It it's what's inside that counts...?!


Question: then why do we pay so much attention to our outside and our appearance is constantly being judged?


Answers: then why do we pay so much attention to our outside and our appearance is constantly being judged?

because those people are full of ****.

amen to that sista amen to dat!!!!

While the outside may attract someone, it hardly ever keeps someone around if that's all he/she has going for him/her.

because people are shallow.

because outside is the tie breaker

Because it sounds good to say, but the sad truth is...looks do matter!!!

Phrenology

why do we avoid people who look like rapists/killers/robbers
coz they probably are. and that all beautiful things are good.
I guess its evolution telling us who to stay away from and to stick with

but sometimes its more deep than that though and people misjudge.

The people who say that are eigther your parents or fat ugly people... Get real!!

i dont do i
seriously just be yourself i know i am
dont follow the trend be individual

because outside is the first thing we see- would you like to eat a green piece of beef? no... so more or less, it's the same concept- people tend to (unfortunately) judge a book by its cover- it's human nature

because maybe we haven't taken time to find out what is really in the inside and how beautiful it can be to find out who you really are!

The outside is the entrance to the inside and from my experience it is the inside that counts, oh Yeah!

First impressions count. It's a sad fact that what you look like defines who you are, when what's inside is so much more important.

Because appearance is what gives a first impression... It determines what kind of personality we have... which brings us back to what's inside.

Its the same with the guys...
Its our looks that attract them... But its our attitude that keeps them attracted :P Hehe...

I don't think its our looks as much as how we present ourselves to the world. I feel better about myself now than I did as a teenager. I'm confident and that comes out to the world.

Why would you walk up to a stranger and try to flirt if you if we didn't find you attractive?

fortunatley we have varying tastes and standards depending on the amount of Alcohol we can consume;-)

Never being a beauty, I would have to agree with that statement. But, we should do our best with what we are dealt because outward appearance gives many outward, non-verbal clues about how we feel about ourselves.

for me it's because if I look good then I feel good about myself

we live in a world, where beauty rules! i mean, look in a magazin, fashion, or gossip magazin: what have those people in commen? they're so thin, that you could break them with your fingers snipping! they are putting a label for that, the whole world thinks, that beeing thin is good and you have to be pretty to be something in this world...blablabla... but thats not right! as long as we're happy the way we are, then it's good. let other people talk what they want, just ignore them. thats what i do!!!

We live in a "Material" world, so people judge what they see.
Only Spiritual people like Buddhists search for the inner being.
The outside will get old and fade but the spirit will forever stay young that's what we should search for...

I know, It`s SOOOOOO STUPID, on the outside we wear clothes and put on makeup 2 make ourselves pretty but nobody ever relizes, it `s ALWEAYS whats inside that REALLY counts and somebody should like you bcoz of ur personality not looks!!!!!!!!=)?

Well, i completely ignore people's appearance... Like, i notice clothing because I'm a fashion nut... i Love original clothes. But when my friends are like "he's so hott!' I'm like "what makes him hott? I don't get it!" because really, i don't find ppl more attractive than others most of the time.

But i have very very low self esteem (I recently got over wasting about 4 years of my life having eating disorders) and therefore, i worry about how I look a lot, as i KNOW others don't think like me. Doing things like being into fashion (wearing interesting clothing keeps people looking at my clothes, not me) putting on make up (cover the small imperfections, because you can't fix the big ones) and pretending to be confident (if you say you're pretty, others will agree and you'll start to believe it) help me feel better about myself. SO, that's why I do it, at least.

Because people are shallow like that. When it comes to friends though, I don't care how they look. I don't think any of my friends are ugly because they're my friends and I love them and they're beautiful to me, but I don't know how other people see them. I think it's so appalling though how magazines will try to make people feel ugly by pointing out every spot and every bit of cellulite on a famous person's body or face. These things are normal but they make the people who read those magazines think they are ugly.

Because you can't see the inside at first so you have to base your judgements on the information available

i think they both matter...inside and out...

If you look at it in terms of long period it’s the inside which counts however for anyone to get to that stage there should be initial attraction b/n two parts then the inside part come into it.

We like to see nice things (nice varies from individual to individuals) so spending a bit of time on the outside may open the door for someone to show off the inside.

Of course what's inside counts...that's where the cream filling is. You were talking about Twinkies right?

Because it's almost never what's inside that counts. Ok maybe it is when you get to know someone really really really well... It's just something we say to console ourselves and the people around us. Sucks, I know... : ((

They said, first impression counts. Anyway we are always conscious of how we look like from head to foot before going out. A habit or maybe just the right thing to do. We have to look our best outside to be able to feel right inside too. It boost our self confidence. Then at the long run people around us start noticing us. Start looking more inside, our personality. Now we start choosing people who are compatible with us. Friends we can hang around with the same interest and like as we do. Avoid those nutter and whom we think bad influence for us. It's just not a pretty face or pretty dress, loving yourself, being good, sweet and honest and true to yourself make a lot of difference.

Really now, both have a say in things. No matter how much we may want to deny it, appearances do matter in some way.

Is it polite to yoink someone you've never met? Who cares. It's Friday....yyyyyyyyyooooooinK!



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