Is this ok?!
Question: Would it be rude of me to ask my my roommate to plug in her headphones? Her music is just loud enough to be heard over mine (and I'm wearing headphones) and I'm trying to study.
But would it be rude? I don't want to be rude... I could go to the library or the study room, but I kind of want to stay in my own room. Yes, I know it is her room too.
Answers: Would it be rude of me to ask my my roommate to plug in her headphones? Her music is just loud enough to be heard over mine (and I'm wearing headphones) and I'm trying to study.
But would it be rude? I don't want to be rude... I could go to the library or the study room, but I kind of want to stay in my own room. Yes, I know it is her room too.
No, It wouldn't be rude. Just don't be too straight foward.
Sounds reasonable to me.
thats not rude, maybe she doesnt know hers r so loud
it is not rude.She is for having it so loud.
Uhhh....
kinda. Just say "I can't concentrate nor listen to my music, because your music is too loud."
Idk, I'm not good at this stuff, but try it.
be polite when you tell her smile and she doesnt agree then go to the library but its not rude
It's not rude...... Tell her the truth and I'm sure she will understand.... If she doesn't, then SHE'S being the rude one!
NO that would not be rude
No it's not rude. She's being rude.
sure tell her to shut it!!
just dont be too blunt now!
I dont think it would be rude. if she is your friend she would understand and would try to keep it to a level that would not interfere. Its all about working things out, and being friendly and respectfull
I don't think that it sounds very rude. Blaring music while someone's trying to study is rude. That's happened to me a few times before. If you ask politely, there shouldn't be a problem.
Doesn't seem rude to me...seems perfectly reasonable.
sounds o.k.
make sure she can't hear yours
Maybe you could use that as the way to approach her to turn down her music.
No it's perfectly fine to ask it's your room too you have to remember that, just ask her nicely, remember you have the right to speak. Good luck.
what you feel is totally understandable.. yes it's ok and no it's not rude! just say politely, with please n thank you... if she still continues im sorry man i dont know what else u can do :( try to go to some other place that will make u feel like ur own place (like a friend's house or something)
thats not being rude whats rude is your roommate she should have some courtacy if you live with somebody you should respect there wishes just ask nicely dont be pissed off just say hey i dont wanna b an *** but im trying to study would you mind just turing ur music down a lil bit untill im done
No - not at all -- they may not even realize it, ya know? Just say "I'm sorry and if my asking is an imposition, I'll move......but is there any way you can......"
I tell any new neighbors who move in below me to PLEASE call or knock if we ever get too loud up here (because we do not intend to but people downstairs may hear it louder than we think -- that is just courteous).
A normal human being would accept it. They probably figure since you have your headphones in that you can't hear them........
I don't think it would be rude at all, If anything she is being rude to you by playing her music so loud.