Poll: Have you learned not to look back in anger?!
Question: I guess we can never change what's come and passed,
I'm very grateful for your answers thank you very much :)
Answers: I guess we can never change what's come and passed,
I'm very grateful for your answers thank you very much :)
yes i have learned it but sometimes, i feel like when i look back in anger, anger often puts things right because so many times, i feel so angry that something wrong happens, and because i feel so angry, it makes me want to make things right. you know what i mean?
its like wheni was in school and would get picked on lots. it made me so very mad that someone would be so stupid to pick on me, then i got even madder that the teachers would never really do anything about it. so because of my anger and that i never really forgave those people and forgot that stuff,
i then decided to b emore usefull than those pople. i am a very nice person and when my younger cousins or something have trouble in school, i always call the teachers and talk to them and tell them there is a bully problem. i also call the kids parents and stuff liek that. so for that fact i am grateful that i stay angry and things. (sorry my typing is bad and i dont like to back space, but you can read it still eh?)
anyways, but, thats also why i use the motto, forgive but never forget. just because you forgive someone for their ill behaviors or sins, doesnt mean you should forget the bad things that happend or the sins that happened.
forgive but never forget.
but i have to honestly say, i have not really learned to not look back at that stuff in anger, because as a kid i had such a terrible time,few friends and afraid to go to school, and yet noone helped me, i would go to teachers and they didnt do anything, they just all ssat back and said, just ignor them. i am angry at that. that is very sad when you cant help out someone in need because you dont have the time and it doesnt suit you because its too much effort.
but many things i have learned not to look back in anger at, like how i never really had much as a kid because i came form a poor family. because noone can help that. my parents had a hard time.
yes i learned it!
nope, that's a hard lesson
umm no im pretty darn angry about things that have happend to me in the past...
i dont take a grudge on something.. but i dont just let things go
I have been listening to "Don't Look Back in Anger" by Oasis a lot this morning. Honest.
I heard you say!
Ive just learned to not get angry at all - whats the sense...it's changes nothing but your blood pressure!
Yeah ii Guess Sometimes Lol
=D
I don't look back hardly at all because If I look back... I will miss the future!
no, for the media usually instills values that often subconciously make us more tempered people. so, i for one, now get pissed more easily, and look back not only in anger, but hate, disgust, too
nope~i hold grudges for a long long time.
I've learned to hate Oasis.. ;-)
yes
anger is self destruction
it doesnt help the essential part of your frustration
no...sadly :(
Umm sometimes but i do get annoyed with stuff that happens in the past but not as badly as when i was there wen it happened. So yeah i think i have
Habits can not be changed easily.
nope
but if you find out how, let me know
If your the Prodigal Son you should know that a mirror is the safest way to see whats behind you.
no, and it is one of my main flaws
Yes, but certain things, i dont feel we should ever lose anger about , child abuse etc etc, yes we can learn to deal , but never lose the anger
sometimes things will always make you angry
but i don't hold grudges
Yes it's time to look forward ... to love and compassion.
Yes, i let go and let God.Who best to handle it?
yeah cause it never does any good
i just look at the circle under my avatar.
Try hard not to, cringe at some of my mistakes.
I'm learning to do so, but often it can be difficult, if you feel you've done wrong or if people hurt you. : )
I've learned not to, but I PREFER to. Remembering both the good and bad times in my life keeps me sane. However I control my actions.
i do have a problem with that
I`ve had my turn at anger, but now it doesn`t seem to affect me the same way anymore.