Apologizing to a Scorpio...?!


Question: Apologizing to a Scorpio!.!.!.!?
here's what happened:

first days of the semester in biology, I saw this guy!.!.!. really cute, he's the Scorpio in question!.!.!. He asked me to work w/ him on a lab!. We did, but we never spoke again!. So I was like!.!.!. "ok that's the end of that crush"!.

But then in class he would stare at me!. I couldn't tell what those stares meant, but they sure as heck were stupid! I'm a Cancer, I think I can tell when people like me, but with him I just assumed he didn't like me anymore for some reason, and was just being a bully!. So I stared at him right back like he was gross, and I started treating him with contempt!.

It never got ugly, but he did act like an asshole!. it was like a silent war!.

I like him because he's really good looking (i have weird taste in guys, he slightly resembles jimmy kimmel), and he seems interesting with a deep personality!.!.!. water sign affinity I guess!.!.!. maybe we just encountered mis communication, and got off on the wrong foot!? even before we had bio together i would see him around school and he would stick out to me!.

Usually I'm highly selective about who I reach out too (cuz i only like mature people, that are ambitious about the future!.!.!. i want to be a pharmacist so i'm only looking for positive influences right now) so to me, this is a big deal that I'm extended an invitation to him!.

i was thinking of sending him this message on facebook:
"hey, this is _____
i don't know if u would remember, but we had biology together!.
to be honest, i always thought we could have made friends, but that never happened!. i think i may have hurt your feelings, but i'm not sure!. if i did, i'm sorry!.
anyways, i just wanted to say what's up!?
but if you're creeped out at the moment then i understand"

in my head it sounds normal, but now it sounds kind of weird!. hopefully i can get a fresh perspective on this!. should i apologize or just leave him in the past!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
Honestly!.!.!.no don't!.!.!.yeah the attention was miscommunicated, but he wasn't the most mature one to break the ice or fix this misinterpretation!.!.!.you want quality and are selective!.!.!.really!? so you want to reach out to him because he was cute, but he didn't do anything of substance like talk to you, or say hello, or anything normal people do!.!.!.

the bigger question!.!.why would you throw yourself at someone if you are selective are you so hating being alone your prepared to compromise your principals for a guy just because he's cute and stared at you before!? If he can't talk to you like a normal guy, what other behaviors has this guy got for you waiting!?

Just a thought, because if you are selective you might want to reconsider what this means!.!.!.i don't see it!.!.!.i see someone who is single and hates being alone, and this guy is sticking out because he's cute and gave you attention (the weird serial killer kind, really)

edit!.!.!. (you sent me a sadly defensive response directly!.!."there's plenty you don't see!. your laughable assessments prove that much!." ; really!? lets share my reply!.!.!.)

i took the time to be honest, and true to form, as a Cancer you can't handle honest criticism!.!.!.

you aren't selective, and your posting showed a young person with a young perpsective!.!.!.and your inability to take the response objectively and think about it to see if it had merit only shows your inability to discren correctly what to do!.!.!.face it, you had to go to a website to get advice!.!.!.if you had such high standards, where are all the quality friends who would give you the advice worthy of respect!?

and your personal offense and response confirmed that i was right on the money!.!.!.you aren't selective!.!.!.you think he's cute and he gave you attention!.!.go ahead!.!.pursue it!.!.!.i dare you!.!.!.after all, you are so selective!

edit ok you have problems!.!.monopolizing the question!? i didn't ask you to rant on and on like that!.!.!. and so defensive!.!.!.wow!.!.!.maybe for this guy's sake you should stay away!.!.!.yikes!Www@Enter-QA@Com

he stares an stares
not a good guy saty away from the staring guy
u r crazy 2 tryWww@Enter-QA@Com

I think the apology sounds great! Go for it!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Well!.!.!.at this point, a sincere, please-forgive-me-or-i-won't-go-on apology will sound kind of!.!.!.creepy!.
how about
next time you see him, start a conversation, and make it interesting (make eye contact, and smile nicely when theres an awkward pause in the conversation!. scorpios don't have awkward silences!.!.!.it only becomes awkward when the other person mentions how awkward it is)!.
if he's kinda confused, and mentions it, say something to the effect of "oh, yeah!.!.!.i was kind of confused/angry/sad/something at that point in time, and i'm sorry for taking it out on you (slight pause!.!.!.look slightly sad)!. nice weather, isn't it!?"
that way, you get it out of the way, and then continue the conversation, so you show that it didn't stop you from wanting to hang out with him!. make sure you're completely sincere though, we see through souls!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Okay, I'm trying to stay out of the line of fire here!.!.!.I agree you are young, but weren't we all once!? With age comes experience!.!.!.a painful lesson to learn!.

I wouldn't face book it, but say it in person!. He's a scorp, he thinks FAST!. If you did insult him, he will either be A) painfully direct as to how, or B) utterly and completely silent!. In either case, you should apologize again and back away!.!.!.You will NOT change his mind, if he is not of the mind to change it!. The staring though: sounds as though he's trying to figure you out--intrigue!. I would think he was interested in pursuing you at one time, especially since he originally asked you to work with him!.!.!.though maybe waiting to see if you were open to the idea!. The backlash came after you stared back in contempt!. If you are going to apologize, I would begin with something along the lines of
"I was confused and a little scared"!. I do not see you salvaging anything from this attraction, but I may be wrong, as I do not know the young man!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Scorpios like secrecy and to do the hunting!. Don't facebook your question its too open!. Scorpios are the most likely sign to insult you in public but usually make up for it in private!. And i wouldn't pursue him!. If he wants you he will find you!. If not he won't!. viva la scorpioWww@Enter-QA@Com



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