I used to believe that i wasnt afraid of committment...however..?!


Question: Im in love with my woman, and she wants to give me a cell phone on her plan. Her reasoning for this is to cut down on my bill, being that her extra cell phone is on that family plan and is already part of the $60 a month bill. My cell bill is 60.00. Anyway, my point is, im preparing myself mentally to get rid of my cell phone, and there is still a part of me that wants to keep it...why? I know why. And at the same time, this is the greatest woman ive ever encountered. Ive cut several women out of my life already, like completely. Some who were old flames turned friends w/benefits..and some who were old flames who i just talk to. My unwillingness to let go makes me feel like crap. Im going to do it, but Im wondering are these feelings natural? Or is it true what women say about men's unwillingness to committ? FYI i wouldnt even contemplate the idea of transferring numbers. My male friends and family is all i would have on this new cell phone. Comments?


Answers: Im in love with my woman, and she wants to give me a cell phone on her plan. Her reasoning for this is to cut down on my bill, being that her extra cell phone is on that family plan and is already part of the $60 a month bill. My cell bill is 60.00. Anyway, my point is, im preparing myself mentally to get rid of my cell phone, and there is still a part of me that wants to keep it...why? I know why. And at the same time, this is the greatest woman ive ever encountered. Ive cut several women out of my life already, like completely. Some who were old flames turned friends w/benefits..and some who were old flames who i just talk to. My unwillingness to let go makes me feel like crap. Im going to do it, but Im wondering are these feelings natural? Or is it true what women say about men's unwillingness to committ? FYI i wouldnt even contemplate the idea of transferring numbers. My male friends and family is all i would have on this new cell phone. Comments?

Do it... After some time you will realise you did the right thing, believe me!

even if it makes financial sense, ur giving up part of ur independence, if ur uncomfortable about it, theres no reason u have to. sometimes the people who are "afraid to commit" are the ones who truly understand what a big responsibility it is.
franky, I wouldnt do it just because its one more mess to untangle if shes not the one, an lets be realistic, unless ur engaged, its a little soon to be combining lives.

I think the term is whipped?

Then just do it, you definitely sound like you want to. It's natural that you're a bit anxious. Then have her email me with tips on how she did this to you. Nice

You need to listen to your gut feelings and go with what they are telling you. If you don't listen to them and you do accept this cell phone then I guarantee you that you will resent it as time goes by and you will find yourself sneaking around and feeling guilty and then the two of you will have a big fight and break up. Just tell her that you aren't comfortable using her cell phone at this time. That you would rather just keep your own as you have many friends that use your number already and you don't want to put their calls on her cell system. Just be truthful. Saving money isn't all that. The more freedom you give up the more dependent you are. Believe me she is trying to rope you in.

Ask yourself this question...would you want your "Woman" to cut out all her old flames from her phone, whom she just talks to and the ones w/benefits...? If your'e not ready to commit then don't...



The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007 enter-qa.com -   Contact us

Entertainment Categories