Do you like to talk about other peoples problems or your own ?!
Question:
Do you like to talk about other peoples problems or your own ?
Answers: I'm a combo woman most of the time but I really feel that there are a lot of people that need to be heard but at the same time, you have those that that's all they want is to be heard and talk about themselves.
I stay away from those types. other peoples both. Most of the time others. Hopefully I can help in some way. But if my troubles are serious or important to me then I like talking about them. My own I don't like to talk about mine nor theirs. It depends on the problem and if I can be helpful to other people or not. my problems because i am most important. if I talk about other peoples problems then mine don't seem so bad :) neither I like to talk about people with problems that give me problems about their problems. screw that, i'm not trying to hear about other peoples problems. what do i look like, free therapy? and i don't talk about mine either--to anyone. if i'm hanging out with you, it's because you're FUN. not cuz you talk about problems. When I am too bummed I prefer to vent so my own but to think about it, it's always nice to hear about someone worse off than I am. haha =) other peoples problems...I'm usually pretty good at giving useful advice & I like to help. Is the office water cooler or coffee pot nearby? That makes a difference, so does the person that I'm talking to. I'm not going to confide in some guy that I just met off the street, but I'll tell him all about Mr. Soandso's mistress. Both. Sometimes losing yourself in other people's problems help you cope with your own but too much of that makes you a gossip hound. And sometimes you just need to focus on yourself to make things better around you. I don't like to talk about mine but I will listen to other peoples problems and offer advice Others. It's easier to look at things when you're not personally involved. more about other ppls than my own. Other peo[les....mind are way to Bad... sharing is caring ..... doc I like to help others, I deal with my stuff ! Others', but I find it hard to get them to talk about what's bugging them. I must be going about it wrong. I'd like to listen, but they're scared to trust me, maybe because I'm a man & the ones I prefer to help are women. I'm much more comfortable talking to the girls ! YEAH !! both, but others mostly.