What is up with this Capricorn?!
Question: What is up with this Capricorn!?
I have been dating this Capricorn for around 6 months!. Very early on he tells me he loves me, and but he began acting very strange!. At first I heard from him all the time, but then he started calling less, and less!. I complained and he said he would do better!. He has even stood me up before when we were supposed to meet at his house!. He also has a plethora of female friends that I have never been introduced to, formally or otherwise!. There have been arguments between us regarding these female friends who call him quite often by the way!. If he sys he wants to be with me, then what does he need sooo many female friends for!? By the way I am an Aries and alot of this crap is not settling well with my spirit!. I have broken up with him twice already, but he always comes back saying he loves me and only me, and wants it to work!. I REALLY don't trust him!. Advice anyone!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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I've been with mine or a little over two years!. Yes, he also has many female friends, many of them are ex-girlfriends, but it doesn't bother me!. He is a very good person as well as friend and his relationships didn't end on bad terms, so it is fine with me that they are friends because I have male friends, plus I am very secure!. As far as hearing from him all the time and then not!. !. !.they do that, especially early on in the relationship until you have gained his trust totally!. I have found that they also keep alot of female friends just in case the relationship doesn't work out!. They are very insecure creatures and yes, he is going to get on your nerves, so if you have no patience, the relationship is definitely not going to work!. Oh and the love crap!. !. he did that as well very early on, but that's because of all his former girlfriends, that's what they wanted to hear as well as the possibility of marriage!. I told him not only do I not want to talk about marriage because I've been there, done that, do not tell me things because you think that's what I want to hear!.
They are something to deal with, especially early on in the relationship, but if you can hang in there, it's worth it!. I don't have a jealous bone in my body, so the female thing doesn't upset me until I find out it's more!. I'm a Virgo, so me and him share many of the same characteristics, so he doesn't bother me like he would bother others and he can't take what he dishes out!. I tell him all the time, don't do anything to me that you wouldn't want me to do to you and we will be okay!. I am always blunt and straightforward with him and I don't argue with him either!. They don't like arguments or conflict although they cause most of it, but don't back down!. My advice is to remain cool and be patient if you love him, otherwise, call it quits and don't go back regardless if he says he wants it to work!. How come you think he has so many female friends!? Www@Enter-QA@Com
They are something to deal with, especially early on in the relationship, but if you can hang in there, it's worth it!. I don't have a jealous bone in my body, so the female thing doesn't upset me until I find out it's more!. I'm a Virgo, so me and him share many of the same characteristics, so he doesn't bother me like he would bother others and he can't take what he dishes out!. I tell him all the time, don't do anything to me that you wouldn't want me to do to you and we will be okay!. I am always blunt and straightforward with him and I don't argue with him either!. They don't like arguments or conflict although they cause most of it, but don't back down!. My advice is to remain cool and be patient if you love him, otherwise, call it quits and don't go back regardless if he says he wants it to work!. How come you think he has so many female friends!? Www@Enter-QA@Com
Doesn't matter if he's a Capricorn, Aries, Taurus or Virgo he's a PLAYER and your just one of his many toys!. Move on and find yourself a guy that wants and needs just one girl to stroke his ego!.
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You sound just like me!. I just broke up with my Capricorn 3 weeks ago!. I've been seeing him for over two years!. Progress came eventually, but I couldn't appreciate because I feel that's what normal boyfriends are supposed to do!. He is the worst boyfriend I ever had!. Never cried so much!? All the things he started doing in the end, he should've been doing all along!. I definitely did not get what I deserved!. For all the love I gave, I got so little in return!. He gave me the same lines, he loved me, I fulfilled his every desire, etc!. I've heard it all!. "Be patient, I'll prove my love to you I promise"!. I told him that as far as I'm concerned that he could kiss my ***!. Why did I try to work it out!?- first time I had love at first sight!. Our relationship was full of passion, but lack of substance!. He started bringing both his sons around me to play step mom!. But, it was just never gonna work!. He's handsome, smart and sexy but he doesn't know how to commit to me!. Period!. He can depend on me!. His word is bond at work, but his words don't mean **** to me!.
I'm just mad, because all this time I wasted on him, I could've been married by now!. I chose him over someone else!. But, I guess, it makes me the fool!. He was a player from the beginning and i knew it, but it didn't matter then!. But, you can't teach an old dog new tricks!. I should've kept it casual and not allow myself to fall so hard!. I just turned 24!. He's 34 going on 35!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm just mad, because all this time I wasted on him, I could've been married by now!. I chose him over someone else!. But, I guess, it makes me the fool!. He was a player from the beginning and i knew it, but it didn't matter then!. But, you can't teach an old dog new tricks!. I should've kept it casual and not allow myself to fall so hard!. I just turned 24!. He's 34 going on 35!.Www@Enter-QA@Com