Help with ARIES/CANCER relationship?!
Question: Help with ARIES/CANCER relationship!?
ARGH!! I need help ppl! Ok I am an Aries male and have a Cancer Girlfriend, My main problem is she won't come out of her shell!. I go 2 kiss her or hold her in public and she shys away and frusturates me beyond belief!. I was understanding when we 1st began going out but I thought she would grow out of that phase but still hasnt! I understand some ppl are shy types so ive tried to comprimise and not go as far in public (maybe just like a little peck) but theres times when she won't even let me do that! She knows that I want her to be less shy but says she can't help it, while i've been basically stifleing myself to death and been getting nothing in return! *sigh* theres a few other issues too like sometimes she ignores me when I am trying to talk to her and she can be so moody!.!.!. but I love her very very much still, I don't know how to explain it!.!.!. We are so opposite but yet theres something that just clicks, sometimes we are so happy together and then we are frusturated!. I love her so much and I have been fighting the temptation to leave because I have grown annoyed at her withdrawl bcuz I want to be with her <3 plz help me!.!.!. how do I get her to come out of her shell!? Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Being an Aries, this is gonna be difficult for you, but let her take the lead, at least when it comes to pdas!. You need to be patient and gentle with us Cancers!. If you push, we will go into our shell!. She is probably not going to change!. She is shy!. Period!. Could you stop being confident, stubborn, proud!? lol!. Probably not, that's who you are!. We have to feel comfortable to come out, she probably feels threatened (I don't mean you're being mean, but we feel put upon easily)!. We have to trust implicitly!. She obviously loves you, or she'd have shut you out completely!. Maybe save the affection for home for awhile (where we're most in our element)!. When we have someone pushing us to talk, we run, try backing off, and telling her you're willing to wait until she is ready!. Once she retreats and thinks, she will approach you!.
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Try pdas that aren't overly obvious to others!. A hand on the small of her back for a second or two, a wink, look in her eyes!. there's lots of ways!. Maybe tell her why you do it (to show you love her mucho), ask her what she is comfortable with!. Let her decide!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Try pdas that aren't overly obvious to others!. A hand on the small of her back for a second or two, a wink, look in her eyes!. there's lots of ways!. Maybe tell her why you do it (to show you love her mucho), ask her what she is comfortable with!. Let her decide!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
lol!.!.!.its ok that she shys away!.!.!.may be she is a shy person!.!.!.!.if u give her the space she needs (with out totally abandoning her)and talk to her and ask her when she is readdy to tell you!.!.!.!.it gets me every time;)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Have patience, control your temptation and make your lady feel comfortable!. May be she wants to do the thing after marriage ;)
Ask her!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ask her!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You need to be with a Sagittarius!. I am a female Aries and Sagittarius is our most compatible sign!. I'm married to one and things are great!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Be patient!. If you aren't your relationship won't last!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's a hot match!. We argue almost every day, but we still love each other like crazy!. Www@Enter-QA@Com