Have you ever pushed someone away?!
Question: ...on purpose...and lived with the regret???
Answers: ...on purpose...and lived with the regret???
Well I have pushed some people away, I felt regret...until I realized it was best for me...even though it hurt.
yes...everyday
no
yes
No, not here.
Yes and no. They were pushed away with good reason.
nope
yes
Yes. This happens to everyone. Thinks will work themselves out. If its meant to be it'll happen. There is a plan for everyone.
my regret is she came back, I would have been better off with the other girl.
yes..sometimes when you push people away on purpose is because of your own insecurities.....
no
Yes, I pushed away an ex bf. I do regret it now, but we are finally friends so I feel better about it.
yes but it was an unconscious thing.... although i knew that it was what i wanted later... and i don't regret it at all.
yes my first girl Friend she married but still loves me.
no
Unfortunately. I had to live and learn and promise myself to do better in the future. The guilt and regret were eating my alive.
YUP....ITS HARD BEING A PIMP...EVEN HARDER BEING ME
Yes I have, regret it? Not at all!
it was the best thing to do at the time, no regrets
yes indeed, but never regret it, my instincts is always right...so i go by it everyday...and when its all said and done..i get to look in the mirror and say..i told me so.. and smile..
Yes, so what are you afraid of?
everyday ... i just don't have all the energy for the freinds / people that need things from me. overwhelmed with everyones problems. i have my own set to deal with. i'm putting on my own life preserver first ..lol ... then i'll worry about saving those around me.
Yeah, loadsssssssss n loads of times.. regretted it only some of the time... i think i did it to test peoples love.
Many, many times. I never regretted it, because I never got close to anyone that mattered to me. Or, so I thought at the time. Now, as I look back, I realize how stupid I was to do that, that those people would have been good to have in my life now. But at the time, you don't really know who your really going to miss. I would have never guessed back then that the ones I shouldn't have pushed away were who they were. At all. Hindsights 20/20.
Just say, Oh well. Stop moping about it. Either repair it or move on to the next victim and reminsce about what not to mess up this next time. Shame on you if you do the same thing to the next poor soul. Pay back will come your way if you don't take the time to change your negative habits.
i have done it more than once the nice ones are the ones i mostly do it to if your talking about a boyfriend or girlfriend, first of all if you did it you did it for a reason. when you can honestly answer why you did it then maybe the regret will fad away but for what ever reason you can't beat yourself up over it you have to face it and move on with life cause honey theres alot in life you will regret doing but with all things it shall pass
No. I have never regretted ending a relationship, avoiding someone or deciding not to pursue an arrangement. Why would I?
Most people only wonder what they missed and envision some possibility from the past when unhappy in the present. This idea that daydreaming about an old lover never married is an illusion at best. It never happened. People fall in love with the fantasy out of dissatisfaction with the present.
Maybe their present relationships aren't pleasing them. It's natural to look for an outlet to escape in this situation and it makes sense. The grass is greener on the other side sort of thing and in comparision to what one has. It's built up in the mind. A psychological reaction to not having what one wants and not having the maturity to fix the situation. It requires a sense of entitlement to pursue it.
The only exception: if he really had a great relationship he messed up and is truly sorry. He may be available after another relationship comes to an end and they want to pick up where they left off by mutual agreement.
Yep I sure have, but after several years of beating myself up over it I realized that it is what it is and you have to accept it and move on. Sometimes we make choices with our heart, and sometimes with our minds, but either way it was a choice you made so there is no reason to live with regret. You did what you did for a reason and although that reason does not seem so clear now it doesn't mean it did not exist. I say this from my heart because I have been there and would not wish the feeling of constant regret on anyone.
Yup, yup! When I met my ex-husband, I was really mean to him and pushed him away (actually left him on the other side of the railing!). Unfortunately, that only made him want me more, ended up married 10 years and finally divorced a few years back. Wish I never met him! Worst mistake of my life! Regret it every sickening day...
yes, sadly I have and lived with regret every day.
Fortunately I had another chance and grabbed it. I am one happy person. If you have the chance to try again take it. At least you will know if the relationship will work or not.