OMG I am so frusterated and need advice?!
Question: ok heres the deal for quiet some time I have expected of my husband having a fling with his bosses wife...On Tuesday's her husband isnt at the shop ...she works on Tuesday and my husband is there of coarse....its just a small town mechanic_ shop tire shop.He has come home periodically and had lunch here or picked me up and brought me back to the shop with him just so that I could get out of the house. well today I ask if he could come and get me and I would take the truck and wash it and detail it and he has gone balistic on me coming up with excuses why he cant come and get me.You ladies already know that because it's Tuesday and they are there alone thatit is F*C*I*G with my head..I and my sick thinking knows what is going on or he wouldnt be so defencive and trying to say that nothing is happening..ok I know yall are gonna let me vent and have a bad hair day...any advice.I am really angry right at this moment..
Answers: ok heres the deal for quiet some time I have expected of my husband having a fling with his bosses wife...On Tuesday's her husband isnt at the shop ...she works on Tuesday and my husband is there of coarse....its just a small town mechanic_ shop tire shop.He has come home periodically and had lunch here or picked me up and brought me back to the shop with him just so that I could get out of the house. well today I ask if he could come and get me and I would take the truck and wash it and detail it and he has gone balistic on me coming up with excuses why he cant come and get me.You ladies already know that because it's Tuesday and they are there alone thatit is F*C*I*G with my head..I and my sick thinking knows what is going on or he wouldnt be so defencive and trying to say that nothing is happening..ok I know yall are gonna let me vent and have a bad hair day...any advice.I am really angry right at this moment..
I would buy his favorite meal and take it to him at work. You say he sometimes buys you something for lunch, you could return the favor and bring lunch to him for a change. That's "an innocent" excuse for paying him a visit. Keep in mind your timing can be off and you may not catch them in the act. However it will get him thinking.
Good luck.
you are in some serious need of professional help. I hope you are not looking after any small children.
If he's cheating on you, you have to know. It's better to be safe than sorry. Get over there after he leaves. If you don't have a car, borrow one from a neighbor. There is no way you can be treated like that!
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There's really only one thing you can do honey. Have his friends over. ?
Well, since you mentioned you are stuck in the house already, I am just assuming that you may be paranoid (and just a bit bored) because of that.
If I were you, I'd just chill out unless you have definite proof that he is messing around. Just because someone is alone with another person does not mean they are screwing. And if you flip out on him or act suspicious without having proof, you're only going to piss him off.
next tuesday I would borrow someones car and just show up....
If there is trust issues in your marriage, it may be time to leave. Even if there is no affair, the issue of lack of trust makes your marriage in jeopardy. Why do you stay if you think he is capable of having an affair?
Even if he's NOT cheating on you...
The relationship has gone sour...
Your suspicions alone ought to be the "proof" you need he doesn't love you the way it's supposed to be between a man and his wife...
Divorce...move on...find someone you WILL forever trust not to do that to you...
We are out here...we exist...guys like me don't even cheat on our girlfriends, let alone some woman we marry...
It's over...sorry to be the one to wake you up...but that's "tough love," baby, coming from a guy who has never cheated...(If I suddenly wanted to have sex with another woman...I would break up with the one I have...it's the proper gentlemanly thing to do...)
yeah im with girl above me
walk borrow a car buit get down there
its perfect he would never expect u to show up. i have done it. just do it. it will help ease ur mind
i hope things get better for u hang in there!!!
just give him this
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