Do you believe a short temper is a weakness or an advantage? why?!


Question: Do you believe a short temper is a weakness or an advantage!? why!?
and what is your sun/moon/rising and mars sign!?

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"Win the Battle, Lose the War"
Disadvantage- When you are short tempered you act without thinking and let your emotions get in the way which ultimately will be your downfall!. It is better to keep a cool head, and act one with your mind!.

Sun Virgo/Moon Pisces/Rising LibraWww@Enter-QA@Com

First off this is a great question!. I believe that it is more of an advantage than a disadvantage!. It seems backwards, so allow me to elaborate!. I think that if you have a short temper that means you're quick to get upset about something that truly matters to you!. Now there's a difference between having a short temper & serious anger problems!. You can't get that upset about every little thing that goes on around you!. Anyways, I think that if you get immediately upset that shows what you're passionate about and at least you aren't holding things in until you just explode one day and destroy everyone/everything around you!. I think it's good sometimes to get upset right then and there because then it makes it easier to set a boundary and you can move forward from that point where as you might not say something and hold it in forever then one day you just completely lose it all and everyone is shocked because they had no idea!.


But like I said, you can't get mad about every little thing, then you need anger management classes or something!. I don't even waste energy getting a short temper about something I don't truly care about!. I'm actually pretty indifferent when I truly don't give a fxck and to me indifference is worse than an I care or I truly don't care!. Then you can never tell!.!.!.

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Taurus moon
Sagittarius rising
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heya shady :)

i think it is a weakness, only because i have admired people who can hold themsleves and have personal control and remain cool in tense situations!. this is because as a cancer i can get angry in the click of the finger, but im getting better!. I think its important people have a temper though, because surely something makes them angry and if it doesn't they may be uncaring!. But i also think its a weakness because im scared of my step dad who has a VERY short temper, and he explodes, hes a taurus!.

i really admire people who can control themselves, but at the same time they need to vent to be healthy!.

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scorpio
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It's a disadvantage - people end up resenting you!. even the weak ones who subconsciously think it's a sign of superiority will harbor grudges that eventually hurt the chances of the short-temper guy!.

On the receiving end of a short temper, on some strong level it is always viewed/taken as a form of contempt - unless the context is appropriate + the guy can be forgiven + it's not a habit!. People with short tempers are a little pompous in their self-regard, and that is always detected by others when they snap!.

I know people with short tempers who simply can't help it!.!.!.!.but they always immediately show regret at their outburst!. They themselves know it's a weakness!.

sun: Leo
moon: Scorpio
rising: Scorpio
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Hey I like this question!.

I'm leaning towards it being a weakness!. It's a very hard thing to do to keep to yourself and hold back yelling at someone when they're bugging you!. There are pros and cons!. I think when you give in to your anger and give someone a piece of your mind, you're not letting this person walk all over you, and that's a good thing!. But caving in to violence is one of the cons!. I have quite a short temper!. I have deal with a bunch of immature losers everyday, and even though some might think it's a weakness that I don't fight back, I just don't because they really don't make any sense and I would have to stoop to their level of idiocy!.

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This is a good question!.

I see it both ways, but ultimately, I think that the inability to control your temper is a bit of a weakness!. I admit that I am pretty short tempered myself, and I often end up losing a lot of people because of it!. I think that one should learn to think clearly and try not to let their anger cloud their judgment!. I admire those that are able to remain objective and learn not to let the little things get to them!. I always look up to people like that, because I know I can learn something!.

Though, there is a difference between controlling your temper and suppressing it!. Suppressing and burying your anger is never healthy!. I think one should be free to express themselves, and in a way, those that are short tempered tend to get it all out right away!. People that hang on to things for too long can let it eat them away until they explode!.

I think you need to have a good balance!. If you can control your temper and learn not to blast it on everyone who comes your way, while still being able to express your anger in a sufficient and direct, but controlled manner, then I think you would have an advantage!.

Sun/Rising/Mars Libra (Mars Conjunct Sun and Rising)
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I get short temper is a good thing and a bad thing I think!. I mean I get all the time with my friends!. When they mock or try to put me down I get a short temper, or when someone gets on my nerves!. It is good when I am defending myself or someone else!. It is bad when I become too offended easily!.

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Even short temper can be controlled with a bit of tenacity!. Of course, it will always be short and quick, but it'll make sure no one will take advantage of you, which is good!. I have a controlled extremely short temper, but no one messes with me, anymore that is, unless they want to get hurt!.!.!.

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I think it's an advantage, because you won't let people walk all over you, mistreat you, or take advantage of you!. As long as you're not always violently beating the crap out of someone, being assertive with a quick temper is great and I think beneficial to your image and self-confidence!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I agree with what some of the other users said above me!. It can be good or bad depending on how you look at it!. It's good to get things out of your system, but getting angry at the drop of a hat is a bit annoying if you ask me!. I try not to let the little things get to me, ya know!?

Sun: Pisces
Moon: Aries
Rising: Libra
Mars: Aquarius
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Having a short-temper is definitely a weakness!. Often you end up saying something that you regret later, or you are too quick to jump to the wrong conclusions!. It is far better to be able to take some time to think before you act!. Be calm, cool, and collected!. Nobody likes a hothead!. :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com

to be honest with oyu i think its a disadvantage and because of it i have lost friendships and families (cousins) because of it!.!.i can't stand their short angry tantrums!.!.!.there r better ways 2 deal with it!.!.BUT i think its helpful for the person that has it!.!.because they can learn to be more positive my thing is mars! im aries!.!.and @RI3$ ROCK!! woohoo! lolz!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

The answer to your question is in a quotation of Dr!. Singh, on 'Human Nature and Development' as below,

"Temper always tempers with self and surroundings!."

Hope that helps and answers your question!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

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Scorpio/Leo/Leo/Sagittarius
why!.weakness for heart disease
advantage for pests
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Short temper is a disadvantage, it is better to be slow to anger!. Pisces!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Disadvantage, short-tempered guys turn me off Www@Enter-QA@Com



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