Can we air out our problems?!


Question: Can we air out our problems!?
If you have a problem with me or anybody else here, how about being objective and rationally stating what you don't like so that we can "all pull together as a team"

I'm hating this dissention, and I'd be willing, not to conform, or just to make others happy, but to consider your thoughts

maybe this is a bad idea

my question is, what can we do to strengthen the camaraderie of this section!?!?!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
How about thumbs up for everybody!!!!? Yay!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think it just comes down to pushing back this negative culture that has developed!. It used to be a more positive place and this stuff wasn't happening!. I know that something as simple as a anti jonas name becoming a thing seems like something that won't change the tone necessarily, but it does!. I'm not articulating well, and I'm having trouble putting the whole thing together, but I just know that this used to be a more positive place and these things didn't happen!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I really don't have any problems with anyone on here!. I try to make friends with everyone because I'm a friendly!. If I happen to dislike someone on here it's because of them always reporting my questions (trolls)and giving me crap over my answers!. as long as I've been here I have made some enemies and it's all because of the opinions I share!. If people on here have problems with me I tell them to email me then we can solve the problems!. believe I'm always up for a debateWww@Enter-QA@Com

shreder - obviously it's not just a certain someone with a fruit in their name, considering you have 4 other thumbs down !.!.!.!. in fact you have more thumbs down than anyone else here!. Just a thought!.


Nice idea Leech!. I think if we stopped bashing on the Jonas Brothers/MCR/Tokio Hotel, then we'd be a LOT better off!. Unfortunately, that would take a conscious effort on *nearly* everybody's parts (including me) and it seems many people don't really care!. =/Www@Enter-QA@Com

The only person I have ever had an 'issue' with knows whe he is, and, whatever he may think, I just ignore him now!.

I'm all for 'thumbs-up' :)
The only people who get t-d from me are those who have been extreamly rude or offensive to the asker, or the 'idk - free 2-points' answerers!.


Shreder :
Some of the 'adults' here can be more immature than the teenagers!Www@Enter-QA@Com

I get the feeling that Rocco doesn't like me too much but I have no problem with anyone (that I can think of anyway)!. I wish I could just /\/\461[477Y make the hate disappear!. =/

EDIT - Kidding!. The hate is what makes this section so entertaining xDWww@Enter-QA@Com

I second MikeSnake's answer!. I don't have any problems with anyone in this section if they don't like me I honestly don't care I have many good contacts in this section that are cool in my book!.

Thumbs up for everyone from me!Www@Enter-QA@Com

i don't hate anybody on here i just hate the fact that so many people can't accept the fact that people have different tastes in music!. if people could learn to accept that, which i highly doubt, then there wouldn't be so many argumentsWww@Enter-QA@Com

all i can think of is operating from the standpoint that a difference of opinions and likes isn't personal!. Its just human!. Take what is valuable to you and leave the rest!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Say what you like!. If you must comment on songs/artists/etc!. that you don't like, BE SURE to word it in a way that it's clear that your statement is reflecting YOUR OPINION only!.

Simple as that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Maybe everyone could agree to disagree, there's always gonna be differences of opinion on here!.

Arguing in the Internet is stupid!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index;!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I don't Leech!. I have to many petty Violations to do anything!.

It's up to you, that remain!.,

I did my part!.

Take care :)
!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I honestly don't have a problem with anybody on here; except for people who report for no reason and annoying trolls and such!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Good point leech
I dont have any problems with anyone here but with one certain person that falsely accused me of something i didnt do and that person knows how they areWww@Enter-QA@Com

I honestly think that things were going the best when Dr!. Phil was here!.

He was a professional mediator, and he seemed to make everything OK!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

be open minded!.!.!.realize that everyone has very different tastes in music and different opinions!.!.!.simple as that!.!.!.people get so 'butt-hurt' over dumb sh*t!.!.!.its Yahoo Answers for crying out loud!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Relax and talk about Music

Damn People, ain't that what we're all here for!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

Wow!. Good point Leech!.


Of course!.!.!. my personal problem is a deluded freelance writing astrophysicist, who seem to forget he blocked me long ago!.!.!.and has been sniffing my butt like a little puppy ever since!. (and, is maturity level is plain for all to see by his choice of avatars!.)

I guess he is trying to prove his writing skills by attempting to rewrite history!. Fortunately!.!.!. the only people who's opinions actually matter on this already know the truth of the matter!.

