Do you always hold back a part of yourself?!
Question: Do you always hold back a part of yourself!?
I do! I give so much and am always smiley and nice yet I never really open up to anyone completely!.
I share bits and pieces and that too will be dependent on so many things!.
Will what I have to say hurt anyone's feelings!?
Will it infringe upon anyone!?
Will it cause a separation or discomfort in their ability to communicate freely with me!?
It is like my feelings are a precious commodity that if I shared and it wasn't received well/right/correctly then I would be devastated or something!.
Plus I think that feelings change!. It is like I think if I say how I feel I am locked in somehow!.
I am the most open yet completely closed person and I wish I could be more open and expressive sometimes!. Not like a emotional gusher but someone who can say how I feel without the fears that I link with doing so!.
I think I am too protective of my heart and too protective of my feelings in general!.
I am thinking it is my Venus and Mars in Scorpio!. I swear, and now I actually tell people, the only person who really knows how I feel about something is me!. Looks can be deceiving and I probably won't say : )
I'd really like some suggestions and thoughts on this!.
I really want to open up and be truly known but I am not sure how to open up!. I just think that very few people really "get me"!.
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I share bits and pieces and that too will be dependent on so many things!.
Will what I have to say hurt anyone's feelings!?
Will it infringe upon anyone!?
Will it cause a separation or discomfort in their ability to communicate freely with me!?
It is like my feelings are a precious commodity that if I shared and it wasn't received well/right/correctly then I would be devastated or something!.
Plus I think that feelings change!. It is like I think if I say how I feel I am locked in somehow!.
I am the most open yet completely closed person and I wish I could be more open and expressive sometimes!. Not like a emotional gusher but someone who can say how I feel without the fears that I link with doing so!.
I think I am too protective of my heart and too protective of my feelings in general!.
I am thinking it is my Venus and Mars in Scorpio!. I swear, and now I actually tell people, the only person who really knows how I feel about something is me!. Looks can be deceiving and I probably won't say : )
I'd really like some suggestions and thoughts on this!.
I really want to open up and be truly known but I am not sure how to open up!. I just think that very few people really "get me"!.
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Answers:
Yeah I am!. I only mess around with people who I know won't get offended and can laugh along with me!. Everyone should be considerate towards others feelings!. Everyone has a different relationship with everyone, you wouldn't say certain things to one person but can to another!. Since everyone is different, it's good to know what pushes them over the edge and the right way to communicate with them!. This way you get along with everyone and avoid making enemies!. I'm open as well, but not to the point where I dig out my past and share emotional stories! I'm open but I have trouble talking about my feelings, sometimes I don't know what I'm feeling so it would be difficult to confide in someone!. I think everyone wants to protect their feelings, maybe not strongly but the fear of being hurt or rejected is still there!. Everyone feels like nobody gets them every now and then, we all go through struggles with life, people and our heart especially!. Each and every one of those struggles has an end, a brighter day!. I think we learn more about ourselves through those struggles, they shed light on our soul so that we can see it clearer!.
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well i am really outgoing and fun and i can't be all of that infront of my husband cause he said that i flirt being this way! but it just wat make me happy and what make me !''me" a cute gurl that love to make people happy including herself!
and also i love to dance and my husband doesn't like it cause he said i dance too sexy! fine by me lol
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and also i love to dance and my husband doesn't like it cause he said i dance too sexy! fine by me lol
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hey, great questions as usuall thin N tall ;)!.
Yes I'd have to say most of the time I'm like this!. It just shows that you were brought up to respect people and that you are a good person!. Something to be proud of definitely!.
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Yes I'd have to say most of the time I'm like this!. It just shows that you were brought up to respect people and that you are a good person!. Something to be proud of definitely!.
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I can totally relate to you!. I too hold back parts of myself!. My rising sign is Scorpio and I attribute this part of me to that!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi ThinNTall!
