Im a capricorn woman dealing with a cancer guy?!


Question: Im a capricorn woman dealing with a cancer guy!?
okay me and this cancer dude have been talking 4 a year off and on and we never considered a relationship an every time i would bring up a conversation about us pursuing a relationship he would throw"(I've been hurt before)"in my face and he wouldn't give me a definite answer he also would say that he didn't wanna grow emotionally attached to some one an then they have to be erased outta his life when he moves!.!.!.because he's moving outta town soon!.!.!.but any ways he keeps on making up these excuses about all the reasons he has, on why he don't wanna get into a deep relationship with me but at the same time we're doing all the things that couples do!.!.
kissing, hugging,holding hands etc!. an whenever i say "i think we should just be friends"then he wanna throw a little temper tantrum and say little thing like"(i don't wanna be friends i wanna be more than friends)" an then I'll trick 'em an be like then why aren't we together an then he'll get frustrated an say"(you just don't get it)"just like a damn cancer lol!.!.!.!.and he's very jealous over me but he doesn't straight come out an let me know!.!. like when he gets jealous he asks me questions in this certain tone of voice and he pouts and whines and throw major temper tantrums or he'll look at the guy i was talking to in a crazy psycho type of way(but i find it very sexy and attractive)he'll flirt around with girls just to make me jealous because he claims when i get mad or jealous i just look too sexy and make the cutest little faces an i always joke and tell him well you better find another way to see me sexy side lol but any ways yea he's a big flirt and when ever i flirt around with guys then its a completely different story he becomes suspicious and distrusting and begin to pout and whine and yell again and when ever he sees me talking to a guy he'll watch my every move and gesture from across the room the room an then when i excuse my self an he sees that I'm outta sight outta mind then he'll go confront the guy that i was talking to an ask him all type of questions like what were we talking about and do you like her to make sure that we wasn't talking about nothing we didn't have any business talking about lol
<<(i find that pretty cute too)>> an then when i ask him why did he ask him what we were talking about then he'll be like "(i don't care or anything i just wanted to know)"an then I'll say if you don't care then why did you go outta your way to let me know that you don't care (cancers!.!.they're so obvious at times) lol!.!.!.

and then he was talking to my brother one time and he told my brother that we're not together because he's afraid to fall deeply in love with me and he already gotten hurt an he don't wanna feel that pain again!.!.and then my brother was like i know you lover her and then he didn't say nothing!.!.!.but he told me he loves me!.!.!.earlier in the beginning when we first start talking he told me that he would never tell a girl that he loves her if he don't an he meant that i think!.!.!.because it took him 5 months to tell me he love me but i didn't say it back because i was trying to play hard-to-get at the wrong moment!.!.and i think after that incident i shot his ego down so he really didn't express his feelings toward me as much!.!.i mean don't get me wrong he still showed me that he was interested!.!.and then 5 months later i told him that i love him and then he said it back!.!.but he wouldn't say it as much as i brought it up!.!.

I'm also VERY jealous so when he would wonder off an flirt with girls then i would tell my friends to tell him i dont wanna talk to him any more an then he'll call me after school to verify if it was true or not an then by that time i would've been calmed down so i would deny it!.!.!.!.!.so we'll leave off on good notes

but all while we were talking we acted as if we were a couple but we didn't come right out and be like okay we're in a relationship now!.!.but yeah he acted as if he was EXTREMELY sprung over me and as if he'll do anything for me UNTIL December 4th came!.!.!.okay i was walkin down the hall an i seen him at this one girl's locker an it wasnt just any old girl!.!.i've been hearin around school that he liked this girl so i instantly thought that they were talkin about something they had no business talking about so being the capricorn woman that i am i i immediately jumped to conclusions!.!.so i was so anxious after school for him to call me so i can give him a piece of my mind and when he did i cussed him out and told him to lose my number and then i hung up on him and he kept on trying to call me back but i kept on picking up and hanging up so he waited 20 minutes to call me back (i guess to let me calm down) an then he was like what's your problem an then i was like nothing in a agitated tone and then he was like it doesn't sound like nothing is wrong it sound like you have a major attitude and then i was like and if i do then that's between me and my muthafuckin attitude and then i hung up on him again!.!.and thenWww@Enter-QA@Com


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When I saw locker I realized you two are young!.
Young people are testing their way in relationships!. Trying to understand how they work!.

Cancer is Cardinal Water - Cap is Cardinal Earth!. In addition, they are opposites but compatible elements!. Both want dominance in a situation!. Crabs go for what they feel!. Goats go for what they want to achieve!. This can work between couples but patience is the key!.

