Have any of you experienced and/or felt the weight of a Karmic relationship?!
Question: Have any of you experienced and/or felt the weight of a Karmic relationship!?
You know the deal!.!.!.you have some Karma to balance out with another person, so you can't live with them or live without them kind of a thing!. When it's good it's great, when it's not it hurts like hell, yet for some reason the two of you keep coming back around again because you have more to work on!.
Have any of you experienced this!? Are you going through something like that now!? I am, and it sucks!. Your Sun, Moon, Rising, Mercury, Venus, and Mars please also!. Thanks! :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Have any of you experienced this!? Are you going through something like that now!? I am, and it sucks!. Your Sun, Moon, Rising, Mercury, Venus, and Mars please also!. Thanks! :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Yes, I'm a Taurus/Pig and my b/f is a Cancer/Tiger!. We like each other a lot, but there are time when we fight and I believe it's due to difference in the way we handle things!. Before he came around I was going through some kind of trust yo-yo!. I could trust people, then I couldn't trust anyone and that kept on going and going!. Then he came and at a time where I felt that my trust just could not be earned by anyone - I was sick and tired of everyone taking advantage of me, and just recently he's been helping me get through it!. I still have my moments, but they are winding down!.
Astrologically speaking, my 2 signs are suppose to teach his 2 signs moderation!. Something that I notice he needs lot of sometimes!. He can be a little excessive, but I'm sure we came into each others lives for a reason!. I hope once we have learned what we have to learn from each other that we stay together!. There are good times, and painful times, and they equally make me want to have him around me more!. Hopefully, what you are experiencing can help you appreciate the good with the bad!. ^_^Www@Enter-QA@Com
Astrologically speaking, my 2 signs are suppose to teach his 2 signs moderation!. Something that I notice he needs lot of sometimes!. He can be a little excessive, but I'm sure we came into each others lives for a reason!. I hope once we have learned what we have to learn from each other that we stay together!. There are good times, and painful times, and they equally make me want to have him around me more!. Hopefully, what you are experiencing can help you appreciate the good with the bad!. ^_^Www@Enter-QA@Com
When I was younger I used to hate 'goodbyes' - lol - but through my own experiences, I have come to understand that sometimes 'goodbyes' are necessary (even when they are painful ones)!.!.!.It's a part of life!.!.!.!.In relationships - (of any kind) I have no problems walking away (as politely as possible) from a bad relationship! Or cut ties and just deal with each other as friendly acquaintences!.!.!.!.but never anything extremely friendly or personal! It never works for me!.!.!.!.and I don't need to be bothered with unnecessary negativity nor would I want to be tempted with dishing out my own negativity towards them! (because I probably would - lol - just being honest)!.!.!.!.I would rather spend my time working on more productive and/or positive relationships and bonds that are more likely to stand the test of time!.!.!.!.but that's just me!.!.!.!.
Sun - Sagittarius
Moon - Scorpio
Rising - Capricorn
Mercury - Capricorn
Venus - Aquarius
Mars - Sagittarius
**** I was referring to all types of relationships! I was sort of an 'army brat' - I have moved around a lot throughout my life (and won't be surprised if I move again sometime - lol)!.!.!.!.I have already had plenty of practice with 'goodbyes' and also dealing with death's!.!.!.!.!.!.I do my best for myself and those I care about!.!.!.!.when someone does me wrong (or a loved one) - I have no issue with walking completely away from them - cut ties completely! Once I have done this - they stay cut out of my life and I do not look back! 'alwaysmoving4ward' is my screen name for many reasons and this is one of them! I always let them know when I am through with a bad relationship and others have always respected my wishes and stayed out of it! I stand firm and stand my ground! I keep my word and never sway! When I say something - I mean it to a fault! I have always managed to keep 'cut-off' relationships as a friendly aquaintence!.!.!.never rude or hostile - the only way any type of positive or productive energy to surface is to stay away from each other - and so I do! Negativity comes and goes!.!.!.!.no way around it - but I don't invite it!
