How has your early relationship (or lack of) with your opposite sex parent effec!


Question: ...your adult relationships with the opposite sex?


Answers: ...your adult relationships with the opposite sex?

My mother told me I was worthless and that I was nothing, and has reminded me that she's felt that way even into my adult years.

My father was an alcoholic womanizer and he wasn't home very often and when he was it was always hell!

BOth of my parents were physically along with mentally abusive.

Its affected my relationship with the other sex in many ways now. I'm very insecure, it took me a long time to realize I was a beautiful person, I can pick fights and I push people away when they start getting too close because I"m afraid of getting hurt.

i grew up in a violent household. when i was younger i hated men. that's in the past now.

my papa died early so I guess I keep looking for a father figure

Ummm, I am actually not too sure if it has affected it or not.

It took me longer to trust people but a lot of people are like that.

My dad is an alcoholic so I never had a good father figure in my life, but i take the good out of this situation. I learnt how strong women (my mum) can be. So i know just how strong I can be.

And i know how to be a good parent, because i've seen what not to be like

My Mom has always confided WAY too much in me. I've grown up feeling as though being close to another woman would invade my Moms' place she has with me. (This does not mean I LIKE what my Mom has done.)
She has also belittled masculinity while glorifying femininity. This has caused me to feel weak & ineffective as a guy.

*thenks about it* i guess whut mostlee effects my relationships, is how my mommy lets herself gat yelled at an talked down too by my dad, i feel more comfortable when im yelled at an looked down on from my partner. plus when i wus lettle gettign molested by an older women..even tho i dednt liek that or want, kinda formed my sexualness in i liek older women who tell me whut to do, eheh werid..*blushign an scratches head sheepish* ?

i grew up with a violent crackhead for a father. i think it's helped me in my relationships because i know what i want in a man and i won't settle for less. i dont tolerate bs from a man and i dont find myself "needing" a man to survive. it has affected me negatively in that i am not trusting at all. i tend to be very cynical when it comes to relationships and usually plan for the worst.

i expected all men to be as good as my dad. i cant even find one as half as good of a man as my dad was. i think thats why i'm still alone. they don't make them like that anymore.caring , loving father. that stood by his word. home evrery night. took care of his kids.no drugs or alcohol. worked hard. i cant find none like that. i'll stay single til i do if i dont find one like that oh well. i won't settle for nothing less.

A distant father gave me the wonderful habit of seeking him out as an adult.
And....not too successful.

Well My adopted mom was always drunk or stoned, not that she didnt love me but she had a very bad disease that she couldnt overcome and died from. My adopted father?.....always kept her drunk or stoned cuz it was easier for him to deal with her. I left home at 11 or was forced from home by that same dad cuz he hated me. My adopted mom died just a few years agoabout the time I met my real mom, She may be my real mom but she cares about herself and her oldest son alone and everyone else can just rot,....I made a mistake by moving here to be with her but now I have to live with it or figure a way out of it, one or the other. I didnt learn how tro be a decent parent except from a few foster parents and then from being put in a federal juvenile facility where I went to seminary school to get out early, did ROTC to in order to become military field preacher or what you'd call a "chaplain" but that made no sense cuz I'd be shooting gooks and blessing their dead bodies or blessing the bodies of the dead bodies of my own troops that the gooks had killed "gooks" being the derogatory term for "north vietnamese" or viet cong..........so, being the hypocrit that I already am?....I just graduated and did nothing but become an artist and I'm afraid, an artist who is going blind in my left eye.............here I sit. typing to you which is kinda cool when you think about it.



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