Did you get bullied in school or did you bully your peers in school?!
Question:
Did you get bullied in school or did you bully your peers in school?
Did you ever cry as a result of the bullying?
Did you tell an authority figure? did that help.
If you were or are a bully in school.
Why do you bully?
How does it make you feel when you bully other people?
Are you a bully that has been bullied? How did you feel when it happened to you.
Did being bullied in school affect your adult life once you were out of school? If so, How?
Answers: I was bullied, and I cried all the time, especially at the beginning of the day. Most of the time I just told people that I was ill.
One time I went to the nurse, who refused to send me home, but I wouldn't leave her office. She eventually called my mum to pick me up, but the head teacher heard she was coming and decided to have a word with her about my performance in a particular class. My mum said I was getting bullied, so my headmistress had to go into the class and tell everyone what was happening. Afterwards, she called me into the receptionist's office to talk to her about it. The headmistress told me about the class, and that they wanted to apologise to me. I didn't believe her, but when I saw them later, they actually did.
The situation did make my life relatively easier to live afterwards. I hated it there though - the teachers always singled me out and shouted at me in front of the class - they didn't care about humiliation. I'm so glad i'm free of high school/secondary school politics!! more or less.... neither, I was always in the middle i used to in 5th grade im in 6th grade now somewhat bullied in elementary, then i was less of a geek Neither. I was pretty athletic in school and lettered. But I used that to play on varsity sports teams, not to bully other children because I was a little stronger. My parents raised me right. I don't think it has to be one or the other. some times i cried yes, i told authority figures, but i usually got in more trouble than my bullies. i bullied because until that point i had been bullied. that turned me into one. it didnt make me feel like anything, i hated everyone because they were mean to me for no reason. so i acted as such. i imagine it affected me in ways i dont understand. Neither... I was so friendly and didn't like to get into troubles... And thanx god never been bulleyed... They used to bully me until one day when Paris Hilton walked alongside me & sang.........
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Our school never let bullies pick on children I was good friends with all the bullies in school and hung out with "the losers" lol, on weekends and after school and stuff
its better that way so u dont get picked on and if u do you have some back.. I was never a bully. I was a friend to everybody in my high school. I was the class clown: I didn't mess with anyone, and no one messed with me. If you're being seriously harrassed report it to your school board. Harrassment is illegal. Bullies usually bully people because of their own insecurities. Don't let it get to you. Again, if it's serious and affecting your personal life, tell your parents, your teacher, and the school board. I grew up in a very prejudice neighborhood. I fought every day of my life throughout Jr. high and high school. The bullies always ran together and it wasn't unusual for me to have to take on 3-4 at a time. One one one, they always ran - ALWAYS. Bullies are cowards and low lifes. If I ever find out that my son had become a bully, I would beat the holy hell out of him. neither... I'm neutral=) Thank God... Well I wasn't a bully, and I rarely got bullyied myself. I wasn't popular either, I was just 'the wierd kid' who talked to trees and drew all of the time. Almost everyone gets made fun of at some point, though...
Did I every cry? Maybe once, when I got home.
Urgh.. not like anyone would listen... my problems weren't major to other people back then.
Hmm... it didn't really affect me. I think I turned out allright. You just need to learn how 'not to care'.
PS: The worst grades for bullying are: Middle School and Late-Elementary. Amazingly, I was neither, however, later in life have encountered many bullies, my guess is either they were bullies as children and never grew up, or were bullied as children and finally decided to be the bully, rather than the bullied.
The best way to stop a bully is to confront them. Once they know their behavior does not affect you, they generally stop. I don't think I was bullied so much, I just remember kids being randomly mean: tripping, spitting, etc. Although that kind of behavior may be kids just being kids, I do think it is a major problem. As we have seen in instances such as Columbine, sometimes the kids who feel bullied retaliate. I got bullied bad in school. Girls are pure evil. I am frinedly and outgoing and confident, the girls could not stand it because they were insecure and shy (and ugly) I would always talk to boys but not in a sl ut wayin a friend way and all the girls resented me for it. I never cried becuz of it. I think it made me stronger person, in 8th grade I finally got in a fight and I did pretty good. Girls did not bully me after that :D I am now a sophomore in HS I think everybody has been bullied to some extent during their school years, weather physically or mentally, it's just part of adolescences... We moved around a lot so I was always the new kid, I learned early that if you stand up to the first bully the rest will leave you alone. Yes, I was bullied, because I have a disability. No, I never cried. I felt angry, and I did share a few fights with some. I never bullied others though.
In second grade, a few older girls were messing with us. A teacher noticed, and made the girls stop. I remember she gave them detention. The teasing stopped, but I don't think I ever told an authority figure about being bullied. It never got that bad.
In junior high and high school, it was the occasional stares and laughs. It didn't have any effect on me as I entered adulthood. I regarded that as adolescent crap. I was neither I just never got involved i kept to myself during school everyone thought i was crazy or something i just marched to the beat of my own drum still do to this day. If I saw it happening I fixed the situation especially if it was a friend of mine that was being bullied. Most of the time they just need to be outsmarted then they understand not to mess with you. If anyone did bully me in school i brushed it off I didn't let them bring me down I learned to love myself from how I was raised so my motto was old but it worked I am rubber you are glue what you say bounces off of me and sticks to you. It helped me a lot. I would to recommend it to anyone in need. Either I got bullied at school on a daily basis. So did my brothers. I used to cry all the time, not at school but when I got home from school. I told teachers and no it didn't help. I didn't have any friends either so that didn't help.
I still get picked on at work. It is because I'm deaf and I don't talk clearly. I have a great partner now though. He tells me not to worry about them because they don't matter in my life. I wish I had a friend though. Maybe I might meet a nice girl who will want to be my friend one day ;)