So!.!.!.!. I could care less!. I am well satisfied with myself, and don't feel the need to post fictitious statements to extend the size of my genitalia!. Generally I find it far more precipitous to simply ignore the little man, but since he felt the need to "air out" his perceived grievance!.!.!.!. now you have the OTHER side of the story!. Now!.!.!.since I'm mature enough to NOT have to block anyone who dares to disagree with me (or!.!.thinks I'm full of crap), i find his self serving little treatise rather amusing!.

Unfortunately!.!.!.any place that allows for opinions, will allow for dissension Leech!. You know this as well as any!. It's how mature people are at HANDLING differences that determines what happens!.

But!.!.!.since this site is open to ANYONE, we have to expect the immature, the stupid, the proud, the arrogant and all other personality defects along with, the wise, the educated and the like!. And!.!.!.in an HONEST evaluation!.!.!.we would likely find that EACH of us, to one degree or another display ALL of these personality traits!.

So!.!.!. it is inherent upon US, to take the good with the bad (excluding of course things that are outright inappropriatte ), realize that at times we are going to disagree, even disagree vehemently with what someone says!. Big deal!. It is sad when someone is flatout WRONG, and refuses to admit it, or tries to discredit others instead!.!.!. since this is ANSWERS!. A lot of things are opinion based though!.!.!.and to get upset over an opinion, or as some seem to, to feel threatened by the fact, that regarding certain subjects!.!.!.!.some of us actually know what we are talking about, is just truly sad!.

(and, interestingly enough, the only time I dole out thumbs downs is when I run into a blatant lie, racism or the like!.)

***Anyways, Leech!.!.as you see from TFZ, and my answer to yours, Roxel's, Rocco's and other posts!.!.!.I for one have NO problem with differing opinions!. If someone attempts to claim an expertise they do not have, I admit, at times my mischevious nature gets the best of me!. And if it is just plain obvious that someone is talking out their rectal canal!.!.!.well!.!.!. I might call them out on it!.

As for strengthening the camraderie of this section!.!.>WE can do little about that!. Individually, it is something that can be done!. Each person has to simply set their pettiness aside, and not hide behind a monitor, attempting to bouy their self esteem!. This site ISN'T a contest!. The most BAs will not grant you a life of luxury!. Sounding educated on here willNOT improve your sex life!.

This is simply a question and answer forum!. To improve things!.!.!.we need to ALL remember, that it doesn't REALLY matter!. Most of us are simply here to find new music!. In doing so, we find like personalities that we tend to gravitate to!.

We also are bound to find people who's tastes we DON'T agree with!. I get a LOT of great tips on here, and I am fond of a number of users!. Even ones that I don't share tastes, or even views with!.

So!.!.!. when we see people get a little "following" of friends, so to speak!.!.!.we need to NOT get our panties in a bunch over it!. We need to accept differences!. AND!.!.!.!.!.!.WHEN WE POST A QUESTION OR AN ANSWER, WE SHOULD EXPECT THAT AT TIMES PEOPLE WILL FLAT OUT DISAGREE WITH US!. If we cannot handle that!.!.then really, this is the wrong place to ask a question!. Save it for ones personal circle of cronies!.

But HERE, expect, and ACCEPT different points of view, different tastes, and that in different subjects!.!.!.!.many of us have much still to learn!. I have yet to meet an all-knowing person on here (I have met a few that THINK they know, or try to convince people they know everything)!. And that most assuredly goes for myself!. I limit my answers personally to things I am familiar with, or things I want more information about!.

And!.!.if we simply cannot reconcile with someone!.!.!.!. I find the best solution is simply to ignore them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I dont hate or have any ill feelings towards anyone on here, and per my knowlege, I think everyones cool with me!. Yes I like to joke around every once in a while but I dont say mean things about people on here!. Their have been an instance or 2 when some one misreads an answer of mine and gets bummed but we air it out!. No big deal!.

The thing is, their really is no need to for any of us to be bickering with one another!. I accept the fact that my music tastes are far superior to all of yours !.!.!.j/k =)

Actually, you all have turned me onto some bands that I otherwise would have never heard of!. And yes their are some bands that you all may like that I'm not that fond of,but thats what makes us who we are!.If you all were to look at my music collection you would see stuff like ABBA,Tom Jones and Neil Diamond along with Maiden, Danzig etc!.
If we all liked the same thing or if we all hated the same thing,what fun would that be!?Its the small things we have in common that connect us as a team!.

