What do you do when you start to realize the things you don't like about you!


Question: Some things I don't like are inherent. I don't want to be such a hermit, but i'm just naturally extremely introverted. I've always been that way, and have never had success in changing it. Some things you just have to accept I think. And it helps to remember society is not always correct, and what's popular is not always right.


Answers: Some things I don't like are inherent. I don't want to be such a hermit, but i'm just naturally extremely introverted. I've always been that way, and have never had success in changing it. Some things you just have to accept I think. And it helps to remember society is not always correct, and what's popular is not always right.

try to change ........gradually!!

progress. not perfection!
nothing happens overnight, be patient with yourself!

I usually say "why am I like this? What can I do to change this? Why am I questioning myself? AGH! <insert more ramblings here>"

CHANGE TO THE WAY U WANNA BE...

try to compensate..

change it

I make a conscience effort to change the things I don't like. People can change...I know that for a fact. ; )

Change it.
Only YOU can.

TRY TO CHANGE. BUT AT LEAST I CAN SEE I HAVE FLAWS

A LOT OF THEM

Stop thinking about it!....and of course try to change it if i can...

Initially I complain then I work on gradually changing.

Talk to a few honest friends and then Pray for help to change.

Work on changing them,

warn people before those bad qualities come out
haha, you cant change your personality, so what else do you do?

I'm too old to care anymore!! lol

Well, personally I dissect those things. I mean, I look at the pros and cons attributed to this trait. Lets take a for instance: Ummm indecisiveness. Most would look at this trait as purely negative. However, in a company atmosphere these people are the ones who keep us from running head long into a brick wall. They slow us down to take a closer look at why this person is apprehensive toward an idea.
In a relationship this person hangs on till the bitter end before committing to a permanent marriage. These marriages last because there is absolutely no question about if they are ready or not when the decision is made. Yes, they are mind numbingly aggravating, but, they do have they place in life. So, that's what I do when I am suddenly aware of a character or personality trait that as a whole is heavier on the negative side. I find out what it's good and bad aspects are, and try to lower the bad, and favor the good. Sort of looking at the silver lining!



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