How do I get back into the good graces of a Pisces woman?!
Question: How do I get back into the good graces of a Pisces woman!?
First off, I am a Pisces Male!. Unfortunately, being Pisces does not mean I always understand a Pisces, because we are a combination of everything!. That being said, I'm just looking for a little input!. I'll try to keep this story as short as possible, but details must be mentioned!. Here's what happened (Pisces girls, get ready for a stupid story that has happened to you a billion times):
I met a girl dancing that I had seen there every week!. She was a bit stand-offish, but I knew it must be because guys bug her a lot, so I figured the only thing I could do was hope that if I were persistent enough, she'd know I'm not a creep!. At the end of the dance, a group normally go out to eat and such, so I asked if she like to come along!. She rode with me in my car along with a female friend of mine!. We all had a good time eating and more dancing!. She laughed at a lot of my jokes and let me buy her a shake and such!. The place eventually closed and everyone left but for the three of us!. We stayed outside and talked until about 4 in the morning!. We all went back to the apartment of my female friend and talked there!. This girl and I were lying on the same couch facing each other!. I would gently touch her feet and she would do the same, all the while, making eye contact and speaking to each other!. Eventually, at about 7 or 8 in the morning, we decided it was sleep time, so we got comfy and did our best to!. We were still on our opposite sides, but continued to caress each others' feet or ankles, and our legs were kind of stacked on one another!. I never did sleep, since I was too pumped, haha, but at about 1 in the afternoon I woke her up and took her home, and got her number (sweet!)!.
So that's sounds good right!? I mean, I know that Pisces girls do that kind of stuff even if they aren't necessarily attracted to you, but at least I knew she didn't NOT like me!.
(Sorry, this is going longer than I thought) Here's where things went wrong!. We texted each other for the next two days!. Nothing special, just "hi" and making jokes and such!. Eventually I said the stupidest thing I could have ever said, even though I was NOT serious!. I (jokingly, remember) said "I'm kind of in love with you, no big deal!."
Haven't heard from her since!.
Has not responded to my texts and I even saw her at dance lessons last night, and she didn't say a word to me!.
I understand that Pisces girls get this kind of crap a lot, especially gorgeous ones like her!. But my intentions are better than good!. I just want to be in the same room with her talking again like we did!. It just felt so wonderful to do that!. My understanding of being a Pisces and knowing many Pisces women tell me that time is the best thing right now!. A few days without contact, and not making a big deal of it when I see her at the dance (this Saturday) would be the best thing for now, until she hopefully forgets this misunderstanding and sees that I am not like those other people!. Therefore, hopefully, giving me a chance to better explain myself, or not needing to and simply start over!.
So, Pisces ladies!. Am I right or wrong!? Let me know, and please let me know what else I should or shouldn't do!. I understand that everyone is an individual, especially Pisces, but any input will surely help!. Please, I have not felt this way in a long time!. Don't let me screw this up!.
Sorry you had to read so much!.
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I met a girl dancing that I had seen there every week!. She was a bit stand-offish, but I knew it must be because guys bug her a lot, so I figured the only thing I could do was hope that if I were persistent enough, she'd know I'm not a creep!. At the end of the dance, a group normally go out to eat and such, so I asked if she like to come along!. She rode with me in my car along with a female friend of mine!. We all had a good time eating and more dancing!. She laughed at a lot of my jokes and let me buy her a shake and such!. The place eventually closed and everyone left but for the three of us!. We stayed outside and talked until about 4 in the morning!. We all went back to the apartment of my female friend and talked there!. This girl and I were lying on the same couch facing each other!. I would gently touch her feet and she would do the same, all the while, making eye contact and speaking to each other!. Eventually, at about 7 or 8 in the morning, we decided it was sleep time, so we got comfy and did our best to!. We were still on our opposite sides, but continued to caress each others' feet or ankles, and our legs were kind of stacked on one another!. I never did sleep, since I was too pumped, haha, but at about 1 in the afternoon I woke her up and took her home, and got her number (sweet!)!.
So that's sounds good right!? I mean, I know that Pisces girls do that kind of stuff even if they aren't necessarily attracted to you, but at least I knew she didn't NOT like me!.
(Sorry, this is going longer than I thought) Here's where things went wrong!. We texted each other for the next two days!. Nothing special, just "hi" and making jokes and such!. Eventually I said the stupidest thing I could have ever said, even though I was NOT serious!. I (jokingly, remember) said "I'm kind of in love with you, no big deal!."
Haven't heard from her since!.
Has not responded to my texts and I even saw her at dance lessons last night, and she didn't say a word to me!.
