Do you believe someone when they say, I want to be with only you but i have to g!
Question: or is that just to hold you in place until they are good and ready for you?
Answers: or is that just to hold you in place until they are good and ready for you?
" I have to get my life straight first" is one of the classic lines of someone who is trying to pull off the con job of all times. The translation for that statement is "I want my cake and eat it too".Don't you believe it, not for one second. Run ! Do not walk to the nearest EXIT.
GOD PLEASE don't believe that...last time i did the guy ended up having a baby with someone else...and he's still making my life a living hell......
try as i might...i think he's still holding me in place.
no
no i don't believe them..
just because you are in the picture does not mean that they are going to change their ways...
you can't fix somebody up..that's their job..
when they have pieced their life together then maybe they can give me a call then...
sometimes if they are still a mess (whatever the problem is)
you will eventually get dragged into it too..
I actually meant it when I said it...
No it sounds like an "out" to me.
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He doesn't want to commit to you, but he's hoping that won't stop you from putting out.
Don't you believe it, Sweetie.
my ex tells me this is why he doesnt pay me child support.. what a tard!
Actually I believe that it was because he just wanted to sleep with me too. I don't want to give you false hope, but in my case it was true that he wanted to get his life straight first, and now he wants to marry me.
I'm not saying wait around for him to get his sh!t together, but if you care about him and are able to, let him know you're there for him if he needs you. Don't sleep with him though. That's key. Be his friend.
Worked for me?
just to hold you in place until they are good and ready for you
I wouldn't be able to believe them. I think that telling someone you want to be with when you are incapable of being with them is wrong & selfish. I think that to be with someone it has to be all or nothing. You have give everything you can or in essence you're really offering nothing.
What can you offer someone if you can't fully commit to them? I find it very selfish in a way because it's like saying... "I can't be with you right now, but I don't want you to be with anyone else either". It's like putting a "hold" on someone & it's not fair to them. ☆
They got someone they are looking at to replace you but they don't know if it will work. So they are testing the water. And what happens 95% of the time they end up with the person they are looking at. People men/women want what they can't have. It take a real smart person to look at what they have and see if it is what they really want. Grass is not always greener. Some times it is. And poeple make the wrong move.
good luck.
I think it's to hold you in place....mind games babe, don't fall for that sort of nonsense.
I just read Mistress' answer and she does have a point, since she went through it herself, however; not everyone is the same and you know what? I'm of no help here whatsoever....so I'm just gonna keep my mouth shut! :x