Ladies..Don't you hate it when...?!


Question: you tell a guy you're taken or married and it really doesn't matter to them..for some reason my ring is more so a guy magnet than anything else!! I always talk about my hubby. He's a wonderful man!! I done told this guy 3 times, I'm not interested and it seems not to phase him. So the next step is to call the man of my house and let him handle it because I think he's not getting the point from me telling him.


Answers: you tell a guy you're taken or married and it really doesn't matter to them..for some reason my ring is more so a guy magnet than anything else!! I always talk about my hubby. He's a wonderful man!! I done told this guy 3 times, I'm not interested and it seems not to phase him. So the next step is to call the man of my house and let him handle it because I think he's not getting the point from me telling him.

Yeah...I know what you mean. I have to agree with sweetness.

Though it's funny you mention that you're a cop. My husband is a cop in the Air Force doing a special duty right now and ALL his friends, who are cops are cheaters. Not saying that's how you are. Plenty of cheating goes on in the military. Just be careful and don't give in....cops are notorious for sleeping around and you wouldn't want to catch anything. The base we just moved from was horrible.

Yup!!! That is VERY annoying!! I had one guy ask me how tight the ring was on my finger. I responded that it was tight enough to keep him away.

yeah sum men are real azzholes when it comes to things like that and u can tell he's just a disrespectful bastard cuz he disregards something that is important to u. i'd let my man whoop his azz too if he didnt stop.

I hate that....my uncle is like that...

Yes, but you know you are attractive. They read those damn books on how to pick up the ladies. I have trouble in the produce section of the grocery store (!!) because of some damn book!!!

He sees you as a challenge. And he is probably use to getting what he wants. If you were to mess with him, you would probably be just another knotch on his belt. He's probably the type of guy that says to himself, "see, I knew I could take her from her man."
There are alot of people that enjoy ruining marriages just for the fun of it.

I hate that but my fiance is very understanding b/c of my work and my career that I have to "be a flirt" sometimes to some of my customers so I can write them policies...
I mena come on look at the ring sheeeesh

When you hit your mid 30's and want your freedom back, your attitude will change.

But to answer your question, married people do cheat from time to time.


AND YOUR A COP! Ha ha ha ha, you must be a rookie. COPS CHEAT 24-7!

Before you bring your hubby into it, if he is like mine it is the last thing you want to do, try this first. Be a b****. Tell this clown that he must think very little of you. Ask him why he thinks you are a ****, ask him how he ever got the impression that you are a skank who would cheat on her husband with the likes of a man like him. Don't be nice, he obviously doesn't think very highly of you. And tell him that this is the last time you are telling him to back off, the next message he will receive will be from your husbands fist.

I know exactly what you mean! Some guys just look at you like your some sort of trophy that they just have to have. Idiots.

Pardon my intrusion Ladies. If you were my wife, I'd want to know so i could make this guy understand! Understand?

I commend you for staying strong hon.

Since you have told this gent that you are not interested - please remain strong. You're a Police Officer in our Nations Military - you know how volatile domestic disturbances can become.

I have had this kind of approach in my former workplace, and had the advantage of going to my employer when the harassment did not cease. You have to be clear with these guys that they are in a prosecutable legal position, and no longer considered flirting harmlessly.

Some guys just have to have the brick between the eyes - so to speak.

Please - make it clear to the gent that he has crossed into harassment. Make him aware of the position that places him in legally. Make him aware that you are placed in the position of two choices - shut him down by going through the legal system, or taking it private with your husband...AND THEN going through the legal system. Either choice results in no further interaction.

Give him the choice as to whether he wishes to keep future contact friendly but distant without future harassment - or to deal with public or private reprocussions for his harassment.

Be aware - there are men (and women) out there with a particular mental disorder that makes them engage in stalking. They function well in society - with the exception of their fixation. ...Don't continue to be is victim. Take back control. ...You may want to research to see if, when and how this guy may have performed with other targets. Be wise and aware, dear one.

...The ones at my work... backed off when a boss chatted with them, and we were able to remain productive and cordial fellow employees.

...There was a guy from college that I missed the signs on. I didn't take his refusal to abandon contact seriously. I became.... ...the victim of his crime.

Don't go through what I did.

Take no chances.
Peace.



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