Are you the controler or controled?!
Question: this question is great. it opens up a lot of discussion possibilities.
First. as a controller one should be a leader, someone who can run things well. IE: the Governor, the mayor, a director or a boss.
But, you must also be a teacher so that those who follow you won't fall on their faces but, will be able to stand on there own after you've shown them the way.
Now, to be controlled takes a bit of submission to someone else’s way of thinking.
when one is controlled, he or she is decent, elegant, frigid, immaculate, impotent, innocent, maidenly, modest, monogamous, moral, neat, platonic, proper, quiet, refined, restrained, simple.
I feel that I am the controller because I want what's best for mankind and I try and live my life so that when I leave this world, it will be better than I found it.
I am also controlled because I feel like I have everything in my life due to my faith in God, My great wife and my awesome children. I am controlled by my desires to protect and love my family. I am controlled by my desires to be a better person who is in control of his emotions, language and life.
Thanks for asking this question. this has been stimulating to think of all the different levels of control VS controlled.
Answers: this question is great. it opens up a lot of discussion possibilities.
First. as a controller one should be a leader, someone who can run things well. IE: the Governor, the mayor, a director or a boss.
But, you must also be a teacher so that those who follow you won't fall on their faces but, will be able to stand on there own after you've shown them the way.
Now, to be controlled takes a bit of submission to someone else’s way of thinking.
when one is controlled, he or she is decent, elegant, frigid, immaculate, impotent, innocent, maidenly, modest, monogamous, moral, neat, platonic, proper, quiet, refined, restrained, simple.
I feel that I am the controller because I want what's best for mankind and I try and live my life so that when I leave this world, it will be better than I found it.
I am also controlled because I feel like I have everything in my life due to my faith in God, My great wife and my awesome children. I am controlled by my desires to protect and love my family. I am controlled by my desires to be a better person who is in control of his emotions, language and life.
Thanks for asking this question. this has been stimulating to think of all the different levels of control VS controlled.
both
I am married. I am controlled.
It is 50 50 with me & my husband. I rule somethings and he has more say on others.
I'm the controller! It's like that when you're the only woman in a house of men! =)
definintley the controler...
The controller, couldn't have it any other way.
Controlled by God
both :l
I am definitely the controller.
I wouldnt mind being controlled
by you
both...
but most of the time im the "controler"...
its about 65/35
I am both, I am married to a man that is both also
The trick to this is KNOWING when to be controlled and when to Control !!
I am my own boss
Depends on my mood. I can be either.
A little of both I would say.
A controller who pretends to be controlled
both, changes throughout our relationship
the controller, my hubby knows who the boss is
Absolutely the controller. In the past I spent a few years being the controlled, but I turned that into a positive learning experience and will never be that person again.
depends on the day and time
mostly it is a partnership
I like to be in control!!!!!
I like for stuff to always go my way or the way I plan it!!!!!
during sex controler during life controled
Married man. She just let's me think I'm in control
Kind of both. A good relationship is a give and take one to where we both understand each other and there is a balance of power. : )
The Outer Limits is the controller.
controler, i like to be in charge of things. . .he he
The controller, but, not willingly. I'm left to make all major decisions, as well as something as simple as where to eat, when we go out for a meal. I really don't like
being the controller. :(
Controller amongst friends, controlled in a classroom (by the teacher, of course).
that depends on what the situation is. if im at work then im the controlled but if im off then im in charge of my life.
I will let myself be controlled in some circumstances, when it is necessary. I can just as easily control people and circumstances when it is appropriate to do so. I know people that just fold and coast. But the most interesting are ones that can evaluate the needs of a situation, and act accordingly.