's character, personality. I know she's going through a rough patch financially but just hooking up with a guy because he has benefits is just unthinkable to me. Call me crazy, but that's my opinion. What's yours?
if the guy is too friggin stupid to notice, more power to her.
I wouldn't want anything to do with her, and as her friend, you sound apologetic. thanks for that.
Well, DUH.
I want to find a girl that likes me for who I am not what I have
I think it is pathetic.
Isn't that the definition of a gold digger?
If u don't like me go away
She's only going out with me as long as I share my newfound wealth with her? I guess that would make her a paid escort.
Men do the same thing, sweetie.
Only it's usually not because the lil lady has a car or other material possessions. It's usually because of something else she has that he wants.
It's not healthy, but it's a fact of life.
Ha ha, Initally, I never even give a clue as to how much I make. Because, unfourtunately there are a lot of gold diggers out there. To be fair, most women I meet are sincere and willing to get to know me without asking about my financial situation. But, if a woman I don't know well enough starts asking me about it, she's out of there! Too bad more men don't have enough of a backbone. Women's Lib also means you shouldn't have to rely on a man for financial support.