FOR THE LADIES y do SOME women uphold thugs and downtalk men who do honest work?!
Question: is it that some women would rahter have a man be rich risking 25 to life everyday over a man who will keep you taken care of and u know he will come home to u
just more research nothing personal thanks
DO NOT I REPEAT THIS IS NOT A MAN BASHING THREAD JUST ANSWER IF ITS YES SAY Y IF ITS NO SAY WHY
Answers: is it that some women would rahter have a man be rich risking 25 to life everyday over a man who will keep you taken care of and u know he will come home to u
just more research nothing personal thanks
DO NOT I REPEAT THIS IS NOT A MAN BASHING THREAD JUST ANSWER IF ITS YES SAY Y IF ITS NO SAY WHY
I think that a lot of these women have no sense of values...They think that the fast money is status and it makes them feel important the same as the thug does...Its a fantasy life...and to be a part of it is a rush. These are women that grew up in the suburbs and what to experience the tuff guy...They think it cute...a turn on...Then u have the women that grew up in the hood. That finally has the guy that can get her what she wants when she wants and is respected in the streets...She has no sense of what a real man is because there was no male role model to show her this is what a real man should be like.
Both these type of women dont want to be with a normal working man...Why because he is just plain...He works everyday just to bring back a bit to get by. Or he cant get her the things that she wants when she wants it. If he's a honest and professional...these types of women will think if them as punks.
Its not all women that like guys like that...I think that mostly girls have this "thug dream" man in mind for courtship...lol
For the same reason some men date stanky chicks and ignore women who have a bit of class and dignity - there's no accounting for taste
i'd like to see some of these answers....lets play fair ladies, you get to bash male rappers and their lyrics all the time..give a straight up answer
idk why. girls are attracted to bad boys i guess. i personally am not. i think someone who is honest and hardworking is better.
and why do some men only like women who are hookers and prostitutes and not honest smart well brought up women?
uhm...cause the world today is like that. honestly..
bravery, looks, protection maybe.
As you said it's only SOME women who do so. It's kind of like the question where women ask why do only SOME men only choose women based on their looks?
And to answer your question some people are just like that. Maybe you should try a different girl if you like one who acts like that.
I think it goes back to the classic bad boy vs. nice guy argument. This is just a modern spin on it.
The bad boy seems sexy and dangerous, and women are instinctively attracted to that. It has something to do with evolution. Like he may be the ultimate "protector" and she is just the damsel in distress. The money doesn't hurt either. Young girls love these men.
The nice guy offers stability and that's a turn off for some women. They lack excitement and the "drama" that a looot of women crave. However, they are quality. They are the men you wanna settle down with since the thug usually ends up in jail as someone's boyfriend. Older women (and very smart young women) appreciate these men more.
Had my heart broken by a bad boy, and have loved nice guys since.
I think it all goez back to personal tastez. some of us jus like to experience the bad boy and maybe live the wild life that comez wit it. also for protection and other thingz. hey, some thugghish guyz can be nice. or some of us jus dont feel like putting ourselves in danger or we like the honest working type and think itz attractive n whatnot so we go for the honest work and we are attracted to that too.
i think it has something to do with some women seeing thug-types as "alpha males".
they don`t seem to realize that thugs tend to be players, get involved in questionable activities that can shorten a person`s life, and have a tendency to put themselves before everything (and anyone) when things get bad.
personally, i`d rather have a man who has his priorities straight, and knows that by being a one-woman-man makes me his one-man-woman.
Like Chris Rock said "All of the good relationships are boring and all of the exciting relationships are bad ones."
Honestly I think women find it "attractive/alluring" for a man to have a "bad boy" persona. What a lot of women fail 2 realize however is that while he is grinding and making that fast money that there is always the chance that he will get locked up and they find themselves in a predicament of having to fend for themselves...whereas if they had a man that had a 9-5....that chances of that are less likely. It's all in the "image". Some women feel that a man that has a job is a "square" and they feel as though that man will not br able to protect or provide for her as a thug would. True a thug can bring home stacks a day....but then when he is locked up it's very seldom that he can find a way to keep his operation flowing as he would if he was out on the streets. Women are just as attracted to the fast money lifestyle as the men are. They get blinded by the money/gifts etc...and lose sight of what's really important. Street pharmacy is a lucrative business for some...but u cannot peddle piff at 60 years old in most cases...so what are u gonna do with a man who made a bunch of money while y'all was younger...but when u guys get ready to retire...he has nothing! I prefer men that are "corporate thugs"...have a regular 9-5, but still gangsta...they do exist...and i love em...lol
usually if ladies are looking for long term relationships they will look for honest mens. most of the time "women" will prefer such mens. most of the time at teenage years girls/ young women would like their men to be thugs because they find them "kool"
some women just like guys like that....why? i guess we'll never know. it's better to have a man who works a 9 to 5 and makes an honest day's living rather than trying to be a so-called "thug" just like i know i have to work for what i want & that ain't nobody gon hand it to me, i feel a man should be able & willing to do the same.
i wouldn't want my man doing something like that because i would care so much more about what happens to him and his life and i wouldn't want that taken away from him by him getting locked up.
Interesting question. I'll admit that I dated a 'thug' like guy freshman year, ew. But I've always had my eye on that 'honest' guy (Austin?). And I don't get why women find those type of guys so attractive, yes as I read an answer she said that there are nice gangstas out there, true but like the other girl said what will you two be doing when your getting ready for retirement and those stacks top rolling in?? I don't downtalk men who have their head on straight and doing what their suppose to be doing (working, paying bills, possibly paying child support like their suppose to..being a good father, things that good/real men do). But I will admit that I've downtalked the 'thuggish' guys before, especially the ones who 'show out' when it's not necessary.
I think it has something to do with image and the stereotype. I think some women are afraid of guys that are the opposite of the stereotypical male, sounds weird i know. I guess some women want to stick with what they know and what they're use to seeing. I actually do believe that some women believe if a guy doesn't live up to the thuggish image, they think he's soft, not hard enough and "not acting black enough". Which plays a major role with some women when picking men. The blame is parents not letting there child know what a real man is. And BET and the radio just add on to the problem when they glamorize the thug image and makes it seem as if that what it takes to be a man. And alot of these foolish girls eat that stuff up like hot cake since it sells. It makes it even more worse when you got women like beyonce,ciara and etc glamorizing thuggish men.
coz the bad boys know how to play
and you know some people all about fun
Well... That's some women.
I can only speak for myself and I will say this... I have been attracted to thugs or gangsters... Whatever you want to call them... But that's all it is... An attraction. As far as me wanting to get serious or whatever with them... It's not happening.
Just because when I was growing up... I've seen so much happen. People get shot over that foolishness and that type of lifstyle is nothing to be proud of. Another thing, I don't want to be ashamed to take my man to meet my family or to any formal event. I want a man that has book smarts but ALSO street smarts. I need for whenever a topic to come up in ANY subject for him to be able to keep the conversation going.
Hope this answers your question... You know I can get to rambling sometimes. SMH.
heres your answer
http://youtube.com/watch?v=A98JkCftDsk
maybe its beacuse they talk to girls unlike you whose a nerd
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