EDIT-With pleasure =)
I hope the link works, I'm at work and YOUTUBE is blocked =(
http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=cVo6wetSz!.!.!.

EDIT- My thing is this, If I come across a question about a metal band I dont like, I ignore the question!. What gives me the right to to answer that question by saying that the band sucks!. I've gained nothing by doing that!. I mean, what am I to expect would happen!. Lets say Darth asks a question about "Best Iron Maiden Song" and my answer is, "Iron Maiden Sucks'( which they dont)!. Am I to expect Darth to go "Wow, Riki said they sucked,maybe he's right and they do suck!." Theres no point in bashing other people choice in music (ok, I am guilty of Jonas Brothers bashing and I am wrong for that)!.If they like a certain band or a certain style of music,thats great!. All I ask is that my tastes are respected too!. =)Www@Enter-QA@Com

I agree Leech!.!.!.there is waaay too much deception and bull sh*t here in R&P!. And far too much bashing going on as evidenced at an earlier post today by Floydian Trooper!.
This is one of the reasons I am taking a break from this place!. This section used to be about the giving and sharing of each others knowledge, and not about band bashing/genre bashing and people bashing, thumbs down, reporting etc!.
Everyone has a right to be here!.!.!.and nobody has the right to tell someone they don't, because they disagree with that persons particuar tastes in music, etc!. The Anti Jonas, and Anti MCR crusades held here are perfect examples of this nonsense!. The sad part about that crap was the fact that some of the masterminds behind those crusades were full grown adults! These types of actions only infuriate others, and the end result is for the most part dissention, and or retaliation in the form of trolling/reporting!. Lately this type of thing has become so prevalent in R&P and it sickens me!. I've been here a very long time and I do remember the good old days!. I'm not sure that anything can be done to rectify this growing problem of deception and hatred!. I guess choosing your friends/contacts carefully is one way!. I always found it strange how some people here have to continuously be adding contacts to their list without knowing the first thing about them!. That's been a recipe for disaster in some cases with a few of my friends here over the last year or so!.

*Edit - Floydian Trooper!.!.!.I did appreciate your post about me, and I've told you that!. So for you to say here in your answer!.!.!."whether I like it or not" has me a little perplexed!. And I'd hardly call what was witnessed at your post "honesty"!. It was deleted before there was any real chance of seeing the true honesty of this section!. What I saw there were a handful of angry opinionated delusional people!.!.!.sorry, but I'd hardly say that's representative of the "honesty" here in this section known as R&P!.!.!.no offense!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I'm cool with everyone myself Leech!. My post over Smiley wasn't because I am not cool with everyone!. It was just to announce my feelings over not being someone that is going to get caught up in all the cry baby bull $hit!. I like everyone until the fu#k me!. As long as you don't then we are square!. If you do then oh well!. No sweat off my balls!. I just will block you and go on about my business!.

Answer: To strengthen we need to be open and honest with each other!. That was the other point of my post about Smiley!. I sent him that link so he could get some honesty!. I don't care if he likes it or not!. That is just what people need from each other!. If you don't like what someone said then forget it!. I go back to the old acronym!.!. TEAM

T- together
E- everyone
A- achieves
M- moreWww@Enter-QA@Com

well leech, unfortunately I feel not enough people care for resolution with regard to their problems with other people!. I think to them its much easier to be pissed off and hate or dislike the person rather than approach the individual and attempt to resolve the issue!. also, pride is a huge factor as well as ego!. so instead of relieving the tension they would just rather follow the people around they dislike or hate and annoy the piss out of them by giving thumbs down!. there is a user on here that hates me and gives me thumbs down on every single one of my answers, someone that has a fruit in their user name, and I think he will continue to do so!. very childish and the sad thing is this person is an adult!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I find it hilarious that one user tries to call out another one when I (and another credible user) know that he's trolled this section before and sent hate mail to anyone he disagrees with and then blocks you for it!. Then he covers it up by pretending he's the victim!.!.!.!.!.

For the record guy, I don't give out thumbs down because I don't like someone!.!.!.!.

