Is there truly a such thing.......!


Question:

Is there truly a such thing.......................


as unconditional love for a spouse?


Answers: Absolutely not! We all have conditions associated with spousal love. For example: Would one love their spouse if she/he continually abused children or anyone else. I think not.
One may have unconditional love for their God and their children but for the spouse, no. If this were true, explain the divorce rate. When we marry, we make all the promises to love, honor, etc. but what happens when one falls short? Divorce! No, spousal love is not without condition. We all have expectations of our spouses and when those expectations aren't met, we lose a sense of self. The Ideal mate is no longer ideal. Romantic love is conditional. I am not down on love. But, I am a realist. Yes, there definately is. For me unconditional love is loving the other person with a completely open heart with no preconceived ideas. It DOESN'T mean however to accept any actions on their part that harm you..be that mentally, emotionally or physically. Expecting not to be abused in a relationship is NOT putting "conditions" in that relationship at all. You can love someone who abuses you (Sometimes you can't help it) but loving that person and staying in that situation are completely different things Yes, there is such a thing. But whether or not it's put into practice is altogether a different thing. I don't think that unconditional love mean that we are suppose to put up with verbal or physical abuse on any level. That is not what unconditional love means. It means that regardless of what a person does we can find it in our heart to forgive them and wish the best for that person. It means that if that person were to knock on our door with a gunshot through the chest that we would have enough compassion and 'unconditional' love for that person to get them the help that they need regardless of what they may have done to hurt us in the past. Yes there is I wish there was, but as soon as you become intimate with someone you become more emotionally attached. So you care more and if they hurt you it hurts more. So....NOPE

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