When strangers are mean to you?!
Question: When strangers are mean to you!?
why do you think this!?
like for example, some people can just be plain rude and when you already feel down it can be horible!. do u have a theory on why strangers are rude!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
like for example, some people can just be plain rude and when you already feel down it can be horible!. do u have a theory on why strangers are rude!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
i have no theory it's just the arrogance of the human society!.
it doesn't bother me!. when people are mean to me, i stare them down and look them in the eye and walk away!.
scorpio moon and venus!. (venus in retrograde)Www@Enter-QA@Com
it doesn't bother me!. when people are mean to me, i stare them down and look them in the eye and walk away!.
scorpio moon and venus!. (venus in retrograde)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a waitress and some people are just ******* for no reason to me!. So I just don't give them good service because I can't tell them off!. It does bother me, it makes me think that those people weren't raised right!. I don't show them any respect if they are rude to me!.
My theory is that people who are rude to others feel inadequate in some way about themselves and they just want to make others feel bad to make themselves feel better about themselves!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My theory is that people who are rude to others feel inadequate in some way about themselves and they just want to make others feel bad to make themselves feel better about themselves!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I just look at them like they're crazy and keep it moving!. The fact that they don't know me makes it easy for me not to give a damn about their attitude!. I mostly run into people like that when I go through the drive-thru at fast food restaurants!. When they're rude the first thing that goes through my mind is "damn I didn't make you take this job!." Either way, I don't let that ruin my mood!. I'm always nice to strangers and I always smile and talk to them with manners!. Once they're rude to me I won't waste anymore of my good manners on them but I'll always still be nice to strangers until they give me a reason not to be =)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Honestly, I don't feel too bad because I probably had it coming!. When I'm around people who I think I'll never get to know like a mall or a campus, I walk so arrogantly that I'm just asking for trouble! I know I should change that but I like myself that way so whatever!. *shrugs shoulders* Everything's fine!. ;)
That or maybe they're having a bad day and they see you having a grand time and they get jealous!. Too bad!. You'd think that you're offended by their rudeness but they're probably getting torn up seeing how well you're doing compared to how crappy their day is going so just ignore them!.
Virgo Moon!. Aries Venus!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
That or maybe they're having a bad day and they see you having a grand time and they get jealous!. Too bad!. You'd think that you're offended by their rudeness but they're probably getting torn up seeing how well you're doing compared to how crappy their day is going so just ignore them!.
Virgo Moon!. Aries Venus!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You know, I often think about this myself!.!.!.!.Here is my theory: We all get mad at the world from time to time, no!? I often feel like killing someone at least a few times a day!. However, those of us with a bit of tact keep that inside ourselves and learn to vent our anger privately!. Then there are the people that just don't care!. They use projection to take their anger out on the next person that gets in their way!. I guess it gives them a sense of release to feel like they are dominating their environment!. Instead of battling their anger internally, they'd rather just let it out on you!.!.!.They know they probably won't see you again, so what do they have to lose!? Maybe they feel a bit of satisfaction from your pain, helping them escape from their own problems!.
So, to answer your question, yes it does bother me!. It is uncalled for, and just plain!.!.well!.!.!.rude!. I'd love to tell a bunch of random strangers to F off, but that doesn't mean I'm going to do it!. Some people are more blunt than others, though!. We're all different, and we all handle things differently!. I say, laugh it off and let those people go through their cruel little lives!. One day they're going to act rudely to the wrong person and get the living bajeezus beaten out of them!.
Cancer Moon, Sadge VenusWww@Enter-QA@Com
So, to answer your question, yes it does bother me!. It is uncalled for, and just plain!.!.well!.!.!.rude!. I'd love to tell a bunch of random strangers to F off, but that doesn't mean I'm going to do it!. Some people are more blunt than others, though!. We're all different, and we all handle things differently!. I say, laugh it off and let those people go through their cruel little lives!. One day they're going to act rudely to the wrong person and get the living bajeezus beaten out of them!.
