What's the deal with my scorpio?!
Question: What's the deal with my scorpio!?
we've been talking on and off for about a year and a half!. he disappears whenever he wants, and then comes back as if there was never a time gap between us!. then!.!.!.as soon as he starts getting close again- there's no sign of him!. it's so weird!. i spoiled him for his birthday, and i got to shake out a bit of things from him and then we didn't speak for days!. i called it quits, changed my number and disappeared too!.
just so happens my younger sister goes to school with one of his younger best friends!.
he told my sister that my scorpio is ALWAYS talking about me, how beautiful i am, and how lucky he is to have me etc, and how happy i make him and bragging about how i spoiled him on his birthday!. he's a bit of a stalker, he'd ask his friend to keep eye on me, and even tell him what i was wearing, doing, and talking to!.!.!.weird huh!? I had no idea my Scorpio cares about me THIS much until today!. I've also caught him roaming around my house!.!.!.but he won't talk to me!.
What does this mean and why won't he tell me his feelings!?
I'm a Leo with a Libra rising/Cancer Venus!.
Help! Please me as detailed as possible!.
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just so happens my younger sister goes to school with one of his younger best friends!.
he told my sister that my scorpio is ALWAYS talking about me, how beautiful i am, and how lucky he is to have me etc, and how happy i make him and bragging about how i spoiled him on his birthday!. he's a bit of a stalker, he'd ask his friend to keep eye on me, and even tell him what i was wearing, doing, and talking to!.!.!.weird huh!? I had no idea my Scorpio cares about me THIS much until today!. I've also caught him roaming around my house!.!.!.but he won't talk to me!.
What does this mean and why won't he tell me his feelings!?
I'm a Leo with a Libra rising/Cancer Venus!.
Help! Please me as detailed as possible!.
Thanks :DWww@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
That sounds like my ex Scorpio boy friend except he was always there for me!. Like you said, he was kind of a stalker!. He would ask people to keep an eye on me, he would always be over protective, at times I called him mom #2 because he was always on my as* about everything I did!. He always wanted to know who I was with, where, what I was wearing, he always texted me what I was doing!. It seemed like he didn't trust me at all!. But just like your Scorpio he always bragged about us and the things I would do for him, and about how lucky he was to have me etc!.
I don't know why your Scorpio is all over you but at the same time keeping his distance from you!. I suggest you talk to him about it!. Tell him everything you know like the way he feels about you, saying that you're beautiful and that he's lucky to have a girl like you!. If he wants to be in a relationship, a serious one he will commit and put his time into it!. Even though my Scorpio was a little too controlling and jealous, he was very committed and loving!.
Just talk to him, you'll never find out what's going on in his head until you ask him yourself!.
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I don't know why your Scorpio is all over you but at the same time keeping his distance from you!. I suggest you talk to him about it!. Tell him everything you know like the way he feels about you, saying that you're beautiful and that he's lucky to have a girl like you!. If he wants to be in a relationship, a serious one he will commit and put his time into it!. Even though my Scorpio was a little too controlling and jealous, he was very committed and loving!.
Just talk to him, you'll never find out what's going on in his head until you ask him yourself!.
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I totally agree with what Love had to say about your Scorpio!.!.!.!.the one thing i wanna add is that us Scorpio's ( yes i am one of them!.!.!.lol) love a mystery!.!.!.!.a challenge in other words!.!.!.!.keep him guessing!.!.!.don't show all your cards!. if he thinks he has you, he will be gone!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
He has intimacy issues!.!.!.he wants to keep you to himself, but doesn't want to be pinned down and smothered!.!.!.until he resolves his acceptance that being in a relationship doesn't mean a loss of identity or freedom, he will continue to test this by asserting control in this fashion!.
He's probably afraid of opening up because, at some point he did or tried and your handling it didn't meet his satisfaction!. So the trust has been secretly damaged and for him to fix it means to open up and that's a conundrum he has to reconcile!. If he doesn't open up, he can't get you to see how his trust was compormised or how to repair the damage to his satisfaction, but if he opens up, you could lkearn a new way to hurt him!. I find scorpios, being bent on revenge a lot, assume others are in that same mindset, making them unusually paranoid and defensive needlessly!. Why I fall for them on rare occasion is an even greater mystery!Www@Enter-QA@Com
He's probably afraid of opening up because, at some point he did or tried and your handling it didn't meet his satisfaction!. So the trust has been secretly damaged and for him to fix it means to open up and that's a conundrum he has to reconcile!. If he doesn't open up, he can't get you to see how his trust was compormised or how to repair the damage to his satisfaction, but if he opens up, you could lkearn a new way to hurt him!. I find scorpios, being bent on revenge a lot, assume others are in that same mindset, making them unusually paranoid and defensive needlessly!. Why I fall for them on rare occasion is an even greater mystery!Www@Enter-QA@Com