********LOL - I know exactly what you are referring to - if I didn't learn something from the first go-around then the lesson is lost to me! - LOL - and will just have to manifest in some other way in order for me to learn it! - LOL - I am stubborn! It is my nature when it comes to these types of things! I have family that always comes around or shows up when they have somehow gotten themselves into some type of trouble!.!.!.looking for help or a bail out of their own responsiblities - I have helped before in the past (will probably help again) - but I will not allow them to take advantage of me and my family! I have been in situations you are referring to and when you put it all together - my lesson learned is that some people need to deal with their own crap - some people will never learn (and don't care to) no matter what you try to do for them - some people just like creating drama!.!.!.!.!.!.and I have also learned to let them keep their own drama/problems to themselves!-until THEY learn from it!.!.!.!.sometimes we just have to say no - as part of the lesson!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sun - Sagittarius
Moon - Scorpio
Rising - Capricorn
Mercury - Capricorn
Venus - Aquarius
Mars - Sagittarius
**** I was referring to all types of relationships! I was sort of an 'army brat' - I have moved around a lot throughout my life (and won't be surprised if I move again sometime - lol)!.!.!.!.I have already had plenty of practice with 'goodbyes' and also dealing with death's!.!.!.!.!.!.I do my best for myself and those I care about!.!.!.!.when someone does me wrong (or a loved one) - I have no issue with walking completely away from them - cut ties completely! Once I have done this - they stay cut out of my life and I do not look back! 'alwaysmoving4ward' is my screen name for many reasons and this is one of them! I always let them know when I am through with a bad relationship and others have always respected my wishes and stayed out of it! I stand firm and stand my ground! I keep my word and never sway! When I say something - I mean it to a fault! I have always managed to keep 'cut-off' relationships as a friendly aquaintence!.!.!.never rude or hostile - the only way any type of positive or productive energy to surface is to stay away from each other - and so I do! Negativity comes and goes!.!.!.!.no way around it - but I don't invite it!
********LOL - I know exactly what you are referring to - if I didn't learn something from the first go-around then the lesson is lost to me! - LOL - and will just have to manifest in some other way in order for me to learn it! - LOL - I am stubborn! It is my nature when it comes to these types of things! I have family that always comes around or shows up when they have somehow gotten themselves into some type of trouble!.!.!.looking for help or a bail out of their own responsiblities - I have helped before in the past (will probably help again) - but I will not allow them to take advantage of me and my family! I have been in situations you are referring to and when you put it all together - my lesson learned is that some people need to deal with their own crap - some people will never learn (and don't care to) no matter what you try to do for them - some people just like creating drama!.!.!.!.!.!.and I have also learned to let them keep their own drama/problems to themselves!-until THEY learn from it!.!.!.!.sometimes we just have to say no - as part of the lesson!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I feel that me and my boyfriend have a very strong karmic relationship!. Our relationship is just like you described - super ups and terrible downs, but we seem to always stick it through!. It's hard to even know how our relationship began or how we ended up together, it's like it just HAPPENED!. It's like we're always growing with eachother, as well - we always seem to have something more to say and learn from eachother, whether it's about ourselves or about others or about life in general!.
However, I do think my relationships with a couple of friends are also similar in their karmic nature (but perhaps not as strong) and my relationship with some family members are as well!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
However, I do think my relationships with a couple of friends are also similar in their karmic nature (but perhaps not as strong) and my relationship with some family members are as well!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
One of you has to be strong and offer the ultimatum either you go the hole hog or you brak up forever!. If you choose to be the strong one, you have to be able to accept the other's decision and move on knowing he made the right decision for him!. What you have to deal with is how his decision affects you and can you handle it and either unite forever or depart each others lives!. It's a thinker!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, many many times!. It seemed more pronounced when Pluto was transitting my vertex!. Or even outer planet transits in general!. I'm not experiencing such a relationship right now!. Thank God!. At least not any painful ones!. My current Karmic relationships seem to be about learning without the pain!. I think that letting go has something to do with it, not getting too attached!.
Virgo Sun/ Leo RisingWww@Enter-QA@Com
Virgo Sun/ Leo RisingWww@Enter-QA@Com
I wonder when you divorce, is that the finish of a Karma with that person or what you had to finish with that person!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Been married 3 times, my daughter developed schizophrenia, had a business which fail and partner left with $ from the merchandise, raised in an abusive family of alcoholics(sexual abuse from an older brother, my first husband was Vietnam vet died from basically grief -had to take him off life support and watch him die!.
yep, this has been a lifetime of karma--give and take!. Aries sun and mars, Capricorn Moon, Aquarius rising , mercury and venus in Pisces!.
Try to always find a way to serve ( Saturn in 6th house Leo) even in the depths of the painful lesson and go for the joy--find ways to anchor it in
your physicality!. I have a trine but it is a trine of malefics: south node,
Saturn, Mars in fire signs!. so the karma always burns deep!. I've had people who owed me from past lifetimes but is the pay back joyful!?---no!