Cancer Moon, Sadge VenusWww@Enter-QA@Com
I know this is hard to do as I am also sensitive being Cancer myself but dont let it bother you!. You will never see them again anyway so who are they to put you in a bad mood!.They are insignificant in your life!.Mabe they are having a bad day, or someone was rude to them earlier too!.At least know in your heart that you are a better person than them!.Even confront them and tell them that they are being rude, or just brush it off!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a 'smiley' - 'hello' - kind of person! I will hold doors open for strangers and even let them know if they've dropped something (like money out of their pockets or purses)!.!.!.I always try to smile at people (kind of built way - plus a habit from working with the general public for forever!-lol)
It kind of hurts my feelings that some days it seems there are more negative people out there than there are 'nice' people!.!.!.!.I've had people give me nasty, hateful looks while I try to pass on a positive vibe out into the world - even when I am down or feeling bad I will still try to be positibive! With people that I know and/or work with - I have been known to call them out on their 'negativity'!!!!! If it is undeserved - then WTF is your problem dude!?! And will usually recieve an apology at some point from the negative pooper slinger! I think that some people live such rough lives that it almost becomes normal for them - if people don't let them know how they can cause others to feel!.!.!.then they honestly have no idea - I don't have a problem enlightening them! I don't like 'excuses' - No matter how we live, have lived or want to live - we all have choices to be nice or not! I believe in putting out into the world what you want to receive! Nice matters!
Sagittarius sun
Scorpio moon
Aquarius venusWww@Enter-QA@Com
It kind of hurts my feelings that some days it seems there are more negative people out there than there are 'nice' people!.!.!.!.I've had people give me nasty, hateful looks while I try to pass on a positive vibe out into the world - even when I am down or feeling bad I will still try to be positibive! With people that I know and/or work with - I have been known to call them out on their 'negativity'!!!!! If it is undeserved - then WTF is your problem dude!?! And will usually recieve an apology at some point from the negative pooper slinger! I think that some people live such rough lives that it almost becomes normal for them - if people don't let them know how they can cause others to feel!.!.!.then they honestly have no idea - I don't have a problem enlightening them! I don't like 'excuses' - No matter how we live, have lived or want to live - we all have choices to be nice or not! I believe in putting out into the world what you want to receive! Nice matters!
Sagittarius sun
Scorpio moon
Aquarius venusWww@Enter-QA@Com
I get really angry and upset, but I almost never do anything or even say anything about it!. I'm really passive aggressive so altho I get mad super easy, i hold it in!. I'm way too sensitive really, I really need to learn to not sweat the small stuff and to laugh off stupid comments or behavior, but any sort of disrespect always pisses me off!.
moon in leo, venus in cancerWww@Enter-QA@Com
moon in leo, venus in cancerWww@Enter-QA@Com
No!. They don't know me!. Their mood has nothing to do with me!. I see no reason to take it personally!. But strangers are rarely rude to me except maybe over the phone!. That might be because, as I've been told, I have a real girly voice!. ;) Leo Asc commands respect!.
They are probably rude because they had a crappy day or life!. Who knows!? You'll never see them again!.
Virgo Sun/ Leo MoonWww@Enter-QA@Com
They are probably rude because they had a crappy day or life!. Who knows!? You'll never see them again!.
Virgo Sun/ Leo MoonWww@Enter-QA@Com
Yes!. You are not the only one!. People seem not to care about hurting your feelings so today!. You just need to believe in your self, and walk away from mean people!. Have a good home life, and be able to retreat when you are hurt!. But, never give up on good people!. There are sweet people still out in the world!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes!. They too are having a bad day OR life has treated them so badly that that is the only way they know how to respond!. Just pay no attention to their rudeness & always respond with a smile and a kind word,regardless of their attitude!. 2 wrongs do not make a right!. Sorry to hear you are not feeling well & hope you get to feeling better soon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
They either -
1!. have no life
2!. are jealous
3!. are extremely sad
4!. love *trying* to bring people down
It doesn't bother me,strangers can't be mean to me since it doesn't really hurt me!.
Sagittarius moon
Leo Venus
*hey,if I have Sag moon and Venus Leo,it means I get along extremely good with myself!yay!
jk ;DWww@Enter-QA@Com
1!. have no life
2!. are jealous
3!. are extremely sad
4!. love *trying* to bring people down
It doesn't bother me,strangers can't be mean to me since it doesn't really hurt me!.
Sagittarius moon
Leo Venus
*hey,if I have Sag moon and Venus Leo,it means I get along extremely good with myself!yay!
jk ;DWww@Enter-QA@Com
i get really pissed off at first but then i realize that they are just wannabe full of themselves conceided beyotches that are very insecure on the inside!. I try to be nice to everyone, even if they are rude to me!.If someone is rude I usually stay quiet and have minimal contact!.
