My cancer (zodiac) boyfriend has changed overnight...what to do?!
Question: My cancer (zodiac) boyfriend has changed overnight!.!.!.what to do!?
I’m (26) Aries and he’s (28) Cancer!.!.!.and we have been seeing each other for five months!. Our relationship was extremely loving, almost too much so, for the first four months!. I grew to enjoy that!. A month ago he changed drastically, started texting instead of calling, started refusing to sleep at my place, requesting that I stay at his, insisting that we only see each other a few times a week (when he used to say that seeing me every day wasn’t enough)!.
What I wish to clarify is that I am independent, not sticky!. Some of his complaints about me are contradictory!. He wants me to ring/txt him more often, and wants me to let him know ahead of time when I’m not free to hang out, whilst he refuses to make plans ahead of time, and never rings anymore!. Whilst he has hurt me thoroughly through this process!.!.!.!.he keeps acting like a victim, and I really need to figure out a way to get him to “get over it”!.
Monday I saw his message on facebook (I reckon that thing has probably ruined millions of relationship already!.!.!.Grrr) to a girlfriend of his (who I know he’s NOT cheating with, just friends), sending her very loving messages with kisses, calling her gorgeous, babe, et cetera!. It honestly doesn’t bother me that he treats her like that, however it does bother me that he has only been showing me less and less love/affection for the past few weeks!.!.!.
I am wondering, is this one of those Cancer fazes I have been expecting (I don’t really know anyone else under this sign), or is this over!?
Thank you for your honesty – I have really struggled with the past week, and need to move on!. If you think there is hope, it would be helpful if you could give suggestions as to how to ensure he is moving in the right direction (without pushing him!.!.I know I can’t push!!)
Many thanks for all your help!!
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What I wish to clarify is that I am independent, not sticky!. Some of his complaints about me are contradictory!. He wants me to ring/txt him more often, and wants me to let him know ahead of time when I’m not free to hang out, whilst he refuses to make plans ahead of time, and never rings anymore!. Whilst he has hurt me thoroughly through this process!.!.!.!.he keeps acting like a victim, and I really need to figure out a way to get him to “get over it”!.
Monday I saw his message on facebook (I reckon that thing has probably ruined millions of relationship already!.!.!.Grrr) to a girlfriend of his (who I know he’s NOT cheating with, just friends), sending her very loving messages with kisses, calling her gorgeous, babe, et cetera!. It honestly doesn’t bother me that he treats her like that, however it does bother me that he has only been showing me less and less love/affection for the past few weeks!.!.!.
I am wondering, is this one of those Cancer fazes I have been expecting (I don’t really know anyone else under this sign), or is this over!?
Thank you for your honesty – I have really struggled with the past week, and need to move on!. If you think there is hope, it would be helpful if you could give suggestions as to how to ensure he is moving in the right direction (without pushing him!.!.I know I can’t push!!)
Many thanks for all your help!!
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Answers:
Oh gosh water and fire making steam!.!.!.!.I am a cancer and I am not sure if the men are any diff!.!.!.!.!. doesnt sound like it but his behavior I can relate to!. We are very complicated and hurt easily therefore our first instinct is to protect ourselves and to do that we normally withdraw!. I am not sure if you ever said to himthat he gives too much affection or insinuated that he was too clingy (which us cancers are good for) !.!.!.if you did he may have pulled back because of this!.!.!.and then us cancers we take time to admit that feelings are hurt sometimes!.!.!.!.if you havent done anything wrong and you show much love womething is up with him !.!.!.!.so you need to talk to him let him know how you feel and do this gently!.!.!.!.if his behavior continue without an explanation then something is up and you may have to leave him alone!.!.!.!.!.
Cancer female aries moon (I can relate to the fiesty straight on attitude)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Cancer female aries moon (I can relate to the fiesty straight on attitude)Www@Enter-QA@Com
It must be the moon, just text him more and call him more saying you really wanna spend more quality time with him!. Be sure to flatter him, its a war of words with us cancers!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a virgo and my boyfriend is an aries!.!.!.atm we aree in a long distance relationship which is so hard!. there was a point where id text him and call him everyday!.!.!.i did it coz i missd him but he thought i was doing it to check up on him!.!.!.he was hoest with me and said that im callin him too often (and in all honesty i was!)!.!.!.now i udnerstand better his personality and everything and can se where he's coming from so i do call him far less than before and send him no more than one text or mayb none a day!.!.!.!.
the thing is!.!.!.cancer people are very loving and emotional!.!.they care about people and they wana make them happy!.!.so maybe he is going by ur more laid back rhythm in order to make u happy and balance the relationship a bit
there is also the fear of 'suffocating' ur partner with love an attention to an extent where it cud turn into an obsession so he is probably trying to avoid that!.!.!.!. and also!.!.!.many poeple talk abot 'less is more' and playing ahrd to get and blah blah!.!.!.we all knnow aries like to chase not e chased!.!.!.so maybe this is what he is trying to achieve!