Cancers are clingy and want to be needed!. They take care of their friends!. Temper Tantrums are common ways of feeling hurt and trying to control others!. Then they crawl into a protective shell for a while!.
Flirty!? Oh yea!. Most Cancers have personal planets in Gemini and/or Leo!. Chatty, social, need admiration, proud, etc!.

Crabs are pitiful whiners even when they are the perpetrators!.
Goats can be very direct and harsh!. Both qualities erk the other to no end!.

He likes you!. He is moving soon, this will keep him from getting to involved if he has little control of the circumstances!. Might I guess this is a family move!?
He is a young man!. Young people need to know their desirability level!. The actions you described are typical of most young people!. They want someone special but this is a transient stage and things change constantly!. Try to focus on other things just as important, put your energy into your friends and the things that make you happy!. Think about your wonderful future full of exciting adventures!.

Try just to be with your BF!. Try not to caught up in the anger!. Hard to do but you will learn how to cope with your emotions for more positive results with time!.

BTW I am Cancer!. I know how irritating we are!.




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Okay, I am sure you will cool down, because it sounds like you like him a lot!. On your horoscopes you are doubtful with each other, but I am sure many people were predicted to be doubtful and have broken through that!. Once you have cooled down, and become friends again and you want it to go further just don't mention the boyfriend and girlfriend thing!. Spend time away from him, so he will miss you more and appreciate you more!. Then he could ask you to be his offical boyfriend!.

More about Cancer:

The Sun in Cancer represents domesticity and sensitivity!.

Nurturing, support, belonging, emotional bonds; your roots, source, ground of your being; the unconscious, feelings, emotion; the Great Mother, Universal Womb; spirit's first emotional attachments to the world!.

Mothering, emotional and physical nurturance; experiences and imprinting during infancy and childhood; family, ancestors, heritage, relationships to the past; belonging, feeling "at home"; maternal love, caring; feeling supported by the world, that your needs are provided for; insecurities and fears if your needs haven't been fulfilled; possessiveness, "twisted love", inability to nurture others are negative expression

The fourth zodiac sign Cancer, symbolized by the Crab, ‘the hard-shelled scavenger’ of the seas, has Moon as its ruling planet!. According to the horoscope, Cancer governs those born between June 22 to July 22!.

Cancer people are very emotional!. Once they learn to deal with their emotions, they can easily strike emotional equations with those around them and can also adapt their moods to match the mood of those with whom they are interacting!. In this way, they can conquer the world around them and reap a rich harvest of success in their interpersonal relations!.

Cancer people are traditionally home loving persons!. At the end of the day it is back to the hearth for them!. They are like the birds that leave their nests early in the morning and after a hard but enriching day of fun, adventure, struggle they return to snuggle in their nests tired but happy!. So too Cancer people, who love to return home after the daylong, tiring and stressful flight for adventure and necessities!. They come back to their base expecting a welcome respite in the arms of their spouses around the warmth of a fire in their hearth!. For Cancer people, their homes are their castles of security and peace rather than showpieces to highlight their wealth, splendor, and power!. They love to uphold their family traditions!. In fact, Cancer people’ love of their family extends to national proportions and is exhibited in the form of patriotic fervor!. Cancer people remain in the forefront of their compatriots in waving their country’s flags on important national events!. They greatly appreciate communal activities!. Cacnerians are generally sympathetic toward their neighbors and friends and are always ready to stand by them in their hour of need!.

Cancer people have a sharp memory!. They can mentally revisit events in their lives to the minutest detail!. They also have a deep sense of their personal history!. Reviving childhood memories is their favorite nostalgic pastime!.

Cancer people have multiple talents and abilities!. They are good journalists, writers, and successful executives of big industries, relaters, and brokers!. They are otherwise very fond of gardening and cooking!.

The most representative and central characteristic of Cancer people relates to their mind as distinct from their body!. Cancer people are essentially very sensitive people and this basic trait of their personality broadly qualifies their thoughts, conduct, and attitude in their relations with their family, friends and society at large!.

Cancer people are susceptible to the complaints of chest, elbows, stomach and digestive system, womb, and female reproductive system, vision and lungs!. Yet, as the saying goes, prevention is better than cure!.

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If he has cancer you should tell him to see a doctor immediately!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Cancers are indecisive, jealous and possessive!. He knows he is moving and that long distance won't work for him because he is jealous-hearted!. He also doesn't want to be alone so he won't let you go!. He doesn't want to see you with someone else!. You have to put your foot down for him!. Tell him it's breaking your heart to be used like this and he will either let you go or he will make it official with you!. But you can't let him have it both ways because he will take advantage of that!. If you let him use you just to keep from being lonely or to keep you from someone else you will feel worse when he moves!. Www@Enter-QA@Com



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