I understand that Pisces girls get this kind of crap a lot, especially gorgeous ones like her!. But my intentions are better than good!. I just want to be in the same room with her talking again like we did!. It just felt so wonderful to do that!. My understanding of being a Pisces and knowing many Pisces women tell me that time is the best thing right now!. A few days without contact, and not making a big deal of it when I see her at the dance (this Saturday) would be the best thing for now, until she hopefully forgets this misunderstanding and sees that I am not like those other people!. Therefore, hopefully, giving me a chance to better explain myself, or not needing to and simply start over!.
So, Pisces ladies!. Am I right or wrong!? Let me know, and please let me know what else I should or shouldn't do!. I understand that everyone is an individual, especially Pisces, but any input will surely help!. Please, I have not felt this way in a long time!. Don't let me screw this up!.
Sorry you had to read so much!.
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Answers:
!.!.!.!. Your story really made me laugh!!! That's so tragic, yet so funny!. : (!!
I'm a pisces girl and my boyfriend of a long time is a pisces too!. Honestly, the way you are acting with her reminds me of how my boyfriend acted with me at first!. Very excitable and a little !.!.!. attached!. I was very stand-offish at first because he came on way too strong!. I think he, like you, both just blurt out your emotions way too easily!.
You are VERY right in thinking that you should give her time and act very casual when you see her!. Always be confident, but do not come on too strong!. I really don't think that would be a good move!. As a pisces, she will probably have really treasured those times you guys had together and is a little bit freaked out that you said you loved her because it means that a lot might be happening really quickly (dating!?) - I know I really don't like sudden, big change like that!. Keep those good times flowing, and be affectionate, and eventually she will probably be persuaded that you're a good pick!. A TINY bit of pushiness may be helpful but not so early on!.
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I'm a pisces girl and my boyfriend of a long time is a pisces too!. Honestly, the way you are acting with her reminds me of how my boyfriend acted with me at first!. Very excitable and a little !.!.!. attached!. I was very stand-offish at first because he came on way too strong!. I think he, like you, both just blurt out your emotions way too easily!.
You are VERY right in thinking that you should give her time and act very casual when you see her!. Always be confident, but do not come on too strong!. I really don't think that would be a good move!. As a pisces, she will probably have really treasured those times you guys had together and is a little bit freaked out that you said you loved her because it means that a lot might be happening really quickly (dating!?) - I know I really don't like sudden, big change like that!. Keep those good times flowing, and be affectionate, and eventually she will probably be persuaded that you're a good pick!. A TINY bit of pushiness may be helpful but not so early on!.
Good luck, mate!. Go gettem!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a pisces, but I'm just a kid!. Here's my advice:
We get very emotional and sometimes things are hard for us to handle, so I would try to apologize to her!. We take things very seriously and it's hard for us!. Try to apologize!. We need to be loved, I'm sure you know this by now, since you are a pisces!. But pisces women are different!. We have certain times when we are upset and need someone by our side!. Do your best!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
We get very emotional and sometimes things are hard for us to handle, so I would try to apologize to her!. We take things very seriously and it's hard for us!. Try to apologize!. We need to be loved, I'm sure you know this by now, since you are a pisces!. But pisces women are different!. We have certain times when we are upset and need someone by our side!. Do your best!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I feel for you and wish the best!. I read all of it- no worries- because I am dating a Pisces guy and was hoping for some insight on the flip side!. He and I have been together for a month- have not said the "L" word!.!.!.and I am sure it will come in time!.
Pisces are tricky people!. This may not be about you, it may be about her- I mean joking or not saying the "L" word after a few meetings is a little frightening!. Sure she doesnt have other prospects!? It's not just about the Pisces either (sun sign)!. You dont know the moon sign probably that rules the emotions or Venus either!. If she's got Aquarius or other (dont get too close to me to soon) sign in those placements- she may have been liking the friend thing- which you crossed the line- and felt a little trapped when she wants to be free or isnt really free!.
You sound like a nice guy- let it go for now!. Maybe try and approach her and apologize and state your mistake and then let it go!. Dont do the email text thing- face to face if you can and really apologize for saying that (use devil's advocate and approach the matter from her viewpoint, but dont assume blatantly becuz there may be other issues than just the "L" word being mentioned)!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Pisces are tricky people!. This may not be about you, it may be about her- I mean joking or not saying the "L" word after a few meetings is a little frightening!. Sure she doesnt have other prospects!? It's not just about the Pisces either (sun sign)!. You dont know the moon sign probably that rules the emotions or Venus either!. If she's got Aquarius or other (dont get too close to me to soon) sign in those placements- she may have been liking the friend thing- which you crossed the line- and felt a little trapped when she wants to be free or isnt really free!.
You sound like a nice guy- let it go for now!. Maybe try and approach her and apologize and state your mistake and then let it go!. Dont do the email text thing- face to face if you can and really apologize for saying that (use devil's advocate and approach the matter from her viewpoint, but dont assume blatantly becuz there may be other issues than just the "L" word being mentioned)!. Www@Enter-QA@Com