Would you be concerned?!
Question: Husband has been staying at work late. Secretary gave hubby 3 porcelain dolls from her childhood (I think that's too much info for hubby to have already) for our girls. Oldest daughter kept saying "How did you find out about her?" Other Daughter says she really nice and gives us stuff. I asked my son "is she pretty?" First he said "NO". Then I said Okay. He said "Mommy I lied she is pretty like sue storm on Fantastic four." Well there it is I will NEVER look like Jessica Albia and never will. After I quizzed ole husbo on the secretary now he gets off work at the normal time. Just to remind everyone one we haven't had sex since March. He turned me down two weeks ago and the 5 minutes of sex we had he really wasn't into it. It just seemed different and most of you girls will know what I mean. Oh yeah He has his own checking account with out my name on it so I NEVER know how much he gets direct deposited. Just Wondering
Answers: Husband has been staying at work late. Secretary gave hubby 3 porcelain dolls from her childhood (I think that's too much info for hubby to have already) for our girls. Oldest daughter kept saying "How did you find out about her?" Other Daughter says she really nice and gives us stuff. I asked my son "is she pretty?" First he said "NO". Then I said Okay. He said "Mommy I lied she is pretty like sue storm on Fantastic four." Well there it is I will NEVER look like Jessica Albia and never will. After I quizzed ole husbo on the secretary now he gets off work at the normal time. Just to remind everyone one we haven't had sex since March. He turned me down two weeks ago and the 5 minutes of sex we had he really wasn't into it. It just seemed different and most of you girls will know what I mean. Oh yeah He has his own checking account with out my name on it so I NEVER know how much he gets direct deposited. Just Wondering
Gosh, its hard to say. Your not in a very good position. You don't have enough info to know for sure if he's cheating but just enough to suspect. The whole sex part isn't necessarily a red flag though, that can happen cheating or not cheating. However, Ummm if this were me, little sneaky ol me, I'd do some more investigating and snooping to find out what this "co-worker" is really thinking when being extra friendly to my husband and kids. I just might show up to his work one day with a decent excuse and check her out for myself. This would give you a chance to see how they act around one another in front of you and for him to say look, this is my beautiful wife and mother of my children. That way she gets the idea that he's taken, married, and you aient no push over! Good luck.
yes
I would.
just have a diredct chat wid ur hubby....it looks pretty serious to me....jus have a heart to heart talk and pray it helps..
Those are all reasons for concern. Do you know a co-worker of his who can spy on him for you?
You can either confront him, or continue living in blissful ignorance. Or really, blissful ignoring. You know he's having an affair. Just admit to yourself that you know, and decide what you're going to do next.
Yes, I would...try to find out the truth...it is the best way...I suppose...
Sounds very concerning to me. You should definitely do some investigating. Good luck.
* Be alert i think he is upto something , ask him and watch how he reacts , secrateries have a tendance to get involved with married men *
I'd be very concerned.
be very concerned and beware whats going on.
You had better be concerned. Sounds like he's up to no good.
That there is one hugeass red flag ya got there.
Tell him you're concerns about this.
He's cheating on you.
yes... and the fact that youre suspecting that something fishy is happening then .... you should be investigating on it more becasue a woman's intuition never fails you know
Wow....do you really need to ask us that. Common sense hun. If things were flipped around what would he be thinking of you? Maybe you should ask him that.
Good luck!!!
. Oh, and don't forget to bring a hidden tape recorder when you are confronting both....keep them to your self.I am not a girl, however, sounds like you need to make an appointment to see her. You need not tell another soul.
Heck, I don't care who you pass yourself off as. Just do it real cool calm and collected. At the end you may have to lay down some severe conversation about lawsuits straiting with loss of consortium,. I I knew what state you were in I could give an I never lose referral Good luck