Right now I have progressed Venus opposing my mid heaven as I sit
jobless watching my bank ( WAMU) possibly fail, my IRAs lose value,
and my social security possibly disappear,
but I am helping someone on Yahoo homework perfect his skills in
SAT writing!. You can either let a difficult chart defeat you ( like Hitler did with his mars-venus conjunction square his 10th house Saturn) or
you rather doggedly soldier on ( perhaps it is the Aries speaking) through your own inadequacies and failures, you learn the paradox of the human condition: we are angels and we are beasts!. Now can we
just sit with this in ourselves and others and make conscious choices!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
yep, this has been a lifetime of karma--give and take!. Aries sun and mars, Capricorn Moon, Aquarius rising , mercury and venus in Pisces!.
Try to always find a way to serve ( Saturn in 6th house Leo) even in the depths of the painful lesson and go for the joy--find ways to anchor it in
your physicality!. I have a trine but it is a trine of malefics: south node,
Saturn, Mars in fire signs!. so the karma always burns deep!. I've had people who owed me from past lifetimes but is the pay back joyful!?---no!
Right now I have progressed Venus opposing my mid heaven as I sit
jobless watching my bank ( WAMU) possibly fail, my IRAs lose value,
and my social security possibly disappear,
but I am helping someone on Yahoo homework perfect his skills in
SAT writing!. You can either let a difficult chart defeat you ( like Hitler did with his mars-venus conjunction square his 10th house Saturn) or
you rather doggedly soldier on ( perhaps it is the Aries speaking) through your own inadequacies and failures, you learn the paradox of the human condition: we are angels and we are beasts!. Now can we
just sit with this in ourselves and others and make conscious choices!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes!. It's such a hard thing too because like you said when it's good it's great but when it's not it hurts like hell!. So true!. This person and I have had a romantic relationship for two years and then the last 2 years were on/off fighting/flirting/loving/hating after he got into a new relationship!. Basically his now wife found out about the two of us (we were long distance) and he lied, while I told her the truth!. Things got very ugly from there and turned into a he said/she said thing constantly!. The girl and I tried to get along and we only did when he broke up with her because she knew I knew him like she did relationship wise so I was able to offer her advice!. Long story short in May he texted me one night at 1A his time and told me that we both knew we wished things were how they used to be but he can't confirm or deny that!. Basically he confirmed that he did still need me and then we got into another huge fight because his fiancee (yes they were engaged at the time he was telling me all of this) found out about him saying that and the three of us had a huge blowout!. I haven't spoken to him since, but I think about him everyday!. I can't help but to feel that we are connected on a seemingly spiritual/soul level no matter what his wife thinks!. But I've learned that sometimes things just don't work out and you have to let them go!. The funny part is somehow one of us ALWAYS ends up going back to the other, no matter what!. In these past 5 years now we have had several big fights but always end up making up and decide to be friends!. I just don't feel like I can do it anymore, I told him it's all or nothing!. He obviously chose nothing, so it's time to move on!.
Ahhh, what a good vent session!. Great question!.
Sagittarius sun
Taurus moon
Capricorn rising
Scorpio Mercury
Capricorn Venus
Scorpio Mars
His sun is Capricorn, Moon is Sagittarius, Rising is Aries, Venus is Sagittarius, Mars is Aries and Mercury is Aquarius!.!.!. See why we got along!!?! Perhaps we're astrologically linked ;) Too bad he married that Virgo!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ahhh, what a good vent session!. Great question!.
Sagittarius sun
Taurus moon
Capricorn rising
Scorpio Mercury
Capricorn Venus
Scorpio Mars
His sun is Capricorn, Moon is Sagittarius, Rising is Aries, Venus is Sagittarius, Mars is Aries and Mercury is Aquarius!.!.!. See why we got along!!?! Perhaps we're astrologically linked ;) Too bad he married that Virgo!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have friend like that, we have been friends over 10 years now, we stopped talking for about 4 years, it was just a hi, bye, hug and go our seperate ways relationship!. I think it was because I felt like she had no respect for me!. I grew past it, I became more open with her and kinda swept the situation under the rug!. I treat her like nothing happened, it's like killing her with my kindness!. I forgave her in my heart, but just in case she ever crosses that line with me in the future, I can't allow myself to forget!. I may need to be reminded someday that trust and respect has to be earned!. We are like the best of friends now, but I realize that if she was capable of selfishly disrespecting me before, she's capable of selfishly doing it again!. As her friend I've seen her do some really slimey things to people she is close with, so I know her well!. Really well!. Good luck, hope you learn your lesson, I guess I'm learning another with this Gemini!Www@Enter-QA@Com