Get under someone else.....thet always helps...unless you catch herpes.
I guess I like to be in a relationship. After I left my daughter's real father about a week later I met my soon to be husband and we fell in love. I've been with him for 5 years now and 2 1/2 married.
Yes and no. I don't have a problem committing in a relationship, but my problem is committing to other things.
The idea of committing to single cell phone company for two years or signing a contract for anything scares me!!
i've never fully opened up to anyone
YES YES YES. It is very hard to commit after having your heart torn out of you and stomped on with stilleto heels. Unlike you, however, I hate being alone.
sometimes...cuz the past relationship make it hard..but than again there is always one person.
Yes, but you can't carry your baggage form one realationship to another, and while that may seem impossible, that is the one honest thing all your "failed" realtionships have had in common, so try something different, love yourself, change your routine in love, and you may like what you get!
Yes, sometimes I do. It can be really tough sometimes.
No.
Well, maybe ......
No, no, no.
Let me think about it .... yes? No, wait ... Ummmm....
I know how you feel....but, I can also tell you that you are wrong. God did not mean for humans to be alone. He meant for us to hate mates.
I went through a horrible marriage. Then, I did what you are doing....for years and years. I found someone very wonderul and because of my unfounded 'fear' I slammed the door on us having a relationship. In three days, I reopened that door and took a chance. I lay my heart right out there and it is so wonderful. I am one of the lucky ones. I found a good oen.
Grab a beer and throw some darts, you'll feel better soon sugar.
I do the same thing as you for a couple months or a year or however long it takes.
I will face the world around me
Knowing that I'm strong enough to let you go
And I will fall in love again
Because I can
Tina, baby... I've been committed already!
Yeaah I agree
I do the same thing.
I just want to be alone.
Good luck with your pain =(
I have a hard time committing to a job or employer....not relationship wise.....
I guess so, since I haven't committed yet! Right now, I find myself "playing" like there is nothing wrong, but deep down inside my heart is still mending. I will survive. As they say, "Time heals all wounds!" Right now I'm healing myself, rediscovering who I am first & foremost, then I'll go looking for who I really want in my life, to share my life life with, & to share it with my boys (so I have that extra "kicker" in the equation. As time goes on, I'll continue "putting up the good fight" of putting up a false front -- always wearing my smile -- and waiting for the day that I can be truly happy again.
Best of luck to U my dear! And God bless U too!
I was really hurt and affraid when I kicked my ex husband out of my house and was able to rebound fairly quick I went out that night with another man for a date :)
I have been hurt too many times as a child and as an adult, I still look to have a relationship and be commited to that relationship but it has to be where I can trust that I won't be hurt again.
There was a time in my life when I was going through that exact same thing. Here's the way I was able to work my way through it. Now, I'm not suggesting that this will work for you..
but it wouldn't hurt to run it by you anyhow.
I would get my heart broken. And the first thing I would do is
hop right into another relationship. Sounds familiar thus far?
Bad idea.
Would you go skiing on a broken leg?
Would you arm wrestle with a broken arm?
Would you enter an eating contest with a broken jaw?
Of course not. Then why do we wander off searching for love with broken hearts?
The operative word and key to breaking this vicious cycle
is relatively simple: Heal.
If you do not heal then you cannnot love.
There's only one way to heal and I find this most effective of all things. You first have to: Forgive.
And forgiveness is moreso for you than it is for the other person, or the one who's harmed you. Because without that forgiveness, you merely wind up suspended into limbo.
You wind up trapped into the past and can't advance forward neither into the present nor the future. And the past is a very lonely place to be.
Finally; once you've forgiven and healed you now become eligible for, capable of and excited about the prospect of encountering love again. You will have something genuine to offer and your judgment will be much clearer and not tainted.
This has worked tremendously for me as I have now finally met, recognized, fallen in love with and proposed to my soul-mate.
We're to get married in Februrary on Valentine's Day.
I wish you only the very best in life and hope that you're able to persevere and over come your struggles.
I also bid you much love, hugs, peace and happiness always.
Good luck and God bless.