How should i handle this breakup with a scorpio? How would you?!


Question: How should i handle this breakup with a scorpio!? How would you!?
I'm 21, and a capricorn female!. I had a relationship with a man who was 35, and a scorpio, for about 1!.5 years!. I was 19 when we met!. My age was alwasy a problem, but he tried to ignore it, I think!. He finally broke up with me, because he felt I was too young!. I'm not immature or anything!.!.!.he just felt like he would rather me hate him than give up important years of my life!.

I think this makes him a wonderful person, because, I know he loves me alot!. And I love him, too!. It's just bad timing!. But, I still feel like my heart was ripped out of my chest!. Literally, it's physically painful!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


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I think it makes him a disgrace!. If he loved you, your age would not be a factor!. Nothing would!. He would want to be with you forever!. He is trying to make it seem like it was for you, but really!.!.!.it was for him!. Your age wasn't a problem for him initially, otherwise he wouldn't have gotten involved with you!. I think he was feeling the heat from others and was embarrassed about it!. He is actually too old for you, but people with a larger age gap than yours have gone on to live happily ever after!. When love is real, nothing keeps it from happening!.

I think it was wrong for a 34 year old to go after a 19 year old in the first place!. He got to sleep witjh you for a year and then that's that!? What a jerk!

EDIT: It's not a cold response!. It's a truthful response!. It is meant for you to understand that he is a cad and to be more careful in the future about whom you trust and who you give your heart to!. It's fantastic that you're in college working on two degrees!. He should think it's awesome too and be supportive of you throughout instead of using it as an excuse to get out of the relationship!. When it's love, it doesn't end or go away, or make excuses!. You should be thankful it didn't go any further because he isn't any good!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Capricorns are slow starters must once committed, they are in for the long run!. Briefly stated you end up more hurt than him!. I believe their is some selfishness from Scorpio (yours at least)!. I know for a fact that Capricorn, irrelevant of age are verrrrrrrrrrrry matured for their age and beautiful as well!.
Maybe he tried to control you and realized that it was impossible and preferred to let it go!. I have seen this happen between Scorpio and Capricorn!. They love a challenge and Capricorns are very strong in character!.
Their is something else besides this!. I don't buy his story!. Delve deeper and I will bet you their is someone else in the picture!. Am curious to learn!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I know exactly how you feel and i'm actually dealing with a similar situation with the exception of him not caring about me!. (i'm 16 scorpio he's a 22yr old aquarius)!. I dont know how to rid of the pain or how to stop thinking about him all i know is it hurts and i want it to stop!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

Consider yourself lucky that a Scorpio ended the relationship first!. It's usually hell to end a relationship with one!. It's good that he was mature enough to end it that way!.

When breaking up with a Scorpio, bear in mind that the whole "sex with my ex" thing will never fly with them!. Why, because, to a Scorpio, the sex would mean more than it actually does!. They'll take it personally!. This also applies to be trying to be friends with one right after breaking up!. Give it a couple of months (at least 6) before trying to be their friend, but KEEP IT platonic!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Please listen to Marina, she's got the best and honest answer here!. You'll look back on this one day and see the truth!. He was a cad, he got what he wanted, and poof, he dumps you saying it's for you!. Btw, do you know how much bragging rights you gave him!? This guy doesn't deserve your heart's pain!. Seriously, he knew what he was doing, and if he really loved you, why did he break up with you!? If you didn't sleep with him, okay, maybe he's not as bad as it sounds, but if he had sex with you, I'm afraid he took advantage of you!. Another thing, when Scorpios love, they love deep and don't like to let go!. So he didn't love you deep to begin with or he wouldn't have broken it off!. Sounds like he went along for the ride, what guy in his mid-30's wouldn't want to say to their buddies, I've got this 19 year-old!? Be more careful in the future, you can be all that, studying, going for 2 degrees and working, and guys can still be cads and take advantage of you if you let them!. Know the men you date a little more, make them prove themselves over time, know their motives!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

i am an aquarius in a relation with a scorpio am 20 and he is 37 we love each other and i desagre with you, am an aquarius and its not impossible for me to give hugs or what ever,

i agree with Marina me and my bf are so happy together age is not a broblem at all, in fact he likes it that way he says that i remind him of being young againe and that i bring joy to his life,
may be this guy loves you for true, and brobably the reason of the break up was not his idea maybe his friends teased him about it!.
try to talk to him againe!.

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