Is marring someone through arranged marriage a bit risky?!
Question: i say so
Answers: i say so
ofcourse it is marrying is all about love
it is if you dont like em
Very risky, because you don't really know the person.
i think so , i wouldent wanna be married that way
marriage to anyone is a bit risky let alone some one picked for you
it's illegal ;)
i think it is.
you could end up with someone you completely dispise
very risky
i think it is, in so many cultures, they have these things, i really don't understand how can you love someone that is just been impose to you/ sad
Personally, I think that you should only marry someone if you love them and like them!
It can be but life in itself is
If you don't love the person,I'd say it's a crap deal to get in.But if everyone believes in drama shows your arranged marriage partner would be gorgeous,and what's more you would find your true love,and even better yet she is gorgeous as well.
if your are not the one who makes the arrangement, or if you have been left out of any decision.
I say its very risky, because you don't know him/ her much. If your "another-half " turns out to be an abusive person, then you're doomed.
Marriage is risky no matter how you look at it. You truely don't know someone until you have lived together. Arranged marriages, as far as I'm concerned, are even more risky. You have no idea what so ever who this other person is or if your even compatable. I for one could never live with someone for whom I had no feelings for or disliked their personality. Till death do us part??? Not with that person.
Not being from a culture that uses arranged marriage I dont know the ins and outs of it. But I worked with a girl who went through an arranged marriage, both families knew each other and it wasnt as if she was forced to marry the first man that her parents brought home, she was introduced to several men and it was her choice which one she wanted to get to know more before the marriage was arranged. Probably a lot more safer than picking up the first stranger that you meet in a bar or club.
I'm inclined to agree with the comments so far. But there is another side to consider.
If the marriage is arranged by parents, as is usually the case, then those parents will have chosen someone within their own circles, i.e. of class, of wealth, of upbringing, of background, and, hopefully, of character. There is thus every chance that the marriage will indeed work.
On a personal basis, I would not have liked this to have happened to me, but it did in the case of my wife's parents. Theirs was an arranged marriage, and they did not meet until the day of their wedding. They were married for almost 60 years, and had five children, proof enough, I think, that at least one arranged marriage did work !
Getting married is always a bit risky! I'm a romantic, therefore as a young woman I would have hated the idea of an arranged marriage. Although not romantic, however, arranged marriages (but not forced) benefit from the fact that each family know one another quite well, that the bride and groom come from the same culture, with similar educations and from very similar backgrounds. When we think of a lasting union, these considerations can be very important; when the initial 'excitement' has passed and a couple settle into a long-term lifestyle, these are the things that often strengthen and cement a marriage. Many would say that an arranged marriage is open to all sorts of problems further down the line, but that's true of all marriages, as present-day statistics show!
In reality, it's no more risky than marrying anyone these days.