Pisces Moon
Virgo VenusWww@Enter-QA@Com
Pisces Moon
Virgo VenusWww@Enter-QA@Com
i try to be nice anyway!. my mom always told me that if someone is rude its probably not because of you but because they have something bad going on in their life, like they cant pay their bills or just found out someone died or something!.
oh my moons libra and venus is mars if that mattersWww@Enter-QA@Com
oh my moons libra and venus is mars if that mattersWww@Enter-QA@Com
Well, what are going to do about its just how some people are!. we cant do anything about!. We need to stop on trying to understands others and start on understanding ourselves on how to react when we interact with others!. Now that helps!.
by the way my moon is ARies and My venus is capricorn
my sun sagg, scorpio rising!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
by the way my moon is ARies and My venus is capricorn
my sun sagg, scorpio rising!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
My moon is venus!.
I like how two strangers can meet and fall in love!. But!.!.!.!.!.
Dont have any time for these people that are horrible cause theyre wasting space in your life that could be used to fit somebody else in!.
Cherish those who love you, brush off those who dont!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I like how two strangers can meet and fall in love!. But!.!.!.!.!.
Dont have any time for these people that are horrible cause theyre wasting space in your life that could be used to fit somebody else in!.
Cherish those who love you, brush off those who dont!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
yes it annoys the crap out of me! especially when i used to work as a waitress and i was already having a horrible day and the customers would just automatically make it 20x worse!
ppl in this world can be cruel and im sick of it!Www@Enter-QA@Com
ppl in this world can be cruel and im sick of it!Www@Enter-QA@Com
i think they are insecure!.!.!.!.!. and something bad happenned to them!.!.!.!. i don't really care about them!.!.!.!.!.!.!. they are strangers!.!.!.!. in my case i'm really not bothered about them!.!.!.!.!. i prefer to free my mind from their stupidity, it's more healthy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Don't sweat it, people are *******!.
Take it as a sick compliment that a person chose you!. There was something special about you that made their day that much more worst because generally strangers who are d!cks are having a bad day!. And by bad, I mean horrible!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Take it as a sick compliment that a person chose you!. There was something special about you that made their day that much more worst because generally strangers who are d!cks are having a bad day!. And by bad, I mean horrible!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
well yeah i get even more upset but they do that cause they don't want to be the only sad people and they enjoy nowing that there r not the only person sad!!!! thats wat i think!!!! and im not sure about the moon sorry!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I really don't pay much attention to it!. Those types are usually that way to everyone who crosses their path!.
Scorpio with Aquarius moon, Venus in CapricornWww@Enter-QA@Com
Scorpio with Aquarius moon, Venus in CapricornWww@Enter-QA@Com
Because they have had a really bad day therefore are in a pessimistic mood!.
It doesnt bother me , You never know what a persons been through!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It doesnt bother me , You never know what a persons been through!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because they are probably feeling down too :(Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because they are pricks or envious of whoever!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
there just plain mean people!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
NEVER TRUST A STRANGER OLD ADDAGEWww@Enter-QA@Com
it has nothing to do with astrology, i dont think
my moon and venus are both in scorpioWww@Enter-QA@Com
my moon and venus are both in scorpioWww@Enter-QA@Com
Hey Kristy :D !.!.!.was someone rude to you!? Ugh!. I hate that!! You can't believe how irritated I get & how much it bothers me!. I run it in my head over & over ;[ !.!.!.I try to be really polite with people!.!.!.no matter if I am angry I really try to not blame other people & be rude!. I'm not perfect!.!.!.I can be rude sometimes, but I keep it to myself most of the time!. When other people are rude!.!.!.I'm like "wtf did I do to you!?" in my head!. It's a downer depending on the situation!. People that do it are either angry that day, use it as a defences so people don't step all over them, or they are boosting their ego!. Picking on the nice & sweet people just to feel better :P It bothers me when they do that! When I get rudeness I tend to get overly rude back & I don't shut up >_< I get really impulsive sometimes!. But, I do manage to keep the peace with others!.!.!.!.I stay as calm as possible!.!.no matter how hard it is!. Agian not perfect I do attack other times!. But, see if it was accidental or on purpose!. If they are just blowing of steem!.!.ok fine!.!.!.if its on purpose & they do it just because!.!.it's not fine!. It just bothers me & it runs laps in my head when I think about afterwards!. I try to figure out why & sort out my mood!. People suck sometimes!.!.!.thats all!. I hope that helped :DWww@Enter-QA@Com