Is he using me or he loves me?? should I give up my love ,, what should I do???!
Question: I been with my BF for one year...his Pakistani and I am from north Africa. everything was good until I find out that his a gang member and his stuck with them.I gave up everything my body my soul, my job my Family. my Friends. I even changed just to make him happy I do everything that could do for him. he used to say I love u and I will never give u up .. only u or nobody....he used to say I am a man and I do what I want no body have power over me except god.. then last week he completely changed . he didn't call me for two days. before he used to call me.every five minutes...my parents are making my life hell. they say Ether us or him... I choose him..I didn't have any explanation why did he do that.. I asked him.. he told me he own a lot of money to his people. and he doesn't want to hold me.. and want me to move on... but its hard for me.... I cant do that he wants to be my Friend but I cant... he calls me today telling me that he loved me and his Ganna be with me the whole life..and everything Ganna be okay...I dont know what he want me to do... he give hope again. I love him.. we make out. please help me.. I am lost
Answers: I been with my BF for one year...his Pakistani and I am from north Africa. everything was good until I find out that his a gang member and his stuck with them.I gave up everything my body my soul, my job my Family. my Friends. I even changed just to make him happy I do everything that could do for him. he used to say I love u and I will never give u up .. only u or nobody....he used to say I am a man and I do what I want no body have power over me except god.. then last week he completely changed . he didn't call me for two days. before he used to call me.every five minutes...my parents are making my life hell. they say Ether us or him... I choose him..I didn't have any explanation why did he do that.. I asked him.. he told me he own a lot of money to his people. and he doesn't want to hold me.. and want me to move on... but its hard for me.... I cant do that he wants to be my Friend but I cant... he calls me today telling me that he loved me and his Ganna be with me the whole life..and everything Ganna be okay...I dont know what he want me to do... he give hope again. I love him.. we make out. please help me.. I am lost
Leave him NOW--it'll hurt but it'll be best for you. Trust me--I've been there and done that. Any guy who does not take into consideration anything you say or do or think is an ABUSER!!!
First and foremost, go back to your family and friends. I know this'll be hard but they love you and are there to be with you. Some may say "I told you so" but others will not. Get with the people who do not say I told you so.
im a guy and most guys bullshit
he will be with uuntil a nother one comes and hes moved one
i dont know how old he is but if he's under 25 he doesnt think with his brain he thinks with u know wat.
so dont stuff up ur life for himhes not worth it.
B F come an dgo but family is forever
one more thing ..... if he really luvs u then why is he letting ur life fall apart.
i hope things turn out for the best.
if u need anything else u get me on:
"basil.jaber@yahoo.com
cya.
u should do what u think is best...although by the sounds of this u dont...trust him he's doing what he thinks is best for you...if he owes alot of money and he doesnt want to hold u back, listen it's for ur own good...if he didnt love you, he would've stoped any conversation with you what so ever, but he didnt he said he's gonna be with you, so trust him..if all turns out well, im happy if not, well there are more than a billion people on this earth...and one of them is meant to be with you, it may be him or someone completely different but dont let go of ur friends and family cause without them ur lost! they are there to help you so dont lose them what ever you do...or you'll be deeply sorry
How the heck did your question land in the "movies" category? You will have better and more answers if you ask this again under the "relationships" category.
Best of luck