BUT i would be waery of the 'friend'!.!.i've had that before !.!.my bf had a girl who was ''just a friend''!.!.we broke up coz of her tryna take him from me but now we are bk together and she is loner slag!.!.but anyway thats a diffrent story lol!
so yeh!.!.!.watch out from the 'friend' but DO NOT give up on the relationship liek some say!.!.at least not just yet till u've found out whtas going on
talk to him!.!.th only way ull find out is if u talk to him!.!.!.some people underestimate the importance of communication in a relationship!.!.in most cases it can make it or break it :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
the thing is!.!.!.cancer people are very loving and emotional!.!.they care about people and they wana make them happy!.!.so maybe he is going by ur more laid back rhythm in order to make u happy and balance the relationship a bit
there is also the fear of 'suffocating' ur partner with love an attention to an extent where it cud turn into an obsession so he is probably trying to avoid that!.!.!.!. and also!.!.!.many poeple talk abot 'less is more' and playing ahrd to get and blah blah!.!.!.we all knnow aries like to chase not e chased!.!.!.so maybe this is what he is trying to achieve!
BUT i would be waery of the 'friend'!.!.i've had that before !.!.my bf had a girl who was ''just a friend''!.!.we broke up coz of her tryna take him from me but now we are bk together and she is loner slag!.!.but anyway thats a diffrent story lol!
so yeh!.!.!.watch out from the 'friend' but DO NOT give up on the relationship liek some say!.!.at least not just yet till u've found out whtas going on
talk to him!.!.th only way ull find out is if u talk to him!.!.!.some people underestimate the importance of communication in a relationship!.!.in most cases it can make it or break it :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
this answer might hurt because its honest and it does not have to do with him being a cancer but human!. first I want to say you are an aries and you are strong enough to be independent and move on with your life, young and you are attractive to other people, so I suggest you stop that relationship with him and move on to meet new people who do give you their time and respect!. ok know the truth!.
he is more distant becaue he is no longer interested in you and now its interested on his "friend"!. you should be jealous in a certain way because what men call friend can sometimes become something else, he calls her friend, because he is not going to tell you that he likes her!. they are more than friends, and he is cheating on you!. so let him go and find yourslef a new "friend" to see how he likes that!. its not the sign that makes people cheaters, is the temptations, way of life, different personalities, and just because he is a man, most men cheat!. not to be negative, not all cheat, but when they start acting the way he is, they are cheating and making you feel apart so you would no longer be part of his life!. he is a waste of your time and energy, you can do way better than a boring cancer men, believe me!. find yourself a fun and loving men that you are not only his friend but his one and only girl, you will find him, and its not a cancer boy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
he is more distant becaue he is no longer interested in you and now its interested on his "friend"!. you should be jealous in a certain way because what men call friend can sometimes become something else, he calls her friend, because he is not going to tell you that he likes her!. they are more than friends, and he is cheating on you!. so let him go and find yourslef a new "friend" to see how he likes that!. its not the sign that makes people cheaters, is the temptations, way of life, different personalities, and just because he is a man, most men cheat!. not to be negative, not all cheat, but when they start acting the way he is, they are cheating and making you feel apart so you would no longer be part of his life!. he is a waste of your time and energy, you can do way better than a boring cancer men, believe me!. find yourself a fun and loving men that you are not only his friend but his one and only girl, you will find him, and its not a cancer boy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes it seems the change in him is not good for you!. Tell him this, you have changed so much and you arent good for me now, its been good while it lasted would have liked the relationship to continue, bye bye see you in the future!.
Cry like hell in to a pillow until you feel better!. Blow away your tears down your nose until its red with wiping, then get yourself up dust yourself down and start all over again!.
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Cry like hell in to a pillow until you feel better!. Blow away your tears down your nose until its red with wiping, then get yourself up dust yourself down and start all over again!.
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At the risk of generalising, this is my experience of crabby cancerians, rather double standards, have you spoken to him about this!?!.!.!.
Good idea to get his time date & place of birth & check out his chart:
www!.astro!.com
It also gives 6 month prediction so you can see what his trends are & maybe why he is acting like this!?!.!.
Good luck hon, as a feisty Aries understand you want things sorted!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Good idea to get his time date & place of birth & check out his chart:
www!.astro!.com
It also gives 6 month prediction so you can see what his trends are & maybe why he is acting like this!?!.!.
Good luck hon, as a feisty Aries understand you want things sorted!!Www@Enter-QA@Com