Do any other cancerians find you get used and hurt so much?!


Question: Do any other cancerians find you get used and hurt so much!?
I'm very emotional and find life difficult sometimes!. I find if I show any kindness many people take advantage and use me, then I get down and feel angry with myself for letting it happen!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


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hi fellow cancer!.

yes, i have felt this too many times before that i simply had to go into solitude, cut myself from crowd motion and start making notes and learn not repeat it!. i know its very difficult to find a middle road of when to be nice, when to care, when to give and when to not!. it's very hurtful to feel to be taken advantage of and to feel unappreciated!. it really does!. only a fellow water sign might really know how deep our feelings are!.

i can go on and on about this and that, but to cut things short, here are some things id like to share w you, hopefully youd see 'light of the end of the tunnel' (well, its not like im at the end of the tunnel, but i honestly think and feel, the lights shining through much brighter now, than it was before for me)!. =)

1!. be selective- be wise!. listen to your heart and instincts, i know we cancers sometimes can't help to force our feelings upon others, yet we actually have a choice to decide!. when you finally decide, be accountable for whatever happens- for better or worse!. dont kick yourself when you made a wrong decision, pick yourself up and move on, remember the only way to colour your life is with experience!.

2!. when you give/care/love- just do it sincerely and be happy that you are able to express it!. and DO NOT ask for returns!. we hurt ourselves when we expect highly of others, when in return, they are blind, insensitive and only care for their own feelings!. but neither do you think lowly of them, just be cordial and learn to give bit by bit and bit more, save the best for somebody you are very sure to be deserving!.

3!. if you are just going by sun signs- get some earth and other water sign friends!. and stay away from fire signs, unless you are well equipped to play with fire!. do check out your moon, asc, venus and mars signs- make a birth chart, and study more about yourself, so you may hv a better understanding of the world around you!.

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I actually usually don't find it as a disadvantage, at first i KNOW they're using me, i just can't get myself to say no!. It's more of an advantage because this way at least my conscience knows that i don't have enemies on my plate!. I would rather much feel better if i had a less stress-ful conscience!.!.!. As if i say no and yell at them, they'll resent me from a distance which will be bad for me in a karma aspect!.
and i feel that if i'm not nice enough then no one will like me at first, and ignore me or something!. Usually it's the opposite, people get attracted to bolder personalities!. Not the one who gives in to almost anything!.!.!.
However, if it is a really close friend or relative, i would feel deeply wounded if they hurt me even if i gave and gave!. I am emotional too and i understand, life is pretty much difficult for everyone!.

Cancer sun & rising, aquarius moon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I know EXACTLY what you are saying!. I am also very emotional, am nice to everyone but a lot of the time people will just use me for emotional support and take advantage of me!. I realized that the world isn't such a nice place, people can be mean and being nice all the time is often just seen as a weakness unfortunately!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

yes certainly, i always care too much, i wish i cared just a little less!. I tried to tell myself its better to love and give more to other people, because the universe will thank you!.!. but i often ended up feeling hurt and feeling like life was unfair!.!. one thing cancer has to remeber is they are worthy of the best, like everyone is and too look after themselves!.!.

i barely trust because i feel no one will match up to my love or take care of me like i do them!. with my boyfriend i have his best interests at heart but i dont know if he does, although he cares, its never enough 4 me and i still feel insecure!.!.

the most important thing i learnt fellow cancer :) is to not worry about other people, honestly do what makes you happy regardless of them, and true friends and partners will stick with you know matter what!.!. i find its hard finding friends worthy of my trust but it does happen over time, if your true to yourself and you dont go into your shell!.!. it is really a blessing we are as caring as we are and although others dont always show it, i think they can be equally as caring, and you should learn to trust :)


good luck!!!

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Dude your question caught me because i thought i was psycho until i read what a person born under the cancer sign is really about!. I never took to heart astrology and just used to read it for fun!. I was given mood stabilizers too! But after i read everything seemed to make sense!. Its a gift to be able to get hurt so much and still be able to love just as much as you did before!. Alot of people become bitter afer they experience the ways of the world!. It is difficult , but im just learning to love me more than everybody else, though it is in my nature to be too easily hurt/sad/depressed its also there to be just as kind and i pride myself in that because there arent alot of us!. Were just introspective,deep and see the bigger picture which brings us many positives but there has to be a balance!.!.sorry if i sound nuts!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I used to when I was younger and mainly just in love relationships!. When you get older, you get wiser, and I learned not to take that **** from people anymore!. But!.!.!.Cancers use people sometimes too!. WE all use each other in good nd bad ways!. You just have to really pay attention and when you feel that you are being used, nip it in the bud or SPEAK UP! Maybe that person doesnt know they are being a user!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I have a Cancer mars!. Therefore, when it comes to dealing with my anger and problems I totally understand!. I feel taken for granted sometimes too!. But I think to myself!.!.!. Would I feel good about myself if I acted any other way!. If I was selfish and rude!? My answer was no!. So I know why this happens to me!. You just need to find your own answer!. Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com

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dude, im a scorpio and we have the same kind of problem, (we wont admit to it)!. but you gotta remember one thing, there will always be good people and bad people, healthy people attract other healthy people and you can overcome your fear and angerWww@Enter-QA@Com

hmmm!.!.!.!.sorry this happens to you!. I have cancer rising and this happens to me sometimes!. Don't worry you are not alone!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

well yeah!.!.!.!.same here!. but i only have a moon in cancer!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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