Poll: Why do bad guys get all the gals?!
Question: Noticed over the years that those that Drink, do Drugs, Smoke and are in trouble with the law seem to get all the prettiest girls am I doing someting wrong? lol!!
Answers: Noticed over the years that those that Drink, do Drugs, Smoke and are in trouble with the law seem to get all the prettiest girls am I doing someting wrong? lol!!
No you are doing everything right, those pretty girls are just gift wrapped nicely, its whats inside that counts, When you do get a special lady, I hope she is gift wrapped just the way you want, but her heart and soul is what is going to determine if you stay a happy man or not...., some gals, are just plain stupid, and they think the wild life is exciting, but life is not a party, life is only what you make it, and I am sure that special Delicious lady of your dreams will come along, just be patient, but in the mean time, what happened to the lady you were interested in, did you ask her out? Don't be to shy, ask her out...good luck sweetheart......I know you will end up with a wonderful woman....
The guys that do everything "wrong" are the only ones with the balls to ask out the girls.
one word confidence.
i would prefer a kind and loving man rather then someone that i would never get to see becuase they are always in jail
You're doing nothing wrong. remember the saying nice guys finish last. well its true. plus sometimes life just likes to spit in your face.
Lots of chicks like "Projects" to fix.
lol.. great minds think alike.. I too wanted to ask the same.. simply put, most gals are not good in decision making..
You'll get your girl, don't change your ways!!!
Not me I prefer the good one
Coz the girls are worse than the bad guys.......the prettier they are the bigger the bi.tc.h they were in school/ etc.....
Some girls like a bad boy, but a lot also like a good guy too without all the beer swilling, drugging it and getting into trouble.. I used to go for the bad boy when I was younger.. it was exciting and a challenge, but now I would definately prefer a nice guy who is straight up and just treats himself and others with respect and I wish i'd done that when i was younger too then i wouldn't have so many regrets!
Well, those girls happen to be silly enough to choose the bad guys, honestly, I won't... I really get turned on by gentlemen... LOL! Being pretty doesn't mean that those girls are worth it...
This is something you shouldn't be jealous of, just remember that it means you will have a better girlfriend than those guys... ^_^
they take the risks and they have the balls to ask in the first place
NO!!! Stay as you are, these women have a "fantasy" that they can actually change the bad guy; I don't know of anyone who has been sucessful!
hey erm same problem for me im nice but no girls are intrested i have no spots and not bad looking but all the idiots what girls do like are spotty ugly freaks
those guys can b good 4 having a good time but not for a lasting relationship!
I've seen plenty of attractive women with nice guys. Maybe you've just been unlucky finding the right woman for you.
I think it is true that many women prefer the "bad boys" when they are younger (before they get burned by these jerks a time or three). I can only answer for myself as to why...the idea of finding a guy who was mean to everyone else but nice to me and someone I could potentially change from bad to good was an appealling idea for some stupid reason. I guess I just liked projects. Maybe I wanted to stroke my ego by getting a guy change "just for me". Call it the foolishness of youth.
It's not the drinking, the drugs, the getting in trouble with the law that gets them the hot chicks. Girls like guys who are willing to take risks and these guys take risks. Believe me, I know. I'm one of the lowest risk takers around and I get zero action and that's partially why. But like I said, it's not the "bad" things they do that get them the girls, the "bad" things just happen to be byproducts of their lifestyle. You can be a risk-taker without all the negatives.
Good observation. I have also noticed those guys don't stay with one woman for very long :)
Its not as simple as that....some girls are attracted to bad guys, its just what they like, the tatoos, the confidence, the excitement, the not caring about anything attitude because no matter how little they care about rules and things like that there will be one thing that they do care about; the girl. So she would be his whole world, and girls have this strange thing about their nature that makes them want to help bad guys become good again, they think they can change the guys life and he would not only love her more than he already does now but she would have changed him into a better person...i mean really can you be touched by anything more than that in your life? So...there're those reasons, and also, girls have a different way of looking at guys like that, they dont see the bad things as much, they only see the good things..well mostly but the bad things they do see, they disregard with patience and also because they love these guys and then say to themselves " i can help him be better, i know he is a good person inside, i know it " in their heads. Its really complicated to explain how a girl sees these types of guys, all i can tell you is that, that jerk with tatoos and a bad attitude you see, is not the same guy a girl would see. The nice guys never seem to believe you when you try to explain this to them, i wish they would because really that is all its about, its not like the bad guys are anything better than the nice guys, in fact you see, we are just trying to turn them into the nice guys....and you are already there, so be happy about that and dont change...i know its hard to find someone to love, it always is, its not just a problem exclusive to the nicest of guys, even though it may seem that way. Im sorry i cant explain this any better, i understand if you dont believe me, but i truly hope you do. :)
Here is something to think about. Those same girls do tire of the way those guys act.
I dated bad boys and married one. That has cured me and I want a guy who is decent now.
Most bad boys don't turn out to be life long dependable partners.
thats the way life goes