I think elitists need to disappear!. Sometimes it's difficult to carry on when you feel like you're targeted because your music collection doesn't resemble someone elses!. I get thumbs down on opinion based questions, even if I've explained my point!. Sometimes I get them and not a single other user will!. Oh well, I've accepted that, but what I don't understand is what I ever did to somebody to the point where they harass my answers!. I feel like I get along with all the Regs in the section and I'm always willing to go to bat for that person!. What gives!?

As for what happened earlier, I'm not sure of the whole story, nor do I need to be!. All I know is many contacts of mine were involved and I feel for them all!. It's a shame all across the board!.

Unfortunately, this won't ever stop!. There's always going to be one person who never stops doing what they do!.

I came to this site for knowledge, I seek it out for my love of music!. Ask anyone, I'll give anything a try once and my mind is open to all sorts of music!. As far as Metal Elitists go, sorry if my collection isn't up to your standards, but if you ask some users in here I've asked for recommendations plenty of times!. I just recently picked up my first Maiden album!.!.!.!.I love early Metallica, Slayer, and Pantera and have for many, many years!. People always think they have you pegged as a certain type, but I've learned from many Q/A's on here that you should never judge!.!.!.!.!.

An example of that would be Darth!.!.!.!.he let me know he was a fan of one my fav!. bands!. I in turn asked him for Metal bands because he's so darn knowledgable in that category!. We disagree on bands (I know you loathe Incubus, Darth lol), but we respect each other!. Again, I'm here for fun and musical growth!.

Maybe if people were a little more open-minded and left jealousy and resentment at the door we would all get along and not have Q's like this one!.

Good Day, Leech!.!.!.!.!.and thanks for at least trying to make a difference!.


Edit: Smiley, I will go on record saying I'll miss your contributions!.!.!.!.and I agree with you on constant bashing of bands/genres!. It gets old and distracts us from what's important!.!.!.!.!.which is sharing and learning!. Besides one day I actually sat down and thought!.!.!.!.some 12 year old girl who doesn't know any better is getting upset because people are saying some horrible things about a band she likes!. I'm not holier than thou, I would have my "fun" a while ago!.!.!.!.but there was one particular question a while back where I've said, "I'm done, this is my last question on this subject ever!." True to my word, it was!.!.!.!.!.and I've seen 8 billion questions on the subject since!. I choose good music and the comfortable idea that I didn't make some little girl cry over the internet!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I agree!. Being here is getting tedious and boring!. All we do is bash the Jonas Brothers and other bands we don't like!. Then so many people go on rants about it!. I still like this place!. R&P is the best section on Answers, I used to be in Beauty and Style and whatever alot, but those people annoyed me there too!. ha ha and then i went on over to the R&S section and just a bunch of people bashed Christians all the time!. So I'm a bored teenager sitting at home with nothing to do because people over the internet wanna be bunch of jackasses!. Somehow I found myself in R&P, I don't even know why I came here!. lol I never came to the music sections, but when I came I liked it!. But man so many people here love to give thumbs down just because they don't like your band, your music, or your frikin opinion! I think it would be nice if we could all just be friends!.!.!.I mean when you hang out with you friends do you start yelling at them because you hate their music taste!? Do you make fun of them!? Do you rant on about how much you hate their bands!? No!.!.!.!.so why do it here!?

And look now, people just couldn't resist giving thumbs down on this question when every single answer pretty much agreed!
Plus, I don't see people's problem with *shreder*, I like him, I think he's cool!. I'm gonna admit, when I first came here I did not like Rocker Kidd or Killer Peaches!.!.!.but I like them both now!. I think they are both really cool people!. I believe that when I first came here people didn't like me either, and I STILL think people don't like me here, but whatever!. It's cool!. I don't care if people over the internet who I've never met like me, they don't know anything about me, and I don't give a crap if they do!. I still like the people here, and I like some of the questions, but it's getting so bad that it's hard to ask a question without someone giving an idiotic, unnecessary, sarcastic answer!. So for my answer to you question, I think we should all get over our crap and stop being losers and accept that people like different music than us, we should stop the band bashing (once in a while is cool though =P )!. I must say that question about our top 10 favorite users!.!.!.well that kind of adds to the hate in this section!. People shouldn't ask questions like that, all it does is open a door to tell the people we don't like, that we don't like them!. (Was that you who asked or someone else!? I don't remember!.) EDIT: nope it was Dr!. Sarcastic


Hopefully after this question things will get better!. =)Www@Enter-QA@Com



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