I always try to look out for others best interests!. So I definitely find myself holding back how I feel sometimes due to that!. I think that if a little voice is telling you that you shouldn't say that then you shouldn't!. Sounds like that you respect people's feelings and that is a very admirable trait!. I think that you shouldn't worry about if people get you or not and stay true to yourself and be happy with yourself!. In the end that is truly what matters most!. Good luck to you! Hope I've helped!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I always try to look out for others best interests!. So I definitely find myself holding back how I feel sometimes due to that!. I think that if a little voice is telling you that you shouldn't say that then you shouldn't!. Sounds like that you respect people's feelings and that is a very admirable trait!. I think that you shouldn't worry about if people get you or not and stay true to yourself and be happy with yourself!. In the end that is truly what matters most!. Good luck to you! Hope I've helped!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ahhhh yes!!!! I've always said that everyone I know sees a different piece of me and thinks that that's how I am completely, but that is not true!. I am pretty complex, and even when you think you know me, there will always be a piece of me I keep for me!. It's not that I don't want people to know me, I just don't trust that people will know what to do with me once they do know me!. :) Good Q, star for you!. I just asked a question, I'd be glad if you would give me the first legitimate answer ;)
Have a great day lady! :)
BTW, I'm sure you know, I'm a Sagittarius!
*Edit* This struck me the most about your question "I really want to open up and be truly known but I am not sure how to open up!. I just think that very few people really "get me"!."
I know exactly how you feel with that!. I'm so different and I'm afraid that people would always be confused about who I am because my views change depending on how I perceive a situation!. Then there's always 20/20 hindsight!. I don't think your views have to be so concrete all the time, you should allow room for them to change because that's how you grow!. Some people just don't get this though!. But I also have Neptune, and Uranus in my 1st house so of course I'm "different!." Haha, oh well, I don't really care what they think at the end of the day!. Because for every person that doesn't "get" you there will always be someone who will!. You already know I get you, ThinNtall :)
P!.S!. Did you set up that automatic Best Answer chooser thing yet!!? Hahaha JK!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Have a great day lady! :)
BTW, I'm sure you know, I'm a Sagittarius!
*Edit* This struck me the most about your question "I really want to open up and be truly known but I am not sure how to open up!. I just think that very few people really "get me"!."
I know exactly how you feel with that!. I'm so different and I'm afraid that people would always be confused about who I am because my views change depending on how I perceive a situation!. Then there's always 20/20 hindsight!. I don't think your views have to be so concrete all the time, you should allow room for them to change because that's how you grow!. Some people just don't get this though!. But I also have Neptune, and Uranus in my 1st house so of course I'm "different!." Haha, oh well, I don't really care what they think at the end of the day!. Because for every person that doesn't "get" you there will always be someone who will!. You already know I get you, ThinNtall :)
P!.S!. Did you set up that automatic Best Answer chooser thing yet!!? Hahaha JK!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi tNt -
It sounds like you are developing some really good insight about yourself!.
I think that with that Sag sun, Leo moon and Gemini rising, you might appear to be very outgoing, easygoing and what you see is what you get type person!. I'm sure you feel that way about yourself too; but then the Venus and Mars in Scorpio - wow!. That puts a lot of secrecy, depth, and mystery into the personality that even you may be surprised and scared when it surfaces!. Feelings of love may throw you into despair when you can't seem to control what you consider inconsistent with what is your personality!.
I understand this a little myself with a Mars in Scorpio - it is very intense and sometimes frightening when you feel the power of that placement!. I have Venus in Capricorn which is a helpful restraint mechanishm but doesn't necessarily make it easier!.
I would say that liking yourself the way you are and knowing that only very few people are worthy of your trust to be completely at ease and vulnerable with your innermost thoughts is a start!. Make sure that who you do entrust into your circle of confidants are faithful and loyal friends as any form of betrayal could be distrastrous for your ego!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It sounds like you are developing some really good insight about yourself!.
I think that with that Sag sun, Leo moon and Gemini rising, you might appear to be very outgoing, easygoing and what you see is what you get type person!. I'm sure you feel that way about yourself too; but then the Venus and Mars in Scorpio - wow!. That puts a lot of secrecy, depth, and mystery into the personality that even you may be surprised and scared when it surfaces!. Feelings of love may throw you into despair when you can't seem to control what you consider inconsistent with what is your personality!.
I understand this a little myself with a Mars in Scorpio - it is very intense and sometimes frightening when you feel the power of that placement!. I have Venus in Capricorn which is a helpful restraint mechanishm but doesn't necessarily make it easier!.
I would say that liking yourself the way you are and knowing that only very few people are worthy of your trust to be completely at ease and vulnerable with your innermost thoughts is a start!. Make sure that who you do entrust into your circle of confidants are faithful and loyal friends as any form of betrayal could be distrastrous for your ego!.Www@Enter-QA@Com