I feel odd about school... advice needed.?!


Question: I like school, but I have to go back from break in about 2 days. I don't know what I am going to do, because I feel depressed about it- not really bad, just sad. I have to get up at 5:30 in the morning and I'm always tired. Kids at school judge my clothes and it hurts me. I don't want to go back to this cycle. Please, don't say its just life- I need advice on how to get my spirits up. Thank you.


Answers: I like school, but I have to go back from break in about 2 days. I don't know what I am going to do, because I feel depressed about it- not really bad, just sad. I have to get up at 5:30 in the morning and I'm always tired. Kids at school judge my clothes and it hurts me. I don't want to go back to this cycle. Please, don't say its just life- I need advice on how to get my spirits up. Thank you.

Just IGNORE them!!! Do what you have to do and LIVE your life how YOU want to live it without any worries!!! Always think positive and walk with your head up. If people have something bad to say without really knowing you, only shows that they are IGNORANT! You are better than that.. so just have fun and ignore them!!!

Hang out with your friends and act like the other people who are talking about you, aren't there!!! I know it's hard.. but you have to do it!!!

Good Luck!!!

hmmmmmm Ask the school counseler its wat they're for

you have friends ther right!?dont you look forward to see them!?BE HAPPY

I have the same exact problems. Dont listen to those *** holes, just be yourself, hang around with good people and enjoy life. If you do that life will be much better!

P.S enjoy and savor every moment!

think about when it's over
all day long

that's what i do
and i laugh a lot because i am amused easily, distracted easily, and bored easily, so i have to have a huge imagination or i'll go mad.

if youre depressed you might want to see a doctor about it to get medication. i never wanted to go to school either. not for the same reasons as you, i just didnt feel happy about it. but i got help for it and it worked! try not to let those dumb people get to you. they dont deserve a place in your mind. they wont ever matter to you in your life and theyre unhappy with themselves. when youre done with school you wont EVER have to see them again! :) just try to think about that.

Let it go sister. We are just spirits in these strange packages called bodies. Who cares whats on them. Its fun to dress funky but it doesn't really count for anything at all. Your spirit is what matters. Thats the real you! Don't let bad spirited people get your spirit down. If you like school keep doing well at it and make a difference it this strange grimmy world we are all temporarily stuck in.

<3

also alway focus on whats possitive and not the negative

I think of one good thing that is going to happen. I'm in 8th and I know how you feel. Just be glad you get to see your friends again or try to forget about it. I hope you feel better =)

well get up, shower do your hair and make up really nice and off to school, eat a good breakfast since that'll make the day go by faster since you won't be hungry.

as for the clothing- there are plenty of sales at wal mart right now or try thrift shops, you'd be surprised at the nice stuff you can get so cheap!!

Just be really nice to everyone and don't make enemies that way when someone says something someone will likely tell them to shut up.

high school sucks, I hated it. I'm assuming you're in high school.

i would say go to bed early when you can and take naps. I get depressed because of lack of sleep sometimes, that helps me. as far as the school thing goes, people are always going to judge you, but try not to worry about it, if you find the right group of friends they will be supportive no matter what. If you are feeling this way a lot, talk to your school counselour, they are good people that are there to help. Totally confidential.

well if people tend to judge you alot then pamper yourself. If you have the money go get a manicure and pedicure, maybe get your hair done and go shopping. Come back to school looking like a new girl. But if you dont have the money then just pamper yourself take a nice bubble bath, do your hair differntly, anything that'll make you feel better. This way you'll come to school more confident and it'll show. If you feel like you look pretty then so will everyone else.

same here
try going shopping

Know this: High School isnt everything. Theres life out side of school, make your self happy there. If your happy with your looks keep them that way and if you dont change them. That simple. If you let those mean words hurt you then it will eat you up if you dont, then your confidence will grow. If you ever want to Talk You can E-mail me or IM when ever and I know that whatever your feeling it will one day go away.

Home school!

Perhaps someone told you that these are the best years of your life, and you believed them. These are the years of the greatest change and turmoil of your life. Your parents could handle your problems easily, but you don't yet have the problem handling experience of your parents' generation, so you suffer. The good news is that you eventually find some way to handle the problem - some good solutions, some poor ones, but still you handle the problems. After 8 or 10 years of this, you no longer have the mountain of problems that you do today. (and you are an adult) It's not because the problems go away. You just learn to handle them.

Well I will get up at 5:30 like u and go to skool (Thats what time i have to get up anyway) And dont worry....try wearing things not slppy and touch up just alittle. Look forward to seeing ur friends and if ANYONE says or makes fun of u just ignore them and stay away because two wrongs dont make a right.... just go to ur next class or talk to ur friends

Its important to remember that the pettiness displayed by your classmates is passing and if you show individuality in what you wear they will be jealous of your strength and even tell you so later. Think of the things you do like about school and make sure that you prioritize these things while your there so its more enjoyable. remember breaks always make going back miserable for less popular kids. its a test really. and its never so bad as some time away will make it seem. In fact one break i returned from i was suddenly more accepted by my classmates and i never knew why. Hang in there I promise it gets better. :)

I'm sorry that kids are cruel. It shows immaturity on their part. I know this is going to sound ridiculous, but try being nice to these kids that are mean to you. Brush off their comments with something like "Hey, I may not have money to dress in style, but at least I'm not running around naked." Then laugh.
When you see them say hi and ask how they are doing. If they continue, be more forward and ask them why they are being so mean to you. If they still continue, just try to let what they say not affect you. Consider the scource it is coming from and tell yourself they aren't worth it, then learn from the experience and never do this to someone else.

Maybe the stress of kids making fun of your clothes is causing
you to be depressed.Depression can make you feel tired.
Maybe you can do some chores around the house to earn an
allowance so you can buy some new clothes.If you can buy
some cool clothes they won't be able to make fun of you and
new clothes will get your spirits up..

well kiddo you have most of it behind you now for each month and year past its closer to the graduation day..I know its hard ot believe ,but this is a small part of your live ,and yeah it is just life thats how it is sometimes... One thing is try shopping for a few pieces of cloths at a time even it its at a thrift store you can dress nice from there believe me I do and I have worked in places where I had to dress up and used to get compliments on my cloths,,you didnt mention if this is your choice of cloths or not ,but if it is then dont worry about it its the choice you made if not try the thrift shop thing,,,another thing to try is this get involved in some of the clubs at school.I know its sounds crazy ,but I never did when I was in school and my son didnt untill highschool where I went and volunteered with him at a club that does inviromental things and he has made a bunch of new friends and I wish now I had done this in school we have all had a blast so go to the head teachers of the groups and talk to them about joining and slowly you will get a new outlook on things,,,you are the only one who can change your life no one else can do it for you give it a try girl they cant eat ya and believe me you wont see anyof them for years after school is finished and you go back for a reunion and they are all fat ,old and bald lol then you will say what was I so worried about,,,,,the down things in life only last for a while then it all goes back up again thats how it is good bad then boring then sad then good and bad again,,,its life cycles you make of them what you want to ,,,everything is a learning experience,and an adventure ,,,,,I was the poor ,fat girl when I was in school ,now Im so happy and life is great !!,,so dont worry about it just get out there and live !!! dont look back with regrets look forward with plans !!! life is like clay you have the power to mold it ,and if things new pop up and change the plans ohh well its just a new adventure...its going to be ok just keep on keeping on!!!! hugs from someone who was just like you .....



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