If you forgive someone, but still do not want to talk to them?!


Question: isnt that the same as not forgiving them?


Answers: isnt that the same as not forgiving them?

depends on why you don't want to talk to them. If they don't want to take responsiblity for their actions or words, whatever they need forgiveness for, you can forgive, but you don't want to enable them to live in denial.

Yes, you haven't forgiven just yet.

it takes a while to get over the anger and dissappointment

Could be.




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Yes, either you forgive somebody whole-heartedly, or you haven't forgiven them yet

No because sometimes it takes a while for me to get over being mad even though I have forgiven them...eventually I will talk to them, just not at that moment.

I think maybe it is different. I can forgive someone, but that does not mean that I can trust them again. Life is too short to surround yourself with people you cannot trust.

Maybe you've forgiven them-really. But, you just can't forgive yourself and it still hurts to talk to them.

No, we have to forgive people for our own peace of mind because being mad or hating people is bondage for us, not them. You can forgive them but you don't have to be friends with them. Good luck! : )

yes people are different and some actually don't forgive ppl for what they did.

No, you can forgive someone but want to stay out of this person's way.
To forgive someone doesn't mean that you are obligated to socialize with this person in the future. Do as you feel.

I agree, yes, not wanting to talk to them means that you haven't really forgiven them yet. Think about why, or if you can forgive that person. Some things never can be forgiven depending on how serious the hurt is. But the fact that you are asking the question and advice here means that you are thinking about forgiveness. Good luck!

nah...it means we still cool, i just aint got stuff to say to you right now...come back in a month

I talked to (my sister) but it didn't mean that I had forgiven her, it was because of the inheritance that we have to receive from our parents (mother) & had argued which part & to whom that part will be given because all have different views and opinions. I was asked by my elder sisters and brothers to call her since all of them are only depending my decision. If I have to decide that part will be given to that sister, then all of them will say YES or OK. But since I don't want that part to be given to her, so I need to tell her the truth that she is not able to receive that part. She can only have it once she could return the valuable things she took from me. She even asked me if I could forgive her since it's already 4yrs had passed from the misdeed she did to me. But I told her honestly that I WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU unless you gave it back to me. That is only the deal in order she can receive my forgiveness.
BTW am the youngest. & I know some here would not agree with me & maybe would think I'm so bad at all. But I don't count those backfights if there are because they don't know only how valuable & sentimental for me these "things" were taken from me & I guess if I would only type here the real details, I assumed that everybody will be shocked to read it instead.

I think not......I don't want to get into details, but I have been going through that for a few month now!! I still have to see these people and I am nice......but it is hard. I would like to forgive and forget......I did forgive.....but forgetting is a different story.

no.. you can forgive and learn.. so if you chose not to deal with them its because you have learn they are